Why is Sadhna looking confused? - Page 3

Originally posted by: taral83

I thought you meant about trust also. And but the same still applies....Sadhna is not a ordinary character. She has a very big heart that she can think about the feeling of her enemies as well. Vasu may have done alot of things to her, but for Sadhna she is still her mother. She doesn't want to be the cause of stealing a son away from his family. Just like Mamaji in many situations. Sadhna's ethical and standards, will not allow her to do that, even if its the son's own dicision.

she is not even thinking of getting reaasurance about her status in Alekh's life, she is already thinking how to put Alekh on the right track...because Alekh is just damn upset now...Alekh needs to calm down and when a person calms down, then only he can think staright... Vasu has done wrong, but that does not mean "just abandon her"..

i think she is confused that he beilieved and listened to mamiji yet he didn't listen to his wife sadhna when she wanted to explain why she signed those divorce paper.but again alekh said mamiji mom ke muh se sab baat ulg di. maybe she is thinking that vasu might blame her from alekh leaving the house.
i agree with bani she is thinking from a bahu point of view, but im glad she's going to tell him that she doesn't trust his trust on her. because what gaurentee does she have that if another probelm arises he will need proof that his wife is telling truth. no husband should need proof of that thier wife is telling the truth. this what alekh needs to understand, sadhna was humilated in her sasural and maayka (mamiji, malti, nani and vinu). she is hurt that he was ready to marry someone else because his mother wanted it. he was ready to leave her knowing how much she loved him.
him coming back and saying i love you, im sorry i didn't trust and i can't live without is not enough for all that humliation and insults to be washed away. he has to prove to her by actions that he will trust her come what may. he has taken the first step my saying if my wife is not respected here she won't come here and he too left.

Originally posted by: krutiv100

i think she is confused that he beilieved and listened to mamiji yet he didn't listen to his wife sadhna when she wanted to explain why she signed those divorce paper.but again alekh said mamiji mom ke muh se sab baat ulg di. maybe she is thinking that vasu might blame her from alekh leaving the house.
i agree with bani she is thinking from a bahu point of view, but im glad she's going to tell him that she doesn't trust his trust on her. because what gaurentee does she have that if another probelm arises he will need proof that his wife is telling truth. no husband should need proof of that thier wife is telling the truth. this what alekh needs to understand, sadhna was humilated in her sasural and maayka (mamiji, malti, nani and vinu). she is hurt that he was ready to marry someone else because his mother wanted it. he was ready to leave her knowing how much she loved him.
him coming back and saying i love you, im sorry i didn't trust and i can't live without is not enough for all that humliation and insults to be washed away. he has to prove to her by actions that he will trust her come what may. he has taken the first step my saying if my wife is not respected here she won't come here and he too left.

Well said! 👏

She is not thinking about herself at all, she is not a character who will think of her own insult or she wants assurance..she is one who always puts others interest ahead of her insult or well being lets wait and see what creatives make Sdahna speak tomorrow...I am sure it will be something unique

i think we're jumping to conclusions without even seeing the whole picture. to quote om makhija, "picture abhi baki hein mere dost". 😉 let's wait till what sadi will say tomorrow. we just saw a 5-second-pre cap, so can't come to a conclusion based on that.
but if i were to make a PREDICTION; based on how sadi has been so far, she will easily forgive alekh and go back to him. maybe she will still have a LITTLE doubt on his trust, but as a whole, i predict she will accept him wholeheartedly; cause that's what she has done for both ragi and mamiji, and, well, cause she she is sadi after all. she forgave both ragi and mami instantly, and wasn't afraid that they'll break her trust again. she literally did forgive and FORGET fully, almost as if none of it ever even happened... so if she can do it for them, i don't see why she wouldn't do it for alekh...? in fact, IMO, if she doesn't (with alekh i mean), i'd say that'd be highly out of her character, and contradict sadi herself!
anyways, now i don't wanna contradict MYSELF by jumping into conclusions. let's wait till tomorrow to make our judgements 😉 besides, i don't think sadi will object to alekh's decision to leave the house and his mother anyway, as it is already confirmed that alekh will leave the house, and even ragvir would do the same as well. so obviously, alekh leaves the house and lives separately WITH sadi, therefore it can only mean that sadi will eventually accept his decision. so i don't think the whole "saving-mom-son-relationship" would be a factor here.
just sayin'...

Originally posted by: pricey28

i think we're jumping to conclusions without even seeing the whole picture. to quote om makhija, "picture abhi baki hein mere dost". 😉 let's wait till what sadi will say tomorrow. we just saw a 5-second-pre cap, so can't come to a conclusion based on that.
but if i were to make a PREDICTION; based on how sadi has been so far, she will easily forgive alekh and go back to him. maybe she will still have a LITTLE doubt on his trust, but as a whole, i predict she will accept him wholeheartedly; cause that's what she has done for both ragi and mamiji, and, well, cause she she is sadi after all. she forgave both ragi and mami instantly, and wasn't afraid that they'll break her trust again. she literally did forgive and FORGET fully, almost as if none of it ever even happened... so if she can do it for them, i don't see why she wouldn't do it for alekh...? in fact, IMO, if she doesn't (with alekh i mean), i'd say that'd be highly out of her character, and contradict sadi herself!
anyways, now i don't wanna contradict MYSELF by jumping into conclusions. let's wait till tomorrow to make our judgements 😉 besides, i don't think sadi will object to alekh's decision to leave the house and his mother anyway, as it is already confirmed that alekh will leave the house, and even ragvir would do the same as well. so obviously, alekh leaves the house and lives separately WITH sadi, therefore it can only mean that sadi will eventually accept his decision. so i don't think the whole "saving-mom-son-relationship" would be a factor here.
just sayin'...

there is more to it...lets wait for tomorrow...I am sure soemthing unique will come up tomorrow...we are only thinking that Sdahna will forgive or not forgive, but I am trying to say..she is thinking more than this...as you said..lets wait...

yeah too right guys..
lets wait and watch till tomorrow..
if i was sadhna, hai i would run into alekh's arms...

i hope salekh sort everything out tomorrow

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

I feel there are two points...you all can discuss if I am thinking right..

1. She felt that Alekh realised because of evidences.

2. Secondly , she is a girl who never controls her husband. Thus she will never want to get her husband by snatching a son from his mother. For her, respect needs to be earned and not snatched...

very well written topic 👍🏼 Sadhna's character in unique and the creative trying to or I'm hoping they point out importance's of relations.