World is full of hatred,give love a chance:Note PG6

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi Fellow readers,
I know I will be hated for this post and maybe I will loose the few friends that I had begun to make here.....and Jyoti especially - I hope you get the disappointment I have felt reading this forum and the context before you shut this down.
But this has to be said........even if it is one of the last posts I will make here.....this is for the few voices of reason on this Forum......
Everytime I come to the Bidaai forum, it reminds me how the world is full of hatred and negativity.
Under the pretext of 'emotionally hurt' or 'frustration' or "fans", people regularly come here just to post negative remarks about Bidaai, its current set of characters and its producers.
Maybe I am too old, or maybe I am dumb, or maybe I am just hoping for peace......but I do not underfstand why an individual should be so consumed with negative feeling just because a serial has changed its leads and storyline.
Showing frustration is Ok...writing petitions is ok....but to come everyday and post comments like 'Ragini should die rather than be with Anmol'...post emoticons like 🤢....comments like 'Yeahhh Bidaai TRP should be zero'....comments on Rajan Shahi......etc.....shows a very negative and vindictive mind and personality.
Now you may give a zillion reasons to disprove that.....and sadly such negative comments are never moderated (Jyoti, I have utmost respect for you, but if you really think with a clear dispassionate mind, you will know that a lot of these comments are allowed by you...)
The even sad part is that on one hand people wish each other Happy Ramadan ....and then on another post write please kill Ragini!!....in a holy month reserved for praying and peace........amazing.
Surely God in any form would never want a human to have such negative feelings.......even if it is for a fictional character or show.
I have to say this very modestly and honestly......that the above negative attitude.....shown by so called educated, sensible, girls and women from good upbringing families.......is very disheartening.
After all, this thing is just a television show.😕
But if your mind gets filled with negative feelings......then is your own........
Thanks
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Posted: 15 years ago
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my suggestion to u and to myself and even to my sweet friend jyoti..life is too short to be negative,isi liye dont get upset by such posts instead start ignoring them and post something positve to bring smiles on ur friends faces..........or atleast try to.I understand how u feel,and I can even say on jyoti's behalf too that she must be feeling this forum is full of negativity.But she is one reason I am still on this forum,Apu offcourse is reason no111111111 😉😃 i recommend few threads like TRP thread which I call official make fun of others thread..should simply be ignored and think positve ..............................................and why should u loose ur time here instead enjoy whatever u like.if like anmol and ragini do enjoy and if u like alekh ,kids gunni just go for it and post happy positive topics.............
insaaniyat to pyaar mohabat ka naam hai
insaaniyat ki shaan bhadate chale chalo...😃
so stay here..and be with us
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sami01
That was lovely....thanks so much ........really thanks🤗
Yes I do that all teh time which is why I am silent, but i guess it is difficult to find happy moments .......for eg, yesterday I loved the Khushi, Tammy, Guni, Kavya pocket money scene so much😆 .....but I come here and see same old jodi comments........
But your reply has made me feel a little hopeful....and for that I thank you .......
And Jyoti,
Please dont minsunderstand and my sincere apologies if my honest comments hurt you. We have only you to look up to as you are the Moderator.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kasturilover

Sami01

That was lovely....thanks so much ........really thanks🤗
Yes I do that all teh time which is why I am silent, but i guess it is difficult to find happy moments .......for eg, yesterday I loved the Khushi, Tammy, Guni, Kavya pocket money scene so much😆 .....but I come here and see same old jodi comments........
But your reply has made me feel a little hopeful....and for that I thank you .......
And Jyoti,
Please dont minsunderstand and my sincere apologies if my honest comments hurt you. We have only you to look up to as you are the Moderator.

that is very sweet dear.....jyo bhi kya kare see most of those topics r not reported to her so she doesntfind out about them,i know her from 2007 and i consider her one of best development member i know along with anu(ambrosia) ..so tum bhi meri tarha topics read mat kiya karo..even i get hurt..i had once stumbled in a chat club about bidaai and was surprised..but phir i thought jaane do.....why should i bother..i enjoy what i see..utna kaafi hai...
kavya is real badmash he brings smile on my face always..........😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sami01

that is very sweet dear.....jyo bhi kya kare see most of those topics r not reported to her so she doesntfind out about them,i know her from 2007 and i consider her one of best development member i know along with anu(ambrosia) ..so tum bhi meri tarha topics read mat kiya karo..even i get hurt..i had once stumbled in a chat club about bidaai and was surprised..but phir i thought jaane do.....why should i bother..i enjoy what i see..utna kaafi hai...

