mayank and gunjan how they are realated...???

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ThePirateKing

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Posted: 12 years ago

#101

Originally posted by: payalgarg

u are an exception here as three of us living in india me,jeannierocks and khaira09 are against it.exceptions dont count much.majority does.

are u into merchant navy in which u have to roam 6 months into the sea cut off from the world?sorry but I am just curious as ur id says that.tough job it is I must say.

Change in the world happens because of exceptions not majority. It's a general thought not to be taken out of context.

It was a good attempt at a guess :-). The Merc in my id is for Mercedes, the car that I own. I work out of India on the land and travel as per the requirements of my job.

BTW two of my college mates both from UP, belonging to the Agarwal Vaishya community have married the same way as depicted in the show and hence I find nothing wrong with what they are showing

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ThePirateKing

@ThePirateKing

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Posted: 12 years ago

#102

Originally posted by: jeannierocks

Actually what matters is do you know the Indian customs and follow it..

I am not a believer of superstitious belief and hate all the old customs which some orthodox follows in India..

But some ppl and members have got wrong perception of Indian values and relations...

If u dint know before than fine ...

But Trying to prove wrong as right is making me rofl..

If anything is right say that i didn't know but now i have understood..

If u say and try to prove and remain to support a wrong info... Its not so well done..

Cousins always remain cousins whether u are first second or third cousin.

I pretty much know my customs and follow it and yeah they are not too orthodox. I am very well aware of my relations as well and where to draw the line

Just because you don't agree with my view does not mean I am wrong.

BTW when I say Gunjan and Mayank are not cousins its not without proof, my friends from the Agarwal Vaishya community (I believe the surname Garg as shown in the show belongs to this community) have married the same way as shown in the show so for me its all fine.

Ultimately the producers and others will show whatever they have to show and we can keep arguing till the cows come home.

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Parijatrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

#103

^^

thanks for telling garg families follow these customs which I'm being unaware of..

If its so proper info tha i give up to argue...

But my stand remains that mayank and gunjan are bro sis in relation...

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ThePirateKing

@ThePirateKing

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Posted: 12 years ago

#104

From what I have seen it is upto individual families. Some families approve of such relationships and some don't.

You are entitled to your view and I am to mine.

I understand that sometimes the CVs do stalk the forum so let's see if they read this topic and think about it.

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Parijatrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

#105

^^yes cvs should think about this topic..

As many won't agree with mayank gunjan relation... And some agree for this..

I am not aware of agarwal customs so much... But this topic is more of controversial one...

So cvs if ua re stalking IF check out this topic...

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payalgarg

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Posted: 12 years ago

#106

Originally posted by: Merc_Nary
From what I have seen it is upto individual families. Some families approve of such relationships and some don't.

You are entitled to your view and I am to mine.

I understand that sometimes the CVs do stalk the forum so let's see if they read this topic and think about it.

merc_nary majority of the familes do not approve of it.a few may opt to.do so..But A lot of questions have to be answered to the society in India if u do so especially on bride's side the girl's character comes straight into question by the society.is a family short of alliances for its daughter/son that it will approve such a relation?

even if it is love marriage and the couple forcibly tries to get approval atleast the arguement should be shown.But this arguement is missing in the show.That is what is wrong and passing a wrong message to the society and the youngsters.

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videosearcher

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Posted: 12 years ago

#107

Originally posted by: jeannierocks
brat really appreciate ur post..

But dear... We have argument in this thread... But never went out of healthy discussion...
I am really appreciating the ppl who have participated in this thread... Even i didn't know many of the facts but got idea of family tree...
Here so if u have not read the posts please do read it..

I payal and videosearcher are having healthy discussion on this topic..

Please do join us..

And share our views..
Its sharing ur view what u know.. If somebody was not aware than u will be knowing... But i believe we should not argue over matter on which we have wrong perception or understanding...

Jeannie , Though u & me differ on Mayank's & Gunjan's relationship's Validity, but I really appreciate you trying to apply logic & think logically , But I

Wudnt say that everybody is having a healthy conversation. PPl are taking things personally and making personal attacks on who is staying in India or not, which is not good.

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payalgarg

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Posted: 12 years ago

#108

Originally posted by: videosearcher
Jeannie , Though u & me differ on Mayank's & Gunjan's relationship's Validity, but I really appreciate you trying to apply logic & think logically , But I
Wudnt say that everybody is having a healthy conversation. PPl are taking things personally and making personal attacks on who is staying in India or not, which is not good.

when u say people say this and people say that instead of taking the name directly I do not understand where do u gather the guts from to blame others for personal attack and unhealthy conversation.

jeannie and me and have stuck to one point that Mayank and Gunjan are not eligible to marry.Though we differ with the supplementary views we respect each other's view.

I still stand by my point that most of the indians who do not live in india differ in thoughts with those who live in india especially when it comes to culture because they are not in the same society and environment. I commented on a couple of issues that especially girls in India face in this situation and this is the reply I get.My point is proved here.maybe because truth pinches it pinched u.

when a person like u making indirect taunts, taking sides and doing divide and rule between two members of forum getting along with each other very well talks about applying logic and rules of a healthy conversation I think the definition should be changed

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ThePirateKing

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Posted: 12 years ago

#109

Originally posted by: payalgarg
merc_nary majority of the familes do not approve of it.a few may opt to.do so..But A lot of questions have to be answered to the society in India if u do so especially on bride's side the girl's character comes straight into question by the society.is a family short of alliances for its daughter/son that it will approve such a relation?

@payalgarg, Am not sure what you mean by majority do not approve. Is that region specific?

Mayank and Gunjan's relationship is taken as valid in the entire Southern and Western states of India. By population that's around 60% of India.

I understand that such relationship is not valid in your community, but it is valid in my community. So neither of us is wrong.

I checked with my Kayasta and Vaishya community friends from UP, some say its valid and some say its not valid. My friend with a Garg surname got married (arranged marriage) the Gunjan/Mayank type of relationship and she did not face any questions at all.

So I conclude that its to do with individual communities/families. So people who are posting in the forum welcoming this relationship(like me) are doing so because it is allowed in their families and hence see nothing wrong.

At the end of the day the serial is based in Varanasi, so the CVs should check what the communities there feel. If the majority there feel the relationship is incorrect then I agree that it should not be shown.

Edited by Merc_Nary - 12 years ago

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Parijatrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

#110

^^dear i myself a south Indian... So gunjan and mayank relation is taboo in south Indian customs... Its not taken well in south India... May be ppl have not thought or don't know much how mayank and gunjan are related...

My little sister asked me this question... Of how mayank and gunjan are related... As she is a fan of gunjan..
So u have wrong info south Indians accept this relation...

As only cross cousins are allowed in south India...

Not this gunjan mayank relation of brother sister...

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