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Posted: 13 years ago
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True there s no guarantee about any one but education is something that lives with you life long its the only wealth that increases when you distribute it!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ vibz ... things r fine till children dont come into picture ... but once a child is involved then the equation s change my cousins son was taken by the husband .. he must be almost 20 now .. and i really dont know abt him and i have never asked her ... someday i would definetly ask her ..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey.i know of a girl who had a serious crush at 14 and the boy wanted to marry her. But his mom his status and plus her age was the prob. They drifted apart. Went on with their lives. But the guy after many years still has a crush for her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: macdonald

Hey.i know of a girl who had a serious crush at 14 and the boy wanted to marry her. But his mom his status and plus her age was the prob. They drifted apart. Went on with their lives. But the guy after many years still has a crush for her.


see u see such incidences in life .. in that guys mind she is still the same ...whom hi idealises ..might be thegirl whom he married could never fulfiil what ever standard s he had set ... secondly if he sees the old GF now she might have changed drastically and msy not be the same girl .. so i feel people should change and mature with age ..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhavya

Guys i think both rachna and gunjan are teenage girls around 16, who have just finished their schooling and got admission to college and don't you think production house and script writers delay this track of love blossoming... At this young age as many young girls may name this crush as love and will get distracted from their studies and will start following the crush as love...

I know its not wrong to show love story onscrren but they should think that and give a track that the girls will realize that love can happen later once they reach a adult age and now its time for their career...

And the track should be like girls should be able to differentiate what is more important a blind crush or a bright future...



I AGREE WITH YOU Bhavya di, career and future is always first especially in this point of age, but its not their fault its their harmones that makes them feel that their in love with this person, some times if they continue that love then its a true love. and it may lead to marriage.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Most of the time I feel that a crush is just that----infatuation. But, personally yes I do believe a mature teenager can turn a crush into love, it does happen and I've seen it happen a few times.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sometimes depending on the individuals, a teenage crush turns into love. But in this show, it would be nice to focus more on college and less on the romance.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@doc108,sorry for ur cousin
according to me falling in love in teenage years are not true love. its all about the hormones. im a teenager im just 15 .lucky me i never thought about love and all. i always used to wonder how does 2 people fall in love madly with each other😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ksfan2

@doc108,sorry for ur cousin

according to me falling in love in teenage years are not true love. its all about the hormones. im a teenager im just 15 .lucky me i never thought about love and all. i always used to wonder how does 2 people fall in love madly with each other😕

yeah me too wondering how teenage girls will fall in love... Actually i still wont understand...?
I am 24 and a person had proposed me in my college... And i immediately told my mom... And i discussed his issue with mom and u know what i came to conclusion he is not my type of guy but he was my good friend... I said i will see for sometime whether i can have any feelings for him... And he always use to romantic songs for me in class... Whole class knew he likes me...
And they think i am very not emotional person, one day i made him understand i had given time to myself that whether i have any feelings for you but i never got any feeling for him till date. I dnt feel for him and actually i am like good friend to him and will always remain but turning our friendship in to love will be like no for me... Because i am not emotional like him...
Because i believe in my career and than marriage ama i believe in love after marriage..but he said he loves me he knows i will change... He keeps calling me and i will talk to him as a friend till now i did not got a feeling that he is my love...

Its better to discuss with parents when this type of situation arises moms can make u understand and can give u suggestion and a advice for teenage girls ur mom knows better than u whatever she does is for ur well being...
I was working for NGo few years back during my college days...

And i use to teach students mathematics in weekends... But one day i came across a situation where a 13 years around ppl exchanged love letters and i myself was teenager at that time could not react and i did not blast them... As all other students were aware of their love story at that age..
I just went to the head of NGo and spoke she said we should not scold them as it is normal at this age as these kids will be having hormonal change and she will have counselling for them...
But after the year i left NGO and went for higher studies... And when i came back to my home... I saw the same girl who exchanged love letter in NGO as a house maid in my neighbours house..

And i spoke to her what happened as due to bad behaviour she had got punishment from her parents and they had cut her hairs and she even failed in exams also and so they decided to make her work..
I spoke to NGO head again she said she made both of them understand its not time for love... But these ppl tried to run away from home but parents stopped them... And both the students life is out of way from studies and soon the girl will be married also...
And this is the situation where one wrong move at teenage can spoil ur whole life...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhavya

yeah me too wondering how teenage girls will fall in love... Actually i still wont understand...?
I am 24 and a person had proposed me in my college... And i immediately told my mom... And i discussed his issue with mom and u know what i came to conclusion he is not my type of guy but he was my good friend... I said i will see for sometime whether i can have any feelings for him... And he always use to romantic songs for me in class... Whole class knew he likes me...
And they think i am very not emotional person, one day i made him understand i had given time to myself that whether i have any feelings for you but i never got any feeling for him till date. I dnt feel for him and actually i am like good friend to him and will always remain but turning our friendship in to love will be like no for me... Because i am not emotional like him...
Because i believe in my career and than marriage ama i believe in love after marriage..but he said he loves me he knows i will change... He keeps calling me and i will talk to him as a friend till now i did not got a feeling that he is my love...

Its better to discuss with parents when this type of situation arises moms can make u understand and can give u suggestion and a advice for teenage girls ur mom knows better than u whatever she does is for ur well being...
I was working for NGo few years back during my college days...

And i use to teach students mathematics in weekends... But one day i came across a situation where a 13 years around ppl exchanged love letters and i myself was teenager at that time could not react and i did not blast them... As all other students were aware of their love story at that age..
I just went to the head of NGo and spoke she said we should not scold them as it is normal at this age as these kids will be having hormonal change and she will have counselling for them...
But after the year i left NGO and went for higher studies... And when i came back to my home... I saw the same girl who exchanged love letter in NGO as a house maid in my neighbours house..

And i spoke to her what happened as due to bad behaviour she had got punishment from her parents and they had cut her hairs and she even failed in exams also and so they decided to make her work..
I spoke to NGO head again she said she made both of them understand its not time for love... But these ppl tried to run away from home but parents stopped them... And both the students life is out of way from studies and soon the girl will be married also...
And this is the situation where one wrong move at teenage can spoil ur whole life...

If someone proposes me, I don't know what I will do, I think i will get scared. lol😆

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