kavya is real badmash he brings smile on my face always..........😃

sami01,
I am grateful I got introduced to you, and I will follow your comments. 😊
I watch serials only for time pass after a long day. life is too complicated anyways...why get so worked up ....normally I therefore ignore....but when you reach a stage that you are struggling to find positive topics then its disheartening.
Your thoughts seem very positive and mature......that is how it should be.....😳
Frankly IF is one of the better websites, may other websties have such abusive language....so hope the same never happens
I dont know Jyoti personally, but have seen her moderate sections and do respect her. Can understand moderating is a tough job😳.
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And I had thought forum was peaceful nowadays with each fan group content with their own topic and then I see this topic which is same as many before.
Let me explain I totally understands all the reasons and logic and everything behind second chances at love, but was the first one given proper closure - NO. And that for me one of the biggest reason for which I will never accept this new Bidaai season 2.
I have 2 daughters and god forbid if they woulbe be in similar situation,I would want them to move ahead with constant love and respect for past and hope for future by their OWN choice. And this is not how creatives are showing.They are completely ignoring Ranvir purposefully that he ever existed in anyone's life.That's totaly unacceptable for me at least.
I have said earlier too - Please don't expect evryone to be happy with current Bidaai, There are people who are not happy and as long as they are discussing their discontent in their group's topic peacefully,other fan groups should let them be. you should too open as many positive topic as possible and discuss instead of questioning other's upbringing just because they wished one fictional character's death. AS you said it's FICTION, don't be personal over FICTIONAL characters.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kasturilover

sami01,
I am grateful I got introduced to you, and I will follow your comments. 😊
I watch serials only for time pass after a long day. life is too complicated anyways...why get so worked up ....normally I therefore ignore....but when you reach a stage that you are struggling to find positive topics then its disheartening.
Your thoughts seem very positive and mature......that is how it should be.....😳
Frankly IF is one of the better websites, may other websties have such abusive language....so hope the same never happens
I dont know Jyoti personally, but have seen her moderate sections and do respect her. Can understand moderating is a tough job😳.

thanks for the honour my dear......if u want to follow my posts u sure will smile..i mostly do picture and shayri posts...😉😃 IF is best i found life long friends here,who became so much part of life......here moderation control is very very powerful,hough earlier when it first started bap re baap jassi was only forum and fights between arman and purab fans were😆 hillarious and cute too though.And about jo she has very tough job,see other mods were busy she and kiran managed very well........its nice knowing u too dear😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tamushi

And I had thought forum was peaceful nowadays with each fan group content with their own topic and then I see this topic which is same as many before.

Let me explain I totally understands all the reasons and logic and everything behind second chances at love, but was the first one given proper closure - NO. And that for me one of the biggest reason for which I will never accept this new Bidaai season 2.
I have 2 daughters and god forbid if they woulbe be in similar situation,I would want them to move ahead with constant love and respect for past and hope for future by their OWN choice. And this is not how creatives are showing.They are completely ignoring Ranvir purposefully that he ever existed in anyone's life.That's totaly unacceptable for me at least.
I have said earlier too - Please don't expect evryone to be happy with current Bidaai, There are people who are not happy and as long as they are discussing their discontent in their group's topic peacefully,other fan groups should let them be. you should too open as many positive topic as possible and discuss instead of questioning other's upbringing just because they wished one fictional character's death. AS you said it's FICTION, don't be personal over FICTIONAL characters.

Tamushi,
Thanks for responding.
I guess you completely missed the point I was making and that is ok.....😳
I am not suggesting that people like the show or like any jodi or character. I am also not questioning their upbringing.....All I am saying is that for eg as a person if I dont like something I will say it once twice maybe a few times,.....and then I will retreat......not turn it into a point of crusade for every day......I felt something about the forum. I have peacefully stated it without obscene words.
I am not going to put such a topic everyday.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tamushi

And I had thought forum was peaceful nowadays with each fan group content with their own topic and then I see this topic which is same as many before.

Let me explain I totally understands all the reasons and logic and everything behind second chances at love, but was the first one given proper closure - NO. And that for me one of the biggest reason for which I will never accept this new Bidaai season 2.
I have 2 daughters and god forbid if they woulbe be in similar situation,I would want them to move ahead with constant love and respect for past and hope for future by their OWN choice. And this is not how creatives are showing.They are completely ignoring Ranvir purposefully that he ever existed in anyone's life.That's totaly unacceptable for me at least.
I have said earlier too - Please don't expect evryone to be happy with current Bidaai, There are people who are not happy and as long as they are discussing their discontent in their group's topic peacefully,other fan groups should let them be. you should too open as many positive topic as possible and discuss instead of questioning other's upbringing just because they wished one fictional character's death. AS you said it's FICTION, don't be personal over FICTIONAL characters.


yes i dont think this topic need to be made..
forum was peaceful from past few days ..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kasturilover

Tamushi,
Thanks for responding.
I guess you completely missed the point I was making and that is ok.....😳
I am not suggesting that people like the show or like any jodi or character. I am also not questioning their upbringing.....All I am saying is that for eg as a person if I dont like something I will say it once twice maybe a few times,.....and then I will retreat......not turn it into a point of crusade for every day......I felt something about the forum. I have peacefully stated it without obscene words.
I am not going to put such a topic everyday.

I may be mistaken, but it sure sounds very offending.
Yes, people who don't like current Bidaai , are going to let their displeasure known repeatedly be it in this forum or starplus fb or anywhere else in the hope that their displeasure gets due response and hopefully their expectations are met. I don't see any wrong in that. We are also tolerating new happenings and their repeated discussions without any complain. You may have opened one topic like this but there were many similar topics opened by same/different people on this.

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