anmol- main aapko khush dekhna chahta hoon

@poshah..glad to see you back ..nice topic to discuss..😊

His promise to ranveer he will take care..protect and keep his family happy..once married to ragini it was with this in mind he entered rajvansh house..in this sacred bond of marriage he got a new family but two persons became close to his heart..ragini-tammy..

From day one of their marriage ragini put that condition there will always be a distance in their relationship..anmol respected that to the T..with yrs he fell in love with his wife but never disclose his feelings ..his priority ragini is happy and he is there anytime for her.thats how we get "mein aap ko khush dekhna chahata houn"..whereas ragini's priority the family and her personal life always in the backdrop..

To say wat a pair they made ragini always looking at the family and anmol by her side solving the problems coming their way and also always there to wipe her tears and bring a smile on her face..

Anmol being the devoted husband had the patience to wait for ragini..changes were happening slowly but ragini was still at a crossroad..her mind and heart always going in opposite ways.the day arrived when tammy-vasu accepted anmol wholeheartedly and wat we saw ragini began to reciprocate to anmol's little flirt tease etc..her blush-smile was more visible when anmol around..

As you mentioned the letter scene ..we do know ragini only ruled in anmol's heart and mind..so yes the letter content was anmol's heart desire..he ended up writing his feelings in the letter..this time ragini thought it was for her and waited for him in the garden..when anmol asked her she got another escape route the rain..to say anmol always wanted ragini to take that one step towards him .to say verbally or show a sign that yes you are close to my heart..

the KC and ragini's being all distress ,her anger and hug to anmol..he was in two minds when he returned home as he so wanted to say all his feelings to her after the car accident.wat we got next anmol confessing his love as he knew he has got that special place in ragini's heart..thats wat he waited for 7 yrs a sign from ragini that he was precious in her life..

as you said in your post he always looked upon her happiness..he will do anything for her but one thing he never crossed his limits to make ragini feel insecure or awkward in his presence.. that's why anmol kept his feelings hidden in his heart.he wanted ragini to trust and see his genuine love for her.it happened in the end..

for me personally I'm in awe with angini's story..a pure and beautiful love story..that was the beauty in this relationship even though no overdose of romance..a great usp of the show and their love story was unfolded to the viewers so beautifully..a story which kept the viewers interest till he end.for this I will say thanks to the creatives for giving us angini ..😊

happy to see you here with a new topic.
When Ragini meet anmol she had lost her loving once. Sadhna and ranvir. She didn't want to move from there momerise...this the main thing baught a gape between angini... And anmol's promise to ranveer made him to care about ragini and the whole family. Even he didn't know when he start loveing her.after the merriage
with anmol also she lived with thought of ranvir... This why she didn't see anmol's unlimited love.

Originally posted by: savee_k

@poshah..glad to see you back ..nice topic to discuss..😊

Anmol being the devoted husband had the patience to wait for ragini..changes were happening slowly but ragini was still at a crossroad..her mind and heart always going in opposite ways.the day arrived when tammy-vasu accepted anmol wholeheartedly and wat we saw ragini began to reciprocate to anmol's little flirt tease etc..her blush-smile was more visible when anmol around..

As you mentioned the letter scene ..we do know ragini only ruled in anmol's heart and mind..so yes the letter content was anmol's heart desire..he ended up writing his feelings in the letter..this time ragini thought it was for her and waited for him in the garden..when anmol asked her she got another escape route the rain..to say anmol always wanted ragini to take that one step towards him .to say verbally or show a sign that yes you are close to my heart..

as you said in your post he always looked upon her happiness..he will do anything for her but one thing he never crossed his limits to make ragini feel insecure or awkward in his presence.. that's why anmol kept his feelings hidden in his heart.he wanted ragini to trust and see his genuine love for her.it happened in the end..

I agree to the first one that tammy and vasu's acceptance was a big help in ragini accepting her feelings. She would feel less guilty abt loving someone else equally apart from ranveer.

But not sure abt the whole anmol wanting ragini to take one step towards him. Other than verbally tell his feelings, he did everything one would do if you loved someone.. he kept on saying on n on that i want youto be happy, always..which is almost equal to saying i do like you etc etc. So i feel, bacche ek baar clearly bola hota 😆 to ragini would have never felt that what you were doing was just a duty. And that is where verbalising your feeligns is impt, actions are more impt than words but sometimes some words are also required, else every action is left to the interpretation of the other person.
And other thing that happened is that though both maintained their distance in teh relationship, to the others no distance was visible..no one in the family saw it..like gunni and both the sets of inlaws, because they both never vocalised their feelings, the care affection and love was there for all to see !

Verbally also Anmol makes ragini go week on her knees...
She knows everything yet she acted like a tubelight!!
Itna sweetly pati talks I mean seriously she is lucky to have a husband like him who is so devoted to her..

I always felt injustince donw to bechara Anmol..
verbally he said a lot Ragini ignored it point blank since she was so preoccupied with her wordly problems

He knew his love for her would or would'nt find a place ..
He alwys wanted her to take a first steop

Infact even on the final episode I so wished she woudl have cupped his face and said apki kuchi mai hi meri kushi hai aur jab aap muhey kuch dekha chahethey ho tho mai aap hi kay saat khushi rahoon gi !!
These verbally spoken words would have brighten Anmol's face even more

Nice to see you back !

Originally posted by: poshah

I was watching the re run i mean on YT as usual 😉 and I noticed that jitni baar anmol said

main aapko khush dekhna chahta hoon etc etc ..uska 1% time also if he had been more vocal of his feelings..things would have been easier for both ragini and anmol.

