Guniyal erred and paid - Page 3

Originally posted by: vaishali-AR

what guest are you talking about? he has been like a family..been involved in family matters whether it was any celebration or any crisis.. I dont think Saras himself thinks he is a guest either.. Normal guests come, enjoy hospitality and leave..They dont stay for an indefinite time at their host's house and get involved in all family matter however good the intentions maybe..that too when you have come to reject the alliance..Why wouldn't Guniyal be angry at him for starting this whole thing with that infamous letter?? she blamed him for HIS mistakes not hers..

she could have got angry at him much earlier, why now!? It is because she can't take her husband's anger toward her! She is not ready to accept full responsibility! The husband is upset for hiding the truth! Not for the proposal rejection!

Originally posted by: Nkapoor3

she could have got angry at him much earlier, why now!? It is because she can't take her husband's anger toward her! She is not ready to accept full responsibility! The husband is upset for hiding the truth! Not for the proposal rejection!

Originally posted by: vaishali-AR

Now that is something I can agree with.. I so wish she blasted him earlier.. but well, who knew that even after all those eye locks, hand touching, waist touching and sweet talks .. our Saras dikra would STILL not have a change of mind.. Isnt it natural of her to think that over a period of time, perhaps the impending storm would evade on its own..But alas! our dikra is still confused !😕Guniyal gave him a very worthy advice today..'' Apology means nothing if you dont make up for it be taking responsibility..He NEEDS someone to guide him..that is exactly what he was looking for in the precap ''GUIDANCE''

he is taking responsibility! He is sorry for writing that letter! The anger of VC is not because of rejection! But the hiding of the truth! And guniyal should take responsibility for it! she should stop blaming Saras or Kumud! She got ample opportunity to tell her husband!

Great thread 👍🏼 and I agree with a lot of the posts here, so I'll just summarize my thoughts (and probably rehash most of what others have already said) since I feel the same way.

Gunyal is one of my favorite characters on this show because you can see her purity of heart and goodness throughout. She knew Saras came to reject her daughter but never made him feel unwelcome and did her utmost to care for him (recall the scenes after the Saras-Kumud argument in the fields and in general the way she looks at him with kind eyes). Yes my heart pined for Saras when she told him to leave today because I know Saras never intended to hurt anyone... but Gunyal knows that too! She wasn't blaming him, but rather the situation that he unknowingly created. She was simply pointing out his errors as a mother has the right to do.

As a mother trying to respect the relationship between a father and daughter (knowing the Kumud-VC relationship is deeper than the Kumud-Gunyal relationship) and as a woman concerned about the health and well-being of her husband, Gunyal's repeated interjections about delaying the news to VC until a better time is completely natural. But there were also many times where Gunyal encouraged Kumud to go and tell VC everything right away. The flip-flop occured as circumstances changed and the circumstances aren't completely in anyone's hands. We can be idealistic and say she had multiple opportunities to tell VC, but when you think about you own life, you can come up with personal examples of times when you just couldn't tell someone something. Not because you didn't want to, but because you didn't want to hurt them. Gunyal's "stuck-in-the-middle" position was portrayed very realistically IMO.

Of course Gunyal erred (as did Kumud and Saras and LN for marrying Guman in the first place) since we all know hiding the truth rarely results in good consequences. But as the initial post in this topic points out, she paid her price through her daughter's and husband's heartbreaks and the blemish that has now formed on a relationship so deeply rooted in trust. Those we love have the power to hurt us the most and when our loved ones break our trust, it kills.

Originally posted by: Nkapoor3

he is taking responsibility! He is sorry for writing that letter! The anger of VC is not because of rejection! But the hiding of the truth! And guniyal should take responsibility for it! she should stop blaming Saras or Kumud! She got ample opportunity to tell her husband!

Originally posted by: vaishali-AR

Its a matter of perspective.. You saw VC's anger and I saw his hurt..He was in tears when he looked at his wife and said '' itna kuchh ho gaya hamare bachhe ke sath aur mein kuchh nahi kar saka '' ( so much happened with our child and I could do nothing ) .. That was a father who was hurting to know that his daughter's dreams shattered before his eyes and he could do nothing..'' He knew Kumud had fallen in love with SC just by looking at his eyes.. Wouldn't it hurt a father to know his daughter is gonna be heartbroken? So ofcourse he was extremely hurt because of the broken alliance.. add to that the hurt he felt for Kumud who went through the crisis alone to save her father from the pain..It was that hurt which was coming out as anger..Both Saras and Kumud have made blunders and as an elder Guniyal has every right to scold them.. For her own mistakes she got reprimanded by her husband and she regrets it if you remember the kitchen scene

Saras had every right to reject the proposal! See nothing with it! And guniyal should have told VC About it

Originally posted by: Nkapoor3

Saras had every right to reject the proposal! See nothing with it! And guniyal should have told VC About it

Originally posted by: vaishali-AR

One rejects what one gets.. Saras didnt get the proposal. His family send it.. so where does the question of his right to reject come from? and is there any point saying the same thing over and over again. I tried to make you understand few things on your post and I gave up after a point..coz you just dont try to see things from a different perspective.. Just to clear it, I adore Saras as much as you do.. But that doesnt mean I will overlook his faults.. My topic says ''Guniyal erred and paid''...I think that itself explains that I agree she made a mistake in hiding the truth from her husband.. But that doesnt mean that she doesnt have the right to point out Saras's faults to him.. Infact its high time he takes up some responsibility.. either accept her or leave the place..

I still don't see the big issue in rejecting the proposal! But it was completely foolish to hide it from VC! And VC has every right to be angry with guniyal! And guniyal being a old lady should take responsibility rather than taking her anger out on a boy who is half her age!

Originally posted by: Nkapoor3

I still don't see the big issue in rejecting the proposal! But it was completely foolish to hide it from VC! And VC has every right to be angry with guniyal! And guniyal being a old lady should take responsibility rather than taking her anger out on a boy who is half her age!

100% agree with you.now i dont like coward saras character😡