Why is Sadhna looking confused? - Page 5

Originally posted by: taral83

ok so I finally saw the episode......and now I think I understand better what you are trying to ask Bani. When I was watching, the changing expression on Sadhna's face when Alekh mentioned Kaushi bringing out the truth and so forth. The only thing that came to my mind was that this isn't his OWN decision. There is a difference in learning the truth from someone else and opening your eyes and feeling the the truth on your own and opening your own eyes. Sadhna at that point seemed like he didn't realize on his own, it was because some one brought the truth in front of him. If he had jsut stoped the engagement on his own, saying "wait, I can't live with out Sadhna, I am leaving" would have meant way more to a wife then basically being told that you are doing something wrong. I don't know if I am just talking and not making sense......but I hope you get my point............😆....and of course ther bahu dharam followed.....

Originally posted by: Nu_Adu

You're absolutely right Taral. I felt exactly the same thing! I'm sure this is what is in Sadhna's mind and I hope this is what they show! Sadhna would never have thought twice about this matter if Alekh had stopped the engagement without anyone else's interference. In fact, that is just what Sadhna had expected him to do before she gave up hope and started praying for his 'nayi shuruwat'! Yes, Sadhna is disappointed in Alekh and he has to fix this himself! It's his fault whether one likes it or not! 😔

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

exactly Taral...actually I wanted someone like you to see and critically analyse Sadhna's changed expressions, now you can make out what I wanted to say..actually Sara was very good in changing her expressions from love to expectation to abhimaan to confusion to dilemma and back again to love and duty (the kheer incident) ...how she changed her expression when she heard about Mamiji and everything...and then again when Alekh started to cry, she started to cry with Alekh..she is in a confusion...but as I have mentioned during opening the post...the first point I wrote was that Alekh believed her on basis of evidences and also that she did not like the idea that Vasu blurted out everything in public and that put the Rajvansh prestige at stake...

thanks Taral, its always great to discuss with you all

Originally posted by: taral83

What makes this feeling in Sadhna more stronger is the pre-cap. "mujhe apke vishwas pe vishwas nahi hai".............she doesn't say I don't trust you Alekh, she is strickly staying she doesn't trust the trust that Alekh has for her now..........why???...because that trust in him was not awakened by Alekh himself, but because Kaushi pushed Vasu to blurt out her truth in front of Alekh. Thought remorese and acknowledging your mistakes is usually the biggest step in recovering you lost respect and relationships, its bigger when that understanding is achieved by your own, which Alekh did not. So that trust that Sadhna can not trust is not strong enough for her to accept. He will have to prove himself

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

But she will deal with him in a very composed way...with her love and understanding as usual

Originally posted by: taral83

Oh I am sure of that..........she will find a way to make him realize.........what she is thinking...........she would never brush him off.....😳 they are just to sweet......it reminds me of the last part of Ramayan.....................Ram made Sita go through Agni pariksha because of society basically and everyone pointing fingers, even though deep down he knew that Sita can never be wrong, but he didn't trust that trust and gave into society, just like Alekh..........I don't remember the ending of Ramayan very well but it was Luv Kush that asked for justice and brought the question up to Ramji about the Agni Pariksha, where Ramji finally realized his mistake. But it wasn't until Luv Kush asking that he realized, just like Alekh again...........Thats if I didn't get the ending of Ramayan all mixed up.....😆

Originally posted by: taral83