Infidelity.. a desperation or a compulsion - Page 2

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

we need to see both sides of the coin for sure to know...but not to deny, that Vasu can go to any extent to get her job done and to prove herself right...

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

To your original point is Infidelity a desparation or compulsion-

Infidelity is a desparation if its one time, or with one person for a long time. Someone tries to find peace and solace in someone else's company.

Compulsion - when its a disease like sexual addiction. Such people cannot keep to one extra marital affair and typically indulge in multiple relationships through out their lives, sometimes at the same time and do not hold the relationships for very long.

Inderjeet may have been pushed to the brink by Vasu's behavior or any number of reasons - however - infidelity is never easily forgiven or forgotten as it is the ultimate betrayal in a marriage.

Indu's one betrayal will be equal hundred crimes by Vasu - in my books.

Originally posted by: taral83

I don't think infidelity can ever be excused. However, its also not fair to just blame the one that did the crime. Its like your not excusing them just because the spouse was horrible doesn't mean you cheat, but you can't truly hold them accountable if the other spouse was just as not interested in making a relationship. Marriage is a two way street, it needs the support and co-operation from both sides, if you don't pay attention you will just have one major crash........I am not saying that Vasu drove Inderjeet to cheat so he should not be blamed. I think that Inderjeet is guilty regardless, but Vasu shouldn't be let go easy either (hence we don't know what happened, only making a judgement on how Vasu is today) Its really important to know both sides of the story, because sometimes what we see is not what happens behind closed doors. Cheaters will never be excused, but its also important to acknowledge what drove them there also if there are other reason. Just to dismiss it by saying he cheated when they were married, well that marriage was not even a marriage. Only saying vows and making promises doesn't make a marriage. Your heart, your soul needs to be there and even if one is missing its not a true marriage. And I think it shoud have ended right there. But Inderjeet went a step forward and cheated, yes its wrong, but what went on in their relationship isn't right either. As for caring about marriages and respecting them, well Vasu has showed no such thing, example trying to divorce Alekh and Sadhna and bring in a third wheel even before the divorce was finalized. Wouldn't that have been infidelity???

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

I'ld rather think that Vasu loves Indrajeet as well as her family. I think Vasu ahs got the power as dadaji wa aware of Inder's mistakes and lest he gives his property to his second woman and child. So Dadaji played safe and kept everything in Alekh's name... I think Inder stayed back because of monetray issues with Vasu...rather I'ld say that although Vasu is arrogant and the ways are bad, she still tries to think about the family.

Indrajeet should not have stayed with Vasu just for wealth...we are to see his part as well as Vasu's