Crisp Bytes SC - 21st May 13 - Page 8

Originally posted by: hotdogg

@arshi

Tumhare chavi pani main nahi utari

Jo ek tarang se bikhar jayegi

Tumhari chavi mere dil main utari hai

Jise main khud bhi kabhi mita nahi paaongi

Originally posted by: happychappy

Repeating myself here, but...

I was one who actually thought yesterday's episode was Too lovey-dovey, then I went back to rewatch after reading stuff here, and I couldnt stop! Dangerous place this is...😆

Originally posted by: arshicritic

No, I think Kumud chaid and meant Chavi, chavi means silhouette, or image

and what she was saying was that ypu have made an impression(image) not on water, that any ripples would disturb it, your impression is etched on my heart, and even I myself will not be able to erase it!!

She accepted that their love was inevitable, and she would never be able to stop loving him!

Originally posted by: kaadal

- I think it was Preity Zinta the actress who had made a very pithy comment that in a relationship between two people, there is always one person among the two who loves the other less than the other. The person who loves less is the dominant person in the relationship because he/she has less to lose. Consequently the person who loves more sacrifices more and is somewhat subservient to the needs of the dominant partner...And this with all factors being equal i.e. you think you love each other the same...more of a subconscious behaviour..

@hotdogg, this line " the person who loves less is the dominant because he/she has less to lose.", if we compare it with the current scenario I will almost say it is Saras who has more to lose when compared to Kumud. He has never had anyone to love him nor had anyone to love, so Kumud should be the centre of his universe. As you say Kumud is definitely the person who has fallen in love with him many times but isn't it because she cared for him from the start, seeing his eyes she wanted to share his pain whereas Saras has fallen in love with her after coming here and knowing her. She has given him a new life and losing her would be the worst that could happen to him. Maybe for now we can say she loves him more, I feel it is only because she is mature in understanding love but I feel it is not still time to say he will be the dominant partner here.

kumud fell in love with saras (or at least the idea of saras as the love of her life) from the very beginning when she had the dream...she was convinced the person with the eyes is her true love...she agrees for the marriage just by seeing his eyes...

Originally posted by: hotdogg

@kaadal

sorry I missed responding to this...

my bet is still on kumud..refer her dialogue...

Tum toh dil tod ke bhi dekh chuke ho

Pyaar tab bhi kum nahi hua

kumud fell in love with saras (or at least the idea of saras as the love of her life) from the very beginning when she had the dream...she was convinced the person with the eyes is her true love...she agrees for the marriage just by seeing his eyes...

that went for a toss when saras refused and in the entire track which happened later...she had just buried her feelings deep and refused to even consider the possibility...what i am saying is that her love was unconditionally present from the beginning, buried and now out again...she took so many hits (the dialogue), yet continued to love him..

saras did not love her unconditionally, he made her run through the paces, refused to acknowledge (for the right reason because of his childhood trauma)...but his love was slightly conditional...even now he gets angry when she simply refuses to get jealous...imagine his reaction if she pulled a stunt like he did...

while its early days...kumud will end up sacrificing more just because she loves him more...and that's the way it goes in the novel too...

but this is a good hypothesis to park for now and evaluate as we progress further...

Originally posted by: vaishali-AR

I purposefully avoided visiting the forum today or commenting on any post..coz whatever spare time I got , I din't want to, for the first time, write or analyse anything ..just wanted to soak in the beauty of the episode as much as I could.. but these lines here by Smrth, again so beautifully worded, got me all excited to say something.. She indeed soothed him, pacified him, and freed him of all his perturbations with such calmness and patience ...like a mother would soothe her perplexed child.. Vintage Bhansali romance..The gratitude in his eyes when she empties her hand to wear the bangles from him was so beautifully portrayed..The kiss on her wrist looked like he worshipped her..I don't know what element of romance is this..but it brings tears to my eyes.. the scene ending with her teasing him with the compliment and then splashing water playfully both laughing, was like a happy ending to short story in itself...it felt that complete..

P.S- Great thread as usual Arshi !!!!

Originally posted by: Infofan

You do justice to GT's words, well translated Samarth.

Originally posted by: smrth

That day, when S was stamped on her palm, what were Cvs trying to show? She rushed to her Gods. She was euphoric. Her palm upturned and she was imbibing a feeling. That man, his essence, was captured and installed as integral part of herself...So what difference would it make to her now, whether she is physically involved or renounced later. For her, he has been 'imprinted' on her self, not palm, forever.