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SHANA

@ShanUlas

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: kiranpreethee
Exactly what I would have done. Though she lives in a village, she has a degree and is supposed to love him to death and all because of her ego and jhooti izzat, everything just evaporated.

yes her marriage decision is just an impulsive reaction a teenager in love would have to her lover who just said no

kumud is always proud...and never goes into depth why...why my love said NO...he is broken ...why he is running away...coz he does not wat to see her life doomed to darkness like his own...why so why...coz saras is not at all in his minds...he has been emotionally mutilated by Guman and her tattu...who was once his very own father ...he told all this did not he ...then why kumud why u dont understant and read between his lines

once he said he has feelings for her...and deviji went in night to his room to know the truth...cant she go dubai to know what her love is facing...well when u keep karva chauth ka vrat ...u do dare to do such bold things...and u should...karva chauth ka vrat is not just fashion ...it means u will be savitri to ur man satyavaan !

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reyaansh-kria

@reyaansh-kria

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

Shana,

That can be expected from a person who is in the right state of mind. Think about Kumud's state, the girl had been hyper about her wedding initially, having given everything to the man she loves; she was all so excited to be his in the public eye forever. Thus the happiness but at the same time she was sad coz she was about to leave her home but there was a fear since her lover hadn't called since the last 2 days and suddenly when she sees his call she can't help but blabber whatever comes in her mind and that is her nature. A khichdi(mixture) of all these reactions and suddenly out of the blue she is knocked by a avalanche that meri toh barat hi nahi aayegi. Do u really expect her to be all so fit and fine and behave like u me or anybody of us can. Besides that, She doesn't know the whole story either. We as viewers have a wider frame of knowledge than her. What she did was not ego/not impulsiveness/not revenge/rebound. It was just the pain which she couldn't bear anymore.

Always remember Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned!

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SHANA

@ShanUlas

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: reyaansh-kria
Shana,
That can be expected from a person who is in the right state of mind. Think about Kumud's state, the girl had been hyper about her wedding initially, having given everything to the man she loves; she was all so excited to be his in the public eye forever. Thus the happiness but at the same time she was sad coz she was about to leave her home but there was a fear since her lover hadn't called since the last 2 days and suddenly when she sees his call she can't help but blabber whatever comes in her mind and that is her nature. A khichdi(mixture) of all these reactions and suddenly out of the blue she is knocked by a avalanche that meri toh barat hi nahi aayegi. Do u really expect her to be all so fit and fine and behave like u me or anybody of us can. Besides that, She doesn't know the whole story either. We as viewers have a wider frame of knowledge than her. What she did was not ego/not impulsiveness/not revenge/rebound. It was just the pain which she couldn't bear anymore.

Always remember Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned!

i agree with u reya...thats why i feel both deserve to suffer...if u cant keep balance understand the man u love ...u do end up breaking urself and the man ul ove

which saras kumud r eventually doing ...saras took a devasting decision in a imblanced state of mind and kumud is four step further when it comes to balance

so end result ...life long sorrow ...saras will come for sure and break again forever and kumud will always live saying i hate u while her heart will always launge for saras...and so we get a tragic love story

as for ur last line i would say that its woman again who is the healer to all

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poorva

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Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: shana0127

plus i did see the dialogues...saras was in pain...and any body would hear him and say that its mad man talking not saras ...then how come kumud did not see this

exactlyy !!!! she was so pained herself we understand, but she missed out the pain in his words, she missed seeing why and with what reason he was saying all that n his tone very clearly showed the pain n helplessness!!!

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SHANA

@ShanUlas

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Posted: 12 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: poorvab

exactlyy !!!! she was so pained herself we understand, but she missed out the pain in his words, she missed seeing why and with what reason he was saying all that n his tone very clearly showed the pain n helplessness!!!

she did not feel it coz she was too engrossed in her rejection...something that always takes her on nerves and hurts her big ego

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happychappy

@happychappy

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Posted: 12 years ago

#26

Love you Shana! 🤗 WHere were you?

I've been a very lonely soul, trying to say the same as you, but not managing to say it so well as you!

