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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Marybarton

Totally agree. I didn't feel mad at Gunial at all today. I just thought she was so protective and loving that it created a misunderstanding against her today. They all fell into Guman's trap. Don't think VC or Gunial were wrong.



Yes! This is what Guman wanted and she did achieve.. Creating mistrust and misunderstandings between husband wife and father daughter to make inroads..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Flora3333

I don't blame her at all! Both Kumud and her mother was in a situation not-so-convenient to spill out the truths! First the fire in factory and Vidyachatur becomes sick. Then the go-hatya fiasco and Saras's punishment. Right after that Gumaan landed in their house.


If someone is to be blamed, it has to be Yash's mother and Gumaan of course.



Yes..that was another reason..! Situations somehow were never conducive..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: passionalive

Actually the blame does not lie with only Guniyal..everyone is partly involved in this . just for the sake of Saras to stay in Ratnanagri, all this has happened 😆.


But Guniyal knew abt rejection. She could have atleast informed abt letter before Saras came there..its good that she understood kumud pain and tried to show her daughter mirror sometimes abt her ego..she accepted Saras also well..but talking abt all this rejection before atleast to VC could have been done..but then its a show and it wont run without some lies, some MUs..😉

Kumud has still not seen the world and worldly matters like her..she had already seen one rejection earlier..she could have atleast put effort from a mother , wife or say much mature person side to speak abt it to VC after the letter came..IMO 😊 ..agree she is also a human..she erred and gonna pay more than Kumud in eyes of VC..😭 she was right that VC will forgive Kumud but may be not her..😭 Poor her..she has to endure all heartbreaks..husband, daughter..

But then show could not have progressed 😆why Guniyal never asked these questions to Saras when he landed Ratnanagri? May be sometime alone in his room when VC was not there ..



Well, i feel for her.. Its easy to say this is right, that is wrong.. This SHOULD have been done.. But right is always not easy specially when it comes to people you love.. You always want to protect them from hurt.. Today VC was shouting at Kumud.. But his anger had so much hurt and pain FOR Kumud.. Knowing his daughter is in so much pain and he couldn't do anything about it was the reason he got so angry.. Remember him saying, '' I am the one who is supposed to soothe you in difficult times..why did you snatch away that right from me? '' that speaks volumes of what and who is most hurt for..! Obviously for his child...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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whenever something happens in life its nobody's fault..some things r beyond one's control and they r meant to happen..the events that lead to such situations r all meant to happen and no one can stop them...its a fact of life, the only difference being a serial's story can be controlled, but a real life story has a controller beyond a common man's reach!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: humeshaa


She did make an error and paid a huge price but I still commend her for the reasons you've mentioned. So far she has been the wise, calm and probably the most practical but today, it was but natural that she would get emotional and project it somehow. What I'm surprised about is that everyone seems to think she is blaming it all on Saras. She's not! The very first time Saras confronted her, she clearly stated that it was his inability to speak up in front of his parents and Kumud's ego/insistence of him coming - that led to this day. Had BOTH of them understood their responsibility rather then act on impulse, this situation could have been avoided. And if there was anything constructive said in today's episode, it was by Guniyal. Like you mentioned, She told him in clear words where his faults lie! Not as a blame but as a reminder of what is happening and why its happening. He thinks his acceptance will hurt Kumud. But Guniyal's words prove that it is just the opposite - his rejection is what is hurting her the most. This is exactly what he needs to hear! This is of UTMOST importance because whatever decision Saras makes will dictate how the story continues. With this, I rest my case, in defense of Guniyal Vidyachatur Desai!



👏👏👏 Three cheers to this reply!!!! This is EXACTLY what I am trying to say..She has clearly stated where the faults lie, for both Saras and Kumud.. How can we overlook Saras's fault? As much as I ADORE his character, I have to blame him first for writing the letter to Kumud. How on earth is Kumud or Guniyal for that matter supposed to know that he doesnt communicate with his father? That letter should have been addressed to VC. Period! Kumud's ego and pride stretched matters after he landed..If he came to reject her ..he should have spoken to VC the first thing instead of investing his time n energy to see her face.. HOW did it matter if he was gonna reject her anyway? They did make it a child's play.. Guniyal was right! Its very easy to say she could told her husband when every second she is watching him walk around with so much happiness and pride because of this alliance.. She didnt have the heart! simple! I am glad she told off Saras.. he needs to understand that he can not keep running away from relationships.. He had an opportunity today to protect Kumud from the hurt and pain..something he promised to do..could he? No!
@bold red- EXACTLY!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: vaishali-AR


Wow! Loved your reply :)) Being protective about your loved ones is one of the most important elements of love.. Why is Saras denying himself of Kumud? Because he wants to protect her from any hurt or harm that he associates himself with.. Guniyal for the same reason had kept quiet.. hoping against hope that with time maybe this rejection thing will never have to be brought up..specially looking at how Saras and Kumud are being there for each other in the most difficult of times..


