Originally posted by: suchitra_1
looks like CTs are running out of Ideas.
Anyways.. I am not against women working outside. As I have said many times their priority is Home and Children as they are the nurturers and its in their nature to raise the nation of tomorrow.
But, one thing is disspointing is that,
if Sadhana and Ragini do choose to work then, why should they also take care of the household?
I mean , its better if Saagini sit at home and relax and enjoy their bit of lives than doing both outside work + household. Cause naturally it does seem that Alekh (not sure about Ranvir) does nto want to help out at the house hold chores.
So I say Why bother? Fine they think they are the men then let them deal with money and financial issues and hte other headaches. Its simply terrible that today women,
just to prove themselves they have to
Hold a Job, Hold a career, Be a super mom and then also clean, cook, take care of household.
and men are doing what they did 100 years ago , 1000 years ago...
Earn , come home and become couch potatoes (amm there are exceptions)
Just my POV.
Every woman should be educated, Not to work but to become more open minded and knowledagble so she can pass on the tradition to her offsprings and become worthwhile in her own eyes and the eyes of society (which includes her kids/husband etc)
It does not necessarily mean that , just cause she is educated she HAS to work
I personally say, hey if your husband is ready to take care of the household ( ALONG WIHT YOU) then go and work . IF not DON"T BOTHER let them be the man of the house and take all the headache. We women have enough on our plates in the first place! sheesh
@Bold - Well said 👏
You are right in a way that if men dont support at home, then better not to bother about working outside as it causes too much stress to handle work, house, kids and husband. But, the problem lies with the needs and wants of a woman. What if a woman is the only daughter to her parents? Then there comes the need to support her parents. I am sure, most women can not ask her husbdand to help her parents (though many husbands dont mind these days). And the second one is about a woman's wants. If a woman is very interested in doing/learning something outside the house, then? I am sure, she will never sit @ home just because husband doesnt support at home.
It is a big responsibility to most women (mainly Indian women) these days. Most of us want to become a great mother, great wife, great daughter, and a great self by creating our own identity. And becoming great in all the fields is not that easy.
Many serials these days show an ideal woman is an ideal daughter-in-law. I agree, our culture gives importance to this. But this is not the only thing which is important. For example, even in yeh rishta, Akshara has become the greatest daughter in law. She is proving it daily. But the question once arised about her education is no where seen in the serial. I think they must have forgotten that completely.
Movies and serials inspire many people (if not all). It would be nice if they show how things change with time.
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