Why is Sadhna looking confused? - Page 7

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

somehting very serious is bothering Sdahna for sure, as while Alekh and the family was having kheer downstairs, she went to her room...

If you think about, there is nothing to celebrate there... the mistake that caused so much pain in so many lives, is now again being repeated, except it is Vasu now... Sadhana identifies herself with her sasuraal. And once again, logon ke beech family ka izzat tamasha bangayi, aur uparse pati ghar chodke aagaya, woh bhi apni maa se ladkar...

From Sharma family point of view, it is a celebration. But, for Rajvansh family it is a disaster. Koyi bhi achi bahu ko ye kubool nahi hogi... So Sadhana has a good enough reason to be sad and maayoos and confused as to "Ab kay akaren? How can I fix this problem". Aalekh mein abhi bhi ithna samajh nahi hai ki har rishthe ko ek dor mein baankar rakh saken... that comes only with experience and Aalekh ko time lagega yeh samajhne mein. Sadhana has learnt her lesson, and will not make that mistake or allow Aalekh to make that mistake again.

Ab Rajvansh parivaar keliye chattan bankar khari uthregi Sadhana... I think this is what is going to be the next track...

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

there are different versions available for Ramayan like some believe the concept of Chhaya Sita...Ram had a different issue, as a king his first priority was his "Praja" and its also said in some versions that Sita herself volunteered to go to exile, after seeing Ram's mental condition and that her husband was torn between the duty of a husband and a king...thats the greatness of Sita...A king gave exile to Sita, but a husband Ram always slept on the floor and led a simple life despite being a king, just because his wife is in the forest...for Ram, it was Sita only as he disagreed to marry again for the execution of Aswamedh Jagna, and put a "Sita made of Gold" and made the statue be beside him for the Puja...then Luv-kush incident followed and again some Prajas wanted Agni Pariksha...Sita did "Patal Prabesh"

Its said as an example of Karma that the guy who demanded Sita's agnipariksha was born again during Dwapar Yug when Ram incarnated as Krishna and then the guy was punished by Krishna...

didn't realize so many versions.....well I watched it when I was little.....I would love to read it in hindi or Sanskrit, but I can't read any of those. Besides english I cant read anything and I don't feel the same when reading holy scriptures in english it isn't the same as reading or listening to it in hindi or Sanskrit. that feeling isn't there. that is when I really regret that I didn't go to school in india or didn't get education here in the US in our languages. but thanks for the insight. I thought it was similar the way Ram gave in to his villiage and how Alekh gave into his Mother and both did injustice to their wife. both did the injustice because they felt a "duty" towards them, but at the same time giving injustice to their wife.


if you cannot read Hindi or Sanskrit, I'ld suggest that watch the serial Ramayan by Ramanand Sagar, its done in great detail and very authentic also. In the chat clubs of IF, find LalithaRoghunath's post on Ramayan and all the episodes are posted there. Lalitha is a teacher from NYC, and has great interest in all these...her work in the CC is really praiseworthy.


Thanks Bani. I will check Lalitha Roghunath's posts.

Originally posted by: vishmewell

If you think about, there is nothing to celebrate there... the mistake that caused so much pain in so many lives, is now again being repeated, except it is Vasu now... Sadhana identifies herself with her sasuraal. And once again, logon ke beech family ka izzat tamasha bangayi, aur uparse pati ghar chodke aagaya, woh bhi apni maa se ladkar...

From Sharma family point of view, it is a celebration. But, for Rajvansh family it is a disaster. Koyi bhi achi bahu ko ye kubool nahi hogi... So Sadhana has a good enough reason to be sad and maayoos and confused as to "Ab kay akaren? How can I fix this problem". Aalekh mein abhi bhi ithna samajh nahi hai ki har rishthe ko ek dor mein baankar rakh saken... that comes only with experience and Aalekh ko time lagega yeh samajhne mein. Sadhana has learnt her lesson, and will not make that mistake or allow Aalekh to make that mistake again.

Ab Rajvansh parivaar keliye chattan bankar khari uthregi Sadhana... I think this is what is going to be the next track...

