Originally posted by: RagVir4eva
Hi Manali, welcome back to the forum (even though your here temporarily, I guess)...
Firstly I would like to say, are Parul/KinRul/RagVir fans the only hypocrites (as you directly/indirectly called them)??? wouldn't this word imply to all fan groups here (to some extent atleast)???
And as you said that you can say with 100% confidence that had Parul done a similar photoshoot, all the RagVirians who pressed the like button for comments that were against Sara would have supported Parul. Well I can also say with 100% confidence that it would have been the other way around for the other fan group too... Many of those who are supporting Sara here (not talking about you, as I have never interacted with you in the past) wouldn't even have given it a thought for a second and would have started criticizing Parul as if its the end of the world. Heck, this topic is still nothing compared to what we have seen in the past... The discussion going on in this topic is still at a mannerable level, where members are disagreeing/agreeing with eachother, but are well behaved, and nothing nasty has been said on a personal level... The comments that we have seen in the past, that were directed towards Parul were those of a completely different level... (and many times they weren't even valid debateable topics)... As for Sara fans who are supporting her, or Parul fans who are against all this (even though I saw some Parul fans who also said that they don't have a problem with this), they all are judging this video on different criteria... some are saying that the main reason they don't like it is from a cultural/religious view point, some are bringing in the "celebrity status" factor, and for others it just varies... so everyone here is right in their own way... and thats how it should be as everyone has their own point of view/opinion, and its not necessary that we all have to agree...
As for the photoshoot, I saw it, and I would say that Sara looked pretty in some parts, and for others, all I would say is that its just a little too bold for my taste, but hey, its not my life, its Sara's personal life, so if she has no objection in displaying all this, then good for her... because after all that is said and done, it is Sara's personal life, and just like us all, she can live her life the way she wants... so if she's happy this way, then whatever...
And now last but not the least, as you called us "obsessive fans", yes I agree, and that too very very proudly, that I am a HUGE, not obsessed but wayyyyy over obsessed, diehard fan of Parul, and you might say that I came in defense or whatever, but the fact is that I only said what I personally felt... I was about to bring up this point earlier, that if Parul's fans are giving Sara a hard time over this photoshoot, it would have been the same if it was the other way around (and even though some will say that I am wrong here, many of us have been here for quite some time now to be able to tell the difference)... The only reason I didn't write all this before is because then it would have been said that there was no reason for me to bring Parul into this topic, but hey, now since she is here, I couldn't hold myself back... Sorry Eva ji and Jyoti ji, I don't want to start any argument here, but I am only stating my POV...
Sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings, that was definetly not my intention...