Ragini-Khushi same like Mamaji-Sadhna..

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

If we take both the generations, I feel the bond that Ragini shares with Khushi is very similar to the one Mamaji and Sadhna had. Sadhna was not Mamaji's own daughter, but he never made Sadhna feel that she was parentless. Similarly, Ragini's mamta is for both her kids equally, she never differentiated between Khushi and Tamanna. Ragini and Mamaji both showed that to nurture parental affection, its not necessary to be the biological parent of a child.

I really feel like saying for Ragini and Mamaji, like father like daughter. For Ragini to develop this attribute in her, she needed to see an idol like her father from her childhood. She saw how Mamaji never differentiated among her three children and never thought Sadhna as her niece, but as a daughter. Same with Ragini, she is the mother figure imprinted in Khushi's mind and I am happy that she came to know what Khushi feels for her. Very good work by the creatives and they showed through child like emotions of Khushi to reveal to Ragini what Khushi actually feels for her. That particular scene where Alekh drew the picture of a mother from Khushi's description, nothing could have been bettter than that to show Khushi's true feelings for Ragini.

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Lennie

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Posted: 15 years ago

I agree here

Also the last scene of Mamaji and Ragini before the leap played a vital role as well, as we knew this is how Ragini will be, and also like her dad - she has seen it and felt it, and she knows it

That was a lovely scene of Khushi describing her mother and Alekh naturally somehow drew Ragini, coz thats all Khushi as known, she knows her mum is Sadhna, but the actual mothering that it comes from is Ragini

Ragini will always have that bond with Khushi, as far as i can see Ragini is Khushi's mother in the sense first mother and Sakshi if she comes and marries will be that second mum, that doesnt mean anything less but just a tiny difference if you get what i mean 😊

I hope in a way Ragini is there for both Khushi and Sakshi😳

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Sari

@Seebz

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Posted: 15 years ago

Yeah!..I could not agree more.

like father, like daughter. Yes there is a role-reversal. Sadhna had Mamaji and khushi has Maasima. Ragini's love for khushi is simply pure and Ragini is the mom she wants as her explanation to Alekh reavealed it. Sakshi may come but accepting khushi is still far and even she does. Ragini's space will remain the same in khushi's life.

She has grown seeing Ragini as mother eventhough she always adresses her as Maasima but nothing can be closer than her so far. And Ragini..Well yeah Khushi is her daughter as Tammy no matter if their relationship changes with time as a new mother in her life but her first approach would be Ragini.

I felt really bad when I saw the promo where Khushi goes with Sakshi to show the house and Ragini stands there looking at Khushi. In future, Ragini may hesitate to take first step as she has taken so far. A new mother was khushi's choice to her but by the end of the day khushi will find some time to be with her Maasi ma. I am glad she is inherited Mamaji's genes and loves Khushi like anything.

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Posted: 15 years ago

Ragini here needs to be as i said here for both, Khushi will naturally in a way look for her MasiMaa, and this is where Ragini will be here, and there for her, but Ragini also needs to help Sakshi in this as well, kinda like how Choti Maa helped Sadhna with Alekh - kinda like that,

(Sakshi i feel will look for guidance if Sakshi isnt being ignorant like she feels forced in by the whole marriage and family (coz thats how Sakshi is looking at it from her view point i feel as of now)

Ragini as i said when Khushi and Sakshi are together or Sakshi takes over that mum role, Ragini needs to step back abit and see and dont push in, but help out in a way - so it looks like both are helping each other and Khushi can see that and feel that

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Sari

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Posted: 15 years ago

Yes, She would miss Khushi and Khushi would miss Ragini in a way and to make things better Ragini will help Sakshi as she know her needs but she will understand Sakhsi's dilemna too. Ragini questioned Vasu already how can any girl marry knowing Alekh's condition that too a step-daughter.

It seems like Ragini will play a vital role to bring Alkeh-khushi and Sakshi together. Ragini knows how Sadnha dealt with things so she will help Sakshi in order to make Alekh and khushi happy. Sakshi has noone not even Tarun will support her disagreement to this marriage, So Ragini will help her as a friend to solve the issues. Ragini will stop herself but encorage Sakshi to fulfill all the duties and let Sakshi play a mother role in Khushi's life.

