NEW BIDAAI, Likes,Dislikes!!! (edited) - Page 7

@rabees:

for the topic starter...very well said...n i also agree tht apurva n ragini's pair i like it too...:)

Rabees-agree to everything u said!As much as I would like to see the development in Angini relationship I also fear if Ragini starts to love him(which is predictable),it would be like Ranvir never existed.Not in RL,cos spouses do think abt their lost ones but in serials its just full stop.

And we are talking abt door-mat heroines here.Of course they would be willing to sacrifice everything for their family and well-being no matter what it costs her.From the looks of it she seems to be doing her duty very well apart from sleeping together.

Anyways,back to the topic

Plus points

Ragini and the kids
Ragini and Alekh's relationship
Apoorva since he is so handsome lol

Minus Points

Alekh.That's the worst part.Actually heart breaking to see him like this.
Vasu's behaviour which was already evident just in two episodes
Inder.Waste of space and also wasting an actor
Mystery reg Ranvir.And also sad to see him in the wardrobe and Tamanna is so like her father-bindaas,care-free and adventurous but she doesn't even seem to have any idea abt him.
And Ragini's parents.They seem to be rolling in wealth,happy and all that irrespective of her daughter's obvious sadness which is so evident

Originally posted by: rabees011

I understand the child theory..bachche to hote rahenge but that doesn't mean ki patiyo ka sankhya bhi badhte rahenge..badhte rahenge..badhte rahenge....Ragini can definitely move on in life and be happy, per uske liye shaadi to zaroori nahi. Marriage isn't the only thing that can give purpose to her life and bring back the smile on her face. I think Khushi and tamanna can also give her a lot of happiness and reason to live. There are many other things that we can do in life to move on, rather than falling for someone or getting married once again. Guys, a woman can definitely share her child with someone else, but she can't share her husband. What I am trying to say is that getting another child, and moving on with it is easier than moving on with a new husband and forgetting the memories of the previous husband who she used to love dearly.

In hindi soaps, when a woman is shown falling for a second person, she completely forgets her first love. This is why, RagVir fans are not willing to see any romance between AnGini, because that way Ragini would be shown forgetting Ranveer and being unloyal to his love. That's all. Besides, if she falls for Anmol, she would no longer love Ranveer the way she once used to love him. That is why we are not willing to see Ragini with Anmol.

i disagree.....marriage is a beautiful rishta.....and just because u are widowed doesn mean your life is over .....doesnt mean now u have to spend the rest of your life clinging to the happy memories of the past.....why not make more memories......why is it a sin for a woman to remarry.....i dont get it.......i am not saying marry the next guy that walks in the door....but if the person is as good as anmol then i dont see the harm in remarriage.......nobody will take the place of ranveer ....i think anmol knows that.....i dont think he is even trying to take his place.....all he wants is happiness for his wife and daughters......and his good behaviour will not be unnoticed for long.

Unhappy-nothing wrong with re-marriage and nothing wrong with being happy with the memories either.I know few people in RL(She lost her husband to cancer),3 kids but happy the way she is.And content.Anyways,we can't compare RL to RL here since all these serials depends on the drama quotient and if there is no drama there is no serial and much-desired TRP's

Ragini just seems so burdened by her responsibilities..she constantly worries whether she is good enough or doing right by her familiy.
Being a single mother is not easy..
If she had to think just about Tamanna and herself maybe she would have married for love. and left Rajvansh house..but here she is responsible for Alekh and Khushi too.
Lets be honest Vasu is well meaning but does more harm than good..Inderjeet is pretty much useless and allows Vasu to roughshod over him..If these two had been responsible for Alekh and Khushi then...Alekh would have been in the outhouse for rest of his life and Khushi would grow up with a damaged psyche.
So it seems she took a practical decision..which worked for everyone..
she doesn't know it yet but Anmol is the only solace in her life..he takes care of things in a subtle and quiet way and eases things out for her..she just doesn't realise it yet....

Originally posted by: SPN_JD_Addicted

Unhappy-nothing wrong with re-marriage and nothing wrong with being happy with the memories either.I know few people in RL(She lost her husband to cancer),3 kids but happy the way she is.And content.Anyways,we can't compare RL to RL here since all these serials depends on the drama quotient and if there is no drama there is no serial and much-desired TRP's

agreed....i also know people who havent remarried for the sake of children......but there is happiness that u get from ur children and then there is happiness that only a husband can provide.......yes a woman who has lost her husband would seem happy because of her children from the outside......but from the inside she still missess being married.....

Originally posted by: unhappyviewer

agreed....i also know people who havent remarried for the sake of children......but there is happiness that u get from ur children and then there is happiness that only a husband can provide.......yes a woman who has lost her husband would seem happy because of her children from the outside......but from the inside she still missess being married.....

.now ragini has the chance to feel that way again........if she falls for anmol its because its human nature to crave the love and affection of her husband......a husband who adores her and takes care of her daughters as if they were his own.......no woman can resist her husband for long and especially if he looks like anmol.....its un natural.

i do not see ragini falling in love with anmol as betrayal to the memories of ranveer......she deserves a second chance to happiness.

Perfectly said👏

Originally posted by: Veritas

Ragini just seems so burdened by her responsibilities..she constantly worries whether she is good enough or doing right by her familiy.
Being a single mother is not easy..
If she had to think just about Tamanna and herself maybe she would have married for love. and left Rajvansh house..but here she is responsible for Alekh and Khushi too.
Lets be honest Vasu is well meaning but does more harm than good..Inderjeet is pretty much useless and allows Vasu to roughshod over him..If these two had been responsible for Alekh and Khushi then...Alekh would have been in the outhouse for rest of his life and Khushi would grow up with a damaged psyche.
So it seems she took a practical decision..which worked for everyone..
she doesn't know it yet but Anmol is the only solace in her life..he takes care of things in a subtle and quiet way and eases things out for her..she just doesn't realise it yet....

Beautifully portrayed ,and I also agree about vasu,(may be i havent seen her meanness in past thats why i am saying it) ,but i feel her talk with anmol was very truthful. She has lost a child and this person reminds her of him.But since she is a negative thinking person in general ,she reacts in bit of negativity,lets see what she will do in future,

Originally posted by: sami01

Beautifully portrayed ,and I also agree about vasu,(may be i havent seen her meanness in past thats why i am saying it) ,but i feel her talk with anmol was very truthful. She has lost a child and this person reminds her of him.But since she is a negative thinking person in general ,she reacts in bit of negativity,lets see what she will do in future,

Also friends lot of people r saying why is no one unhappy about ranvir's death in ragini's mayka.I think 6 years is long time,in reality i have seen people moving on even sooner than that ,my cousin had lost spouce at very young age ,after 2 years of death family was forcing for remarrige almost ,saying its been enough mourning life has to go on.......and I actually feel 6 years in this relationship and not moving on with anmol is little more unrealistic,but its show and drama,.Impact they created seem to be working for now..who knows about future. they have made anmol's character such that way that most people would expect her to move on with him,if not for love but for practcality and normalacy. U cannot keep one person hanging forever in mid air.

Infact that would be interest for general public ,i know foursome were very popular but with good drama they r showing people will be won over eventually. I watch pakistani dramas only just for sake of their fast pace and amazing acting talent ,they take 5 years leap in one day and it looks so normal.infact i think a serial should move at bit faster pace than real life....

me too....thats why i love my paki dramas.....fast paced.....ends in 20 episodes or less.....bidaai is the only soap i watch......i cant stand other soaps paki or indian.😆.