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Posted: 12 years ago
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yes i truly agree wid u. the story is getting too unbearable and im afraid i might not watch sc anymore. if i were kumud, i too wud say that marriage can wait and cud have went over to dubai to comfort saras and tell him that kumud is on his side, marriage can wait, we can act like husbsnd wife from now and i want act as your wife by being supportive. why cvs have not portrayed kumud as supportive as if she loves saras, she will support him, not just marriage, they have to start acting as husband wife too, and that is the sign of a good relation.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nabiii

If i were in kumud place 1st i never agreed with my father's proposal to marry an unknown guy n my father also never did force me. Marriage isn't a ludoo play that mera maan kaar ra ha toh mai kaar lu aur maan nahi kaar ra ha toh toor du! I disgust on exorbitent sanskar of kumud's family.
Then i tried to contact with saras n found out what saras's real prblm..if i didn't find him or covince him i would sue against him in betrayal case then concentrated on my career properly n didn't think abt marriage atleast in next 5 years.



now thats like my girl 👏

never ever be so impulsive the way saras and kumud r

plus if u really love saras as kumud then u surely know him more then urself dont u ...u as kumud surely could feel his pain and depression he is into...did not kumud always read pain in his eyes ...then why suddenly so much hatred 😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunshine2408

yes i truly agree wid u. the story is getting too unbearable and im afraid i might not watch sc anymore. if i were kumud, i too wud say that marriage can wait and cud have went over to dubai to comfort saras and tell him that kumud is on his side, marriage can wait, we can act like husbsnd wife from now and i want act as your wife by being supportive. why cvs have not portrayed kumud as supportive as if she loves saras, she will support him, not just marriage, they have to start acting as husband wife too, and that is the sign of a good relation.



i agree they have made kumud so incoherent in her character...suddenly she is all radha sita and suddenly ...tu mera kaun ...if saras cant see clearly in his imbalanced my then at least kumud should...but yahaan to kumud is chaar kadam aagey in foolishness
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Posted: 12 years ago
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excellent post!!

i have loved and admired kumud's character but today i feel her ego came into play! even if she wants to get over saras, which she should bcoz he rejected her n all, she doesnt need to hurry into another marriage, it seemed purely to show saras she is good without him - that is her ego!

and love shdnt have ego, it should have more understanding, she should have tried to understand his POV and what he has gone through before taking her own decision. yes, he broke the marriage a day before the D-day, but then atleast find out the reason! she begged him to change his decision but didnt really insist on finding out his feelings or thoughts! i didnt like it :( and had i been in her place, would never take such a hasty decision!

they say "never make any promises when ur happy and never take any decisions when ur angry" - this is valid for both saras and kumud - both rushed to finalize decisions in the heat of the moment instead of talking it out!

if one person in a relationship is mentally disturbed for some reason and refuses to reveal the reason and even wants to break up for the benefit for the other person, it doesnt mean u just accept it and break up! if u do, that shows the weakness of the relation. i personally have faced it and overcome it ! it needs patience to make the other person talk, give the person time to calm down and share his feelings. she should have asked him to rethink on his decision and call her back!

Edited by poorvab - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Exactly what I would have done. Though she lives in a village, she has a degree and is supposed to love him to death and all because of her ego and jhooti izzat, everything just evaporated.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Easier said than done Shana..that's all I can say..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shana Hugs 🤗dear for such a lovely post
sensibe points and too many options for twist back
If i were in Kumuds place
all i needed was time to calm me down
by next day when i would call Saras
he will also be cool cool baby and apologise for last nites outburst.
no khich khich no dubai return ticket expenses and no Visa problems 😉





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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: vaishali-AR

Easier said than done Shana..that's all I can say..



well u love somebody with such depth as shown then u do as i said

i have not at all been dramatic in writing what i wrote instead i put myself into her shoes and then wrote...coz as far as i know she had she is married to him by soul then why forsake this soul connection so suddenly


plus i did see the dialogues...saras was in pain...and any body would hear him and say that its mad man talking not saras ...then how come kumud did not see this

i have been lucky with my man but then there r times when u go in some depression or anger...and speak things...but then i always know when my man is mad and when in senses ...specially when u fall for a man with fluctuating continence...kumud dared ...i bravo her ...but then she faltered when a real trying time came...

u take risk when u love men like saras ...coz such people r always in need of emotional help ...and u need to understand

sorry here after really understanding saras character ...which i presumed kumud did know ...the reaction of kumud is quit inconsistent ...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: zzoombie

Shana Hugs 🤗dear for such a lovely post
sensibe points and too many options for twist back
If i were in Kumuds place
all i needed was time to calm me down
by next day when i would call Saras
he will also be cool cool baby and apologise for last nites outburst.
no khich khich no dubai return ticket expenses and no Visa problems 😉






good short cut...lol...but then i agree ..u said best way out ...i too do same with my difficult friends
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: poorvab

excellent post!!


i have loved and admired kumud's character but today i feel her ego came into play! even if she wants to get over saras, which she should bcoz he rejected her n all, she doesnt need to hurry into another marriage, it seemed purely to show saras she is good without him - that is her ego!

and love shdnt have ego, it should have more understanding, she should have tried to understand his POV and what he has gone through before taking her own decision. yes, he broke the marriage a day before the D-day, but then atleast find out the reason! she begged him to change his decision but didnt really insist on finding out his feelings or thoughts! i didnt like it :( and had i been in her place, would never take such a hasty decision!

they say "never make any promises when ur happy and never take any decisions when ur angry" - this is valid for both saras and kumud - both rushed to finalize decisions in the heat of the moment instead of talking it out!

if one person in a relationship is mentally disturbed for some reason and refuses to reveal the reason and even wants to break up for the benefit for the other person, it doesnt mean u just accept it and break up! if u do, that shows the weakness of the relation. i personally have faced it and overcome it ! it needs patience to make the other person talk, give the person time to calm down and share his feelings. she should have asked him to rethink on his decision and call her back!



u said it all in bolds ...love u ...as for saras kumud ...they r two impulsive idiots in love...one to emotionally weak and another to self esteemed to really love sanely

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