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Posted: 12 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: usrfan

Was Mayank, Gunjan's first love or ...?
1>Falling in love with Mayank
That was not a mistake. It would be very difficult to not fall in love with him with all the romantic gestures he was doing till Gunjan was ready to marry him. Every girl wants to be treated like a princess and Mayank was doing a good job in that respect. He did his homework while watching hindi movies😆
2> Taking liberty on his life, getting him married to a devil.
Gunjan was put into a very sudden situation when Shayl showed the video that the whole misunderstanding was created by Seema/Sangeeta/Charu and get ready to become a bride. Wow, i would have said ...hold on...don't push me. Let me think. She should have said to Shayl that don't jump into conclusion that if the truth is out that I am going to forget everything right there because the hurt that Mayank gave to during the misunderstanding was lot more difficult to bear.
But Gunjan felt if Charu loves him so much then Mayank will be happy with her and then Seema chachi also wants that...then how can i think of myself. Let them all the happy. Her calculations were wrong. I don't think Shayl should have put a 18 year old into a situation like that. The marriage could have been broken and given the couple the time to patch up in their own time and terms.
3> Afterwards, continue to stay with them...
Shayl had promised Gunjan's mom and Gunjan cannot hurt Shayl but she should have kept a distance. Again I see Shayl's fault in this to a larger extent. She should understand that this is not possible for Mayank and Gunjan if they leave under the same roof.
3 mistakes of Gunjan's life.

Just my thoughts. No offence meant to anyone
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awh !!! Pehla pyaar would be pehla pyaar if you had a doosra pyaar😕
If not what would you call pehla pyaar🤔🤔" PYAAR" ya HAAR😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: brat2008

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Awh !!! Pehla pyaar would be pehla pyaar if you had a doosra pyaar😕
If not what would you call pehla pyaar🤔🤔" PYAAR" ya HAAR😕


1st love is simply just first love. There can be 2nd, 3rd and how ever many more. The meaning behind 1st is over rated and usually connect to a lot of heart breaks. "I lost my first love..."🤢

It looks good just in fairy tales.

The only thing that is special about is that its the first time, just like anything else you might do for the first time.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: starasdf


1st love is simply just first love. There can be 2nd, 3rd and how ever many more. The meaning behind 1st is over rated and usually connect to a lot of heart breaks. "I lost my first love..."🤢

It looks good just in fairy tales.

The only thing that is special about is that its the first time, just like anything else you might do for the first time.


WT*😲😲, u r such chupa rustam tara , my god u never told us...me and hashii has asked u so many time about this ..but u😡😡 ...waise who was he????😆😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: riva2987



WT*😲😲, u r such chupa rustam tara , my god u never told us...me and hashii has asked u so many time about this ..but u😡😡...waise who was he????😆😉



Nono Rivs, I just said that to give example. "You know the common dialogue. Maine mera pehla pyaar kho diya." -That line. But just in English cause I was too lazy. 😆.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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If you find the right person first then obviously its worth to say that first love is the only love and the love .. But If you find the wrong person then not worth it ..


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Posted: 12 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: starasdf



Nono Rivs, I just said that to give example. "You know the common dialogue. Maine mera pehla pyaar kho diya." -That line. But just in English cause I was too lazy. 😆.


what yaar🥱...sara mood kharab😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: pesi11

mayank itself is a big mistake that had happened on this show 😉


I have to disagree with your statement..Mayank is one of the four characters which gave the show its identity to begin with...In case u hadn't notice the first few months of the show was thriving on Gunjan-Mayank's relationship along with Rajeev-Rachana...so how is a characters contribution to the way the story shaped up a mistake...It was part of the script...

If the character was perfect was is drama is left in the show...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: SandCastle.

The concept of "Pehla Pyaar" is extremely overhyped to me. Esp this: Pehla Pyaar bhulaya Nahi jata, its your true love"
What Crap!
I believe that a person can fall in & out of love a hundred times or how much ever they want. 1st love does not mean that your life just stops if its not meant to happen. What if you are seperated from your 1st love due to some reason? Should you just stop living? Stop people knocking your heart, even if you feel something special for someone?
Just stop loving & living?

If your 1st love is not worth it, why spoil your happiness over them?
What is important is that its true unconditional love between 2 people who know they love each other a lot & will try to work things out between them if there are differences or ego clashes. Doesn't matter if its with your 1st or 100th Love. The heart wants what it wants, you just can't stop living coz you were supposedly unsuccessful with your 1st love. This is strictly my personal opinion, no offence intended to anyone :D

Sorry for the Rant, I realised the topic is asking something else but I just needed to vent it out :P

Yes, IMO Mayank & 3 things you mentioned are definately 3 mistakes of Gunjan's Life (I love this novel)
The biggest one being staying in the same house as him. This is what is stopping her from moving on from her "1st Love"
Just get out from the mad house & everything will be great for Gunjan as well as the Gargs. The other 2 have low chances of redemption but she can surely work on the 3rd mistake & I hope she does so :P

Kk, Rant Over 😆



I agree...I have seen in movies all those first love philosophy. One should know to move on. Coming to pint I feel
she did all the three mistakes.
1. M never took anything seriously, ok let me stop here
2. letting him marry to Charu..After exposure she could have just refused to marry him, why to send Charu,
3. She could have tried to go away from house in a better manner by convincing shayl & Dayal.


Edited by nnmm - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: happygirl123


I have to disagree with your statement..Mayank is one of the four characters which gave the show its identity to begin with...In case u hadn't notice the first few months of the show was thriving on Gunjan-Mayank's relationship along with Rajeev-Rachana...so how is a characters contribution to the way the story shaped up a mistake...It was part of the script...

If the character was perfect was is drama is left in the show...



Absolutely Agree shivani.. Gunjan mayank and Rajiv Rachna are the back bone of the story. First Impression of a jodi is Last impression. Jodis are made when serial starts, story is scripted and time and effort is invested in building a story with two different actors who comes from different cities, different background..work on their chemistry...understand each other...time is invested by audience who try to connect to them over period of time..Changing jodis?? Not fair...Gunjan broke her Karva chauth by Mayank and Rachna did for Vihan but Rajiv was in her heart. she was still missing him on Day of Karva chauth..Poojas such karva chauth have deep meaning...you don't see a person whom you have crush in mirror..you see the person you LOVE Deeply...agar aise raha to most ladies will see their bollywood heros during karva chauth pooja as favorite actors keep changing...

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