N number of times he says main aapko khush dekhna chahta hoon, aapne jo kahan hai woh main hamesha karta hoon etc..and infact guddi also says ki aisa kabhi hua hai ki bhabhi kahe aur bhaiya na mane.

Now who is a fool to not understand why someone wants you to be happy or why someone does what you say, definitely not because of some farz etc. Anmol was also not very vocal I think in telling what he felt, he said more of double meaning (I mean in good way, but ones with the hidden meanings and now I am sure the letter was not for some employee of his, but for himself only).

PS I know I have been on /off this forum..sometimes no internet sometimes too busy..but please do reply to my post 😉

Hey pooja nice to see you back
I agree who is a fool to not understand way someone wnats you to be happy .. or why someone dose what you say..
Anmol had no choice to say whats in his heart wished therefore they got time alone to talk
There were many chances even the lunch date they went or he expressed in his feelings in teh letter..

I will always see ragini backing out more as she was so scared what her feelings were for Anmol as she was falling in love with him but her mind and heart were juggling the ball of yes and no all the time..

And moreover they axed teh show when she could have easily confessed her feelings
So Anmol was staright forward in expressing his desires and Ragini understood its her not verbally expressing which made him repeatdly say that !

guys, back with my reply now, hopefully will be more active on the forum now.

I agree Ragini was hesitant, but what stopped anmol from even once saying he loved her/. He never ever did that. Divorce ke waqt bhi he says, main sabse pyar karta hoon, mummji papa, guni, bhaiya, tammy etc but not even once he says Ragini..He says main unke bina nahi reh sakta,..not once
he mentions Ragini's name.

I guess it is always a tussle b/w two views..ki someone should see my feelings or understand w/o my saying and someone who feels i should atleast say what i feel once. Probably each person has his/her limit..to when they keep quite..In the end anmol realised that this is the limit, aaj to bolna hoga so he did say. agar pehle ek baar bola hota to ragini would know it for sure..coz we did see that ragini felt that he loved her but his behav..lying abt that stupid woman confused her. She wondered ek din mein unki feelings kaise badal gayee and this is where vocalising your feelings once is impt..Because actions can be misjudged as well...you cannot always know what is the motivation for hte other person's actions, but vocalising plus actions confirms it..

Hamare Anmolji is the category who feels other person should understand my liking. But sometimes isi intezaar main umar nikal jati hai.

I am of the view that once one should say what one feels and not keep quite until the nth minute.

So i htink ek baar anmolji ko clear and simple hindi english ya kisi bhi zuban mein apni feelings bolni chahiye thi !

I feel Anmol was selfless but had selfrespect too why be after somebody who ignores you most of the time. I recall one incident where Anmol and Alekh both were hurt , Ragini rushed to him fast forgeting that Anmol was hurt too. A bad move on the part of the Cvs, I was left waiting and waiting to see whether Ragini would dress Anmol's wounds.

uska ek aur fav phrase..apne dil ki baat apse kehna chahta hoon..

in the end i was like arre bus kar say what is in your dil..stop giving background...😆

Originally posted by: poshah

guys, back with my reply now, hopefully will be more active on the forum now.

I agree Ragini was hesitant, but what stopped anmol from even once saying he loved her/. He never ever did that. Divorce ke waqt bhi he says, main sabse pyar karta hoon, mummji papa, guni, bhaiya, tammy etc but not even once he says Ragini..He says main unke bina nahi reh sakta,..not once
he mentions Ragini's name.

@botld portion :Yes I agree what stopped Anmol from saying his feelings.. Well he could'nt do that since they the CV's never gave them time alone to just have a simple conversation about them selves..Its totally their fault 😆 and moreover repeadetly Anmol has hinted it out and Ragini definatly did'nt understand no ways .. she was matured enough to understand what he meant , just that she was drifting apart from her responsibilites for teh family and never focused on her persona life.

I guess it is always a tussle b/w two views..ki someone should see my feelings or understand w/o my saying and someone who feels i should atleast say what i feel once. Probably each person has his/her limit..to when they keep quite..In the end anmol realised that this is the limit, aaj to bolna hoga so he did say. agar pehle ek baar bola hota to ragini would know it for sure..coz we did see that ragini felt that he loved her but his behav..lying abt that stupid woman confused her. She wondered ek din mein unki feelings kaise badal gayee and this is where vocalising your feelings once is impt..Because actions can be misjudged as well...you cannot always know what is the motivation for hte other person's actions, but vocalising plus actions confirms it..

@both again .. I so remeber Armaan Sir here when Jassi was talking to him so much Berukhi he just told her "I love you !!" wished such a moment did happen with Anmol, but gawd such a selfless guy in this world for me it was a little too much to digest..
I just hoped even the 7 years they lived togather some day he should have told her..But that was the time they were actually more in living as strangers and viwers wern't shown that phase of their life..

This song exactly says what Anmol was feeling .. "Jazbaat magthey hai zubaan" Indeed he should have told her in pure shud hindi or staright forward , but he did'nt and they prolonged it ..
For ragini she needs to be shaken to say somthing abt her feelings.. They tried it a lot with the accident phase during KC night or even when they got Shivani to ask her to tell her feelings.. Butr all along she was with the pretext that he is by my side that was an assurance..


Hamare Anmolji is the category who feels other person should understand my liking. But sometimes isi intezaar main umar nikal jati hai.

I am of the view that once one should say what one feels and not keep quite until the nth minute.

So i htink ek baar anmolji ko clear and simple hindi english ya kisi bhi zuban mein apni feelings bolni chahiye thi !

Well there were many loop holes in thier confession..Wishedeven Ragini to have poured out her feeling since he waited more to hear from her since obviously he was open to whatever she said