Thank you! 😳 And I love your reply! 😉

Yes. Even if Guniyal and Vidyachatur are older than Kumud and Saras, and much more conservative, they have nurtured their children, and the relationships between their family members beautifully so far. They've built the haveli brick by brick as well. Thus, I believe there is absolutely no doubt that they are more than just an average husband and wife. They are definitely as much in tune with one another as Kumud and Saras, if not more. I really believe it was rational for Guniyal to try and protect her husband because of the reason you and I stated above! She was merely trying to protect her husband not because she's a dutiful wife, but because she genuinely loves him. And indeed Vidyachatur loves his wife as well! You can tell. She's stuck by his side throughout the years and based on what I can see from their short moments together, never once has she left him, and never once has he left her. That's true love also, just like Saras and Kumud! 😳

Kumud and Saras' emotional bond is too blatant and too strong. Rejection physically is already so difficult for the both of them to bear. There is no doubt that the emotional and spiritual bond that ties them together is something they cannot control. And the way Kumud has stuck by Saras (a quality she has indeed gotten from our beloved Guniyal) has no other way to be interpreted other than love... because humanity only goes so far! 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: veera25


Thank you! 😳 And I love your reply! 😉

Yes. Even if Guniyal and Vidyachatur are older than Kumud and Saras, and much more conservative, they have nurtured their children, and the relationships between their family members beautifully so far. They've built the haveli brick by brick as well. Thus, I believe there is absolutely no doubt that they are more than just an average husband and wife. They are definitely as much in tune with one another as Kumud and Saras, if not more. I really believe it was rational for Guniyal to try and protect her husband because of the reason you and I stated above! She was merely trying to protect her husband not because she's a dutiful wife, but because she genuinely loves him. And indeed Vidyachatur loves his wife as well! You can tell. She's stuck by his side throughout the years and based on what I can see from their short moments together, never once has she left him, and never once has he left her. That's true love also, just like Saras and Kumud! 😳

Kumud and Saras' emotional bond is too blatant and too strong. Rejection physically is already so difficult for the both of them to bear. There is no doubt that the emotional and spiritual bond that ties them together is something they cannot control. And the way Kumud has stuck by Saras (a quality she has indeed gotten from our beloved Guniyal) has no other way to be interpreted other than love... because humanity only goes so far! 😊


Let me tell you that you write beautifully! Please make posts so people can read your thoughts.. 😊 I agree..Guniyal comes across so calm composed, dutiful..When Sundar ba was accusing VC..she went on to say that Guniyal was the one who ruled the household.. That day I loved what VC said.. He said, she doesnt rule she has learnt to take up responsibilty..never claimed authority.. she has been giving the right advice to everyone including Dukhba, Kumud ..even VC about the mortgage thing.. Today she pointed out Saras's faults too.. So far he had heard that complaint only from Kumud and he might tend to think that she says it because she was hurt by the rejection.. Regardless of that what he did was not right..Glad Guniyal told him that.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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So many good posts here, loved reading them...👏
Guniyal tried to speak to VC, but as we know, script imperatives held her tongue tied!😛
But again she hit the nail when she asked Saras, 'should you write to her or us?'
And she was vigilant on Kumud's feelings too, time and again she cautioned her,' be careful about emotional entanglement- (physical, they are not even worried about)- for certain 'share' can be performed only in spousal relationship. The one, you are not arriving at.'
Anyways nice to see perceptive posts even on side characters. Meanwhile, today would be the day how our decent Hero is rebounding all about...😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Guniyal shouted at him and told him to leave! That is no way to treat a guest! She knew everything from the begginning! Why is she getting angry all of a sudden!? She is just blaming people for her own mistakes!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nkapoor3

Guniyal shouted at him and told him to leave! That is no way to treat a guest! She knew everything from the begginning! Why is she getting angry all of a sudden!? She is just blaming people for her own mistakes!


what guest are you talking about? he has been like a family..been involved in family matters whether it was any celebration or any crisis.. I dont think Saras himself thinks he is a guest either.. Normal guests come, enjoy hospitality and leave..They dont stay for an indefinite time at their host's house and get involved in all family matter however good the intentions maybe..that too when you have come to reject the alliance..Why wouldn't Guniyal be angry at him for starting this whole thing with that infamous letter?? she blamed him for HIS mistakes not hers..

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