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Posted: 15 years ago
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yess even I cudn't figure it out.....I'm sure she has something in my mind.....she forgave ragini n mamiji instantly but not alekh.....he trusted vasu blindly but the trust broke within seconds......from madness it came to zero.....this way his trust for sadhna can also get shattered anyday....maybe that's y she said that she can't trust his trust in the precap....lukin forward 2 this discussion
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Agreed @ Bani...
thats what was shown in the pre-cap that she will say I have no bharosa in your vishwas...

She was kind of happy that he returned himself and guided him back to RV house to basically fulfil her promise given to vasu that she will not tell the truth...
but when Alekh said that he returned as evidences were shown and if that were not the case then he would have commited hte biggest error,,.. that shook her off that, he returned not for her but due to the evidences and hte new start that he wants is not that easy to get....

Nice...

I hope he won't just move into the mamaji's house but rather prove to be a worthy husband first and then take her with him to RV house and livethere with respect, or get another place and live together there...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

<font color="#0000ff">Given the ideals Mamaji and Sdahna share, did anyone see Mamaji also is having the same kind of confusion...</font>


yes gud pt.....his expressions were similar......he is maybe having fatherly insecurities.....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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It seems Sadhana is not going to accept Alekh so easily.I am leaning more towards the second option.That she feels its not right to walk out on your mother esp as she knows how much Vasu really loves Alekh.As for the respect thing(not taking anything away from her or demeaning her)she was always the abused.Be it anyone.So suddenly looking for respect from her husband looks bit odd.May be we get to see a more assertive Sadhana from now on.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

your topis is very good...sorry you did not ask me though


yeah! i know. i'll try to tell u..😊 i know u r an INTELLIGENT!😃 i always follow u.!!😊

but i don't know very difficult english sentences. i understand ur topics (all) a little bit. all deaf people know english (58%) only. they couldn't remember very tough english languages. they speak only simple english language. but i try to remember them. so i understand ur topics a little bit, NOT almost. so i see a dictionary to find out tough words. that's all. UNDERSTAND?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: suchitra_1

Agreed @ Bani...
thats what was shown in the pre-cap that she will say I have no bharosa in your vishwas...

She was kind of happy that he returned himself and guided him back to RV house to basically fulfil her promise given to vasu that she will not tell the truth...
but when Alekh said that he returned as evidences were shown and if that were not the case then he would have commited hte biggest error,,.. that shook her off that, he returned not for her but due to the evidences and hte new start that he wants is not that easy to get....

Nice...

I hope he won't just move into the mamaji's house but rather prove to be a worthy husband first and then take her with him to RV house and livethere with respect, or get another place and live together there...


true.....its high time he makes sum efforts.....i hope that the shock look of his face in the preca
p is temporary n the way he left RV house he should be well prepared to win back his love......in generl i want alekh to be bold, protective and spontaneous so that he can complete sadhna......there is a lot of scope for salekh now.....CVs shud turn a new leaf and shape their story
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Sadhna is happy and at the same time looks confused...Sara Khan has indeed given her best expressions..in the hall she was crying with Alekh as Alekh was begging for forgiveness, instantly she changed her feeling, was surprised and was confused when Alekh said he left home and that Kaushi came and made Vasu blurt out the truth...

wow! what a depth in the character....I have a strong guess about this..I ''share after sometime...
lets discuss why she might be confused, what side of Sadhna's character is yet to be revealed..any girl will be happy to see that her husband is back to her, breaking all ties and wants to live his life with her....