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Posted: 15 years ago

its not just her genes and mamaji's attributes......but its also her special bond with sadhna......she sees khushi as sadhna and ragini wants khushi to never miss her mother, the way sadhna used to miss her mom due to kaushis behaviour.

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Pallavi

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111
If we take both the generations, I feel the bond that Ragini shares with Khushi is very similar to the one Mamaji and Sadhna had. Sadhna was not Mamaji's own daughter, but he never made Sadhna feel that she was parentless. Similarly, Ragini's mamta is for both her kids equally, she never differentiated between Khushi and Tamanna. Ragini and Mamaji both showed that to nurture parental affection, its not necessary to be the biological parent of a child.

I really feel like saying for Ragini and Mamaji, like father like daughter. For Ragini to develop this attribute in her, she needed to see an idol like her father from her childhood. She saw how Mamaji never differentiated among her three children and never thought Sadhna as her niece, but as a daughter. Same with Ragini, she is the mother figure imprinted in Khushi's mind and I am happy that she came to know what Khushi feels for her. Very good work by the creatives and they showed through child like emotions of Khushi to reveal to Ragini what Khushi actually feels for her. That particular scene where Alekh drew the picture of a mother from Khushi's description, nothing could have been bettter than that to show Khushi's true feelings for Ragini.

So true... Yashoda and Krishna's story is the biggest evidence for such love. Yashoda's mamta was at much higer level than any biological parent's love towards their children.

Just like how Nani-Kaushi-Vinu gang didnt understand Mamaji-Sadhna's relation, Ragini-Khushi's relation also wont be understood by Vasu and others.

This is the problem with many people like Kaushi, Vasu, Nani etc.... They worship lord Krishna, they have heard the depth of Yashoda and Krishna's love, still wont be in a position to appreciate a similar relation in reality.

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After reading, I went to my selective viewing mode 😉 Saw only the part where Khushi describes her mom, Alekh drawing, Ragini's pic and finally Ragini's hug to Khushi. It was really so cute. Combination of Mamtha and innocence, truly 😊 This composed Ragini isone of the main aspects of Bidai-II.

Actually, in Bidai (I and II both), we never got to see a great mother. All the mothers - Kaushi, Nani, Malthi, Vasu and Ambika were selfish. Though the degree of selfishness differed, all were more or less thinking only about their children and were ready to give/accept troubles for others in turn. We never got to see a mother in Sadhna (may be there was just 1 episode) but Ragini is really a great mother in Bidai.

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Pallavi

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: unhappyviewer
its not just her genes and mamaji's attributes......but its also her special bond with sadhna......she sees khushi as sadhna and ragini wants khushi to never miss her mother, the way sadhna used to miss her mom due to kaushis behaviour.

Yes, Ragini has seen Sadhna's pain. So she definately doesnt want Khushi to feel the same. And after all, Khushi is her Sadhna's daughter.

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

Actually, I feel Khushi and Ragini are meant for one another...a mother-daughter by Karma...while Khushi is trying to accept a new mom suppressing her true feelings for Ragini to see Tammy. If Tammy is happy, Ragini's lot of tensions from Tammy like "Ragini loves Khushi more etc etc" will be lessened.

I dont know how long it will take Sakshi to develop feelings from a forced marriage, but its sure during this time Ragini and Khushi will be the worst sufferers. Ragini if she comes to know that Sakshi has not accepted this marriage, will always feel sad for Khushi and khushi in turn will be deprived of her new mom's love..

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: Lennie
Ragini here needs to be as i said here for both, Khushi will naturally in a way look for her MasiMaa, and this is where Ragini will be here, and there for her, but Ragini also needs to help Sakshi in this as well, kinda like how Choti Maa helped Sadhna with Alekh - kinda like that,

(Sakshi i feel will look for guidance if Sakshi isnt being ignorant like she feels forced in by the whole marriage and family (coz thats how Sakshi is looking at it from her view point i feel as of now)

Ragini as i said when Khushi and Sakshi are together or Sakshi takes over that mum role, Ragini needs to step back abit and see and dont push in, but help out in a way - so it looks like both are helping each other and Khushi can see that and feel that

I think there will be testing time for both Ragini and Khushi till the time Sakshi accepts wholeheatedly. But Sakshi coming to the house will relieve Rgaini's tension about Tammy about Tammy's feeling left out and Ragini should spend time channelising Tammy's attitude to the right way now.

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