Originally posted by: zarmeeno
I do agree with the topic starter but in my view this forum is to discuss the show and discussions means different opinions of different people. Now opinions can be positive or negative because different people have different ways of seeing situations and handling them. If people talk about Sadhana/Ragini some people liker their character and some people dont. It;s the way people see it and this is the criticism. We dont meet creatives people personaly to discuss our views about the show or the character so we put down in words so creatives can read our views. They dont have to implement them but atleast we are conveying them our message through this forum. All the peole will not discuss positive about a show or a character. It's their view. But our job is to respect other peoples view and have a healthy discussion. If we r talking about bashing a character then y bashing of characters like Vasu, Avni, Naveen, Kaushi, malti, Vinu etc is allowed. I believe it is a discussion forum and healthy discussion is always respecting other peoples point of view and respectfully trying to convey yours.
Zarmeeno, you know what I mean. I don't mean not to say anything negative at all.There is a limit for everything.
I would say it would be a good discussion if you could mention the negative comments as your POV and not call characters names or tittles like some the nasty ones which are floating in Bidaai forums right now.For ex:"If you say "Sadhana is not being fair or trying to be mahan by jumping to save Vasu , while somebody else deserved the scene space", you know you are crossing the line.Cts's would have written and created a scene for a reason.And bashing a character the will lead to only fights, coz' none of us including the actors can control it their role on screen!
If this was one kind of bad discussion,attacking the posters/members by names will be extreme.We all knowingly or unknowingly instigate others.We need to have patients to understand the other persons intention before starting an argument.
Oh well!,I think none of us are kids here, we all know the difference between just expressing our opinion, bashing and instigating and we have learnt the manners of decency long back ago.We need to remember to use it and be patient ,try to read every comment with good heart.It is definitely will make a difference !!!