You answered your question Bani, ANY GIRL.......thats just it Sadhna isn't just Any girl. she isn't your average next door girl. She indeed has a lot of depth in her character. She is stronger then she looks. I have said this before, that she is a silent fighter, she watches, she observes, she weights things out in her head, she thinks about all the consequences that may occur with her judgement before making any rational decision. She needs reassurance now. She need to make sure that what happen between them will never happen again. By him coming back she is now 99.9% sure that he is a changed man, however that 0.1% is her confusion, that IF factor. Which will take time to reassure. It is like that with any relationship, when someone breaks your trust and hurts you really bad, and when that person returns,you may forgive and forget but it take a very long time to re-gain that trust in them again. Whether that be your mother, father, sister, brother or HUSBAND. And I think the hardest one of them is a husband, because that realationship is created by YOU its more emotional, spirtual and personal, based totally on trust then any other relationship. And I think that is the confusion state that Sadhna is in right now. She is indeed head of heels that Alekh is back, but the WIFE part of her is still confused and not fully reassured that he is back for good. As the saying goes "Dudh ka jala chaach bhi hoonk phoonk kar pita" she doesn't want to be hurt again.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@ Suchitra and Shilpa,
my point is its not that she is not trusting Alekh..she trusts Alekh and loves him alot...she has no doubts about Alekh's intention.
but her point is she does not want to get Alekh by snatching him from Vasu. thats the point she raised...that how he could think that Sadhna would accept her, when he breaks all his ties with the Rajvansh family. As a bahu of the family, Rajvansh family is as much Sdahna's as its Alekh's ...She is thinking more like a bahu than a wife now...any wife will be overjoyed to see that her husband loves and trusts her the most. But Sdahna is a character, who never controls anyone.....
I am just at awe with the creatives and their thoughts about how an ideal girl should be...I mean noone will ever think that way, what the creatives are now trying to show through Sdahna's character...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: taral83

You answered your question Bani, ANY GIRL.......thats just it Sadhna isn't just Any girl. she isn't your average next door girl. She indeed has a lot of depth in her character. She is stronger then she looks. I have said this before, that she is a silent fighter, she watches, she observes, she weights things out in her head, she thinks about all the consequences that may occur with her judgement before making any rational decision. She needs reassurance now. She need to make sure that what happen between them will never happen again. By him coming back she is now 99.9% sure that he is a changed man, however that 0.1% is her confusion, that IF factor. Which will take time to reassure. It is like that with any relationship, when someone breaks your trust and hurts you really bad, and when that person returns,you may forgive and forget but it take a very long time to re-gain that trust in them again. Whether that be your mother, father, sister, brother or HUSBAND. And I think the hardest one of them is a husband, because that realationship is created by YOU its more emotional, spirtual and personal, based totally on trust then any other relationship. And I think that is the confusion state that Sadhna is in right now. She is indeed head of heels that Alekh is back, but the WIFE part of her is still confused and not fully reassured that he is back for good. As the saying goes "Dudh ka jala chaach bhi hoonk phoonk kar pita" she doesn't want to be hurt again.

your first part about the "average girl " is right..but not the next oart as per my POV... If she thinks about reaasurance, then also it related to herself, and she is a person who places others before her.
She is thinking more as a human being and as a bahu, more than Alekkh's wife...even as a wife, a girl needs to show her husband in a skilled way, what is right or wrong...
I bet this time also, only Mamaji will be able to understand what Sdahna is thinking...Sdahna is an out of the world character...
tomorrow's episode will be the most worthy episode...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

@ Suchitra and Shilpa,

my point is its not that she is not trusting Alekh..she trusts Alekh and loves him alot...she has no doubts about Alekh's intention.
but her point is she does not want to get Alekh by snatching him from Vasu. thats the point she raised...that how he could think that Sadhna would accept her, when he breaks all his ties with the Rajvansh family. As a bahu of the family, Rajvansh family is as much Sdahna's as its Alekh's ...She is thinking more like a bahu than a wife now...any wife will be overjoyed to see that her husband loves and trusts her the most. But Sdahna is a character, who never controls anyone.....
I am just at awe with the creatives and their thoughts about how an ideal girl should be...I mean noone will ever think that way, what the creatives are now trying to show through Sdahna's character...

I thought you meant about trust also. And but the same still applies....Sadhna is not a ordinary character. She has a very big heart that she can think about the feeling of her enemies as well. Vasu may have done alot of things to her, but for Sadhna she is still her mother. She doesn't want to be the cause of stealing a son away from his family. Just like Mamaji in many situations. Sadhna's ethical and standards, will not allow her to do that, even if its the son's own dicision.

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