The man who came to see her on Karva Chaut was not the same person who spoke to her on the phone... And she didnt seem to notice, even. How odd is that?

Anyways, nice to see your post in a sea of "saras-bashers"! 😊

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omshreejaanu

@omshreejaanu

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Posted: 12 years ago

#27

I believe in to err is human!! I wud have leave it there!! I mean after I did everything i cud to reason it out of him, i consoled, cried n begged.
But i wud never marry a stranger n i dont think my family wud propose that either. I wud just try to get a grip of myself n try to move on. A new beginning!! N if it meant to b between us then may it will. Time is a great healer!!
That is just a normal reaction but this is a show cant expect that much rationality right???

Edited by omshreejaanu - 12 years ago

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SHANA

@ShanUlas

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Posted: 12 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: happychappy
Love you Shana! 🤗 WHere were you?

I've been a very lonely soul, trying to say the same as you, but not managing to say it so well as you!

The man who came to see her on Karva Chaut was not the same person who spoke to her on the phone... And she didnt seem to notice, even. How odd is that?

Anyways, nice to see your post in a sea of "saras-bashers"! 😊

chappy i do understand kumud...but then i know only one thing...she dared to love a man who was not at all emotionally stable...she had seen his emotinal tantrums...then why suddenly she stopped feeling all.

when u love man like saras ...u take a great risk ...coz such people r always in need of emotional booster...such people r always on emotional help ...they need emotional nursing forever ...Alas Kumud failed to see this ...she loves him but she still needs to understand his emotional needs

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reyaansh-kria

@reyaansh-kria

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Posted: 12 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: shana0127

i agree with u reya...thats why i feel both deserve to suffer...if u cant keep balance understand the man u love ...u do end up breaking urself and the man ul ove

which saras kumud r eventually doing ...saras took a devasting decision in a imblanced state of mind and kumud is four step further when it comes to balance

so end result ...life long sorrow ...saras will come for sure and break again forever and kumud will always live saying i hate u while her heart will always launge for saras...and so we get a tragic love story

as for ur last line i would say that its woman again who is the healer to all

Shana,

I have to disagree here. Not that I say their love was eternal or sth since I feel they never reached that tangent(neither of them) but what Saras did is beyond repair. Since the start the writers have shown us that how Saras is kaccha in relationships(coz of his reasons) but his reaction was sth which neither of us ever expected(given that we know more about him than kumud😆). If my man ever breaks my heart then I would've reacted exactly like Kumud. First she took it as a joke then she thought he is postponing it and then the realisation took over her which led to her turbulent struggles be it begging, pleading, terrorizing. All she could see was his rejection once again w/o any reasoning. She cried and cried while he pathetically escaped the situation by hanging up. Kumud stood up and tried what she could do her best since she knows there's no coming back from his side

. Jo uski tadap na sun paya woh kya laut ke aayega aur aaya bhi toh kyu apnaye woh uss premi ko jisne akhiri mod par hath chudha liya aur chodh dia usse hazaro tohmate sehne ke liye.

For the last line, Woman might be the healer but only in the times when she isn't betrayed. A scorned woman would be much worse than the treatment in hell. That's how complicated we women are 😆

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SHANA

@ShanUlas

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Posted: 12 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: omshreejaanu
I believe in to err is human!! I wud have leave it there!! I mean after I did everything i cud to reason it out of him, i consoled, cried n begged.
But i wud never marry a stranger n i dont think my family wud propose that either. I wud just try to get a grip of myself n try to move on. A new beginning!! N if it meant to b between us then may it will. Time is a great healer!!
That is just a normal reaction but this is a show cant expect that much rationality right???

thats really honest omi😊

u did it all as kumud ...but then girl like kumud cant do more ...she can dare to love a man like saras ...then should could dare to knock him to senses too .love gives strnghth to fight all odds...and kumuds love for saras has it...its only that kumud needed to belive in her love and unseen power she has on him

alas she decided to sit and cry rather then use the powere sarss vested in her by loving her ...i know i am being philosophical...but then saras like people r very easy to handle by the strong woman like kumud...saying it by experience 😉😆

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