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

<font color="#0000ff">@ Suchitra and Shilpa,</font>

<font color="#0000ff">my point is its not that she is not trusting Alekh..she trusts Alekh and loves him alot...she has no doubts about Alekh's intention.</font>

<font color="#0000ff">but her point is she does not want to get Alekh by snatching him from Vasu. thats the point she raised...that how he could think that Sadhna would accept her, when he breaks all his ties with the Rajvansh family. As a bahu of the family, Rajvansh family is as much Sdahna's as its Alekh's ...She is thinking more like a bahu than a wife now...any wife will be overjoyed to see that her husband loves and trusts her the most. But Sdahna is a character, who never controls anyone.....</font>

<font color="#0000ff">I am just at awe with the creatives and their thoughts about how an ideal girl should be...I mean noone will ever think that way, </font>what the creatives are now trying to show through Sdahna's character...

u r right yaar.....not trusting her husband is too low for sadhna......she has sumthing much deeper in my mind.....probably vasu......waiting to see......i wanted to be there in this discussion but sry had to study

Originally posted by: vishmewell

If you think about, there is nothing to celebrate there... the mistake that caused so much pain in so many lives, is now again being repeated, except it is Vasu now... Sadhana identifies herself with her sasuraal. And once again, logon ke beech family ka izzat tamasha bangayi, aur uparse pati ghar chodke aagaya, woh bhi apni maa se ladkar...

From Sharma family point of view, it is a celebration. But, for Rajvansh family it is a disaster. Koyi bhi achi bahu ko ye kubool nahi hogi... So Sadhana has a good enough reason to be sad and maayoos and confused as to "Ab kay akaren? How can I fix this problem". Aalekh mein abhi bhi ithna samajh nahi hai ki har rishthe ko ek dor mein baankar rakh saken... that comes only with experience and Aalekh ko time lagega yeh samajhne mein. Sadhana has learnt her lesson, and will not make that mistake or allow Aalekh to make that mistake again.

Ab Rajvansh parivaar keliye chattan bankar khari uthregi Sadhana... I think this is what is going to be the next track...

very true.......salekh have re-united but the way it has happened is not that happy for all.....many ppl have got hurt in the process so how can an altruist like sadhna celebrate ???

Originally posted by: Shilpa.Agarwal

u r right yaar.....not trusting her husband is too low for sadhna......she has sumthing much deeper in my mind.....probably vasu......waiting to see......i wanted to be there in this discussion but sry had to study

Kaushi, Ragini and Ranveer did whatever was the demand of the day and they are right in their efforts to stop the engagement..noone really wanted Vasu's tamasha in front of the society...

remember Mamaji's words that Vasuji will never accept her fault and Alekhji ke upar unki Maa ki parda para hain..it was just a gamble and good luck that Vasu blurted out...

Originally posted by: vishmewell

I agree with the discussions above. It must have bothered her for he again made a choice of one of the two relationships in his life As he did with Sadhana before. Life is never about choosing one or the other. It is about striking a balance between all relationships in life. When somebody chooses one relationship over the other, it is followed by repentance as in the case of Sadhana.

Based on her own actions and Aalekhs, Sadhana must have already internalized what exactly went wrong in her marriage, choosing one over the other; and now making efforts not to make the same mistakes. I am so convinced this might be bothering Sadhana.

What do you guys thinks about it?

Couldn't agree more. You have put everything so nice and clear. I also think she must have realized what exactly went wrong in her marriage and life in general. By trying to please everyone so hard, everything fell apart and she has to fix it.

Originally posted by: --Anu--

Couldn't agree more. You have put everything so nice and clear. I also think she must have realized what exactly went wrong in her marriage and life in general. By trying to please everyone so hard, everything fell apart and she has to fix it.

I dont know whether she is indeed thinking that way, and if she is not, I think she should. Now her priority is not anyone, but Alekh. She needs to take up the sole responsibility to complete Alekh in every way...she should not be bothered about anything else, other than completing Alekh and to give him every happiness.

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

I dont know whether she is indeed thinking that way, and if she is not, I think she should. Now her priority is not anyone, but Alekh. She needs to take up the sole responsibility to complete Alekh in every way...she should not be bothered about anything else, other than completing Alekh and to give him every happiness.

Bani, Sadhana is one of the most intelligent TV characters... We viewers have to get much ahead of her to actually understand what she's thinking...And she is a good strategist too...

IMO, if you attach emotions to this character, we can never get ahead of her... mamaji to great extent does that... 😊

I am really enjoying this thread because all discussions are based on everything minus emotions... 😃 it is very stimulating...