Negativity does not work in any aspect....

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

<font color="#0000ff">Negativity is like a blind lane, it leads one
nowhere....it gives some way for sometime, only to end in a dead
end...when RS is aying "Negativity did not work in Bidaai", I'ld say
"negativity does not work in any aspect in life"....A setting sun is no
comparison to a rising sun'd glare...Hatred is no match to love....



I'ld take the example of Alekh, Alekh spent hours standing in front of
Kaushalya Niwas, just to verify whether Sdahna signed the divorce
papers, but could he not make a similar effort, when he came to confess
his love for Sadhna...could he not spend that time and energy before to
find out where Sdahna is and why she participated in the dance
competition...he made efforts to find out Sdahna, but was it that
intense as his hatred...his hatred was definitely more than his love,
that in no time, he converted all his love to hatred and anger....will
this negativity be good for him....



he could have reacted positively and given a new dimension to his
character , just what Sdahna wanted her husband to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</font>

I so agree with u..negativity never works ! in tv serials, the makers think that we'll watch it and keep watching in the hope of seeing something positive..but there's a limit to it...it's the same case in yrkkh...

i'm not blaming sadhna's character, but whatever she's doing is highly illogical..what was the need to hide about her maami's health frm maama & his family , and Ragini ? she thought she'll get her operated & nobody will know? then she took part in the competition, why wasn't Ragini informed about her mother's health? obviously she wud have helped , in such cases, it doesn't matter where the money is coming from..they cud have returned the favor later...but for Sadhna it was a better option to lose the competition for Raginig's sake, divorce alekh and then get the money, and after tht, not tell maamaji and his family frm where she arranged money...then she didn't tell anybody that divorced alekh...c'mon can these things remain hidden? i doubt whether someone knows or not, why she married alekh (the condition for Ragini Ranvir's marriage)..can't she tell ANYONE why she signed the divorce papers? she couldn't have talked to alekh or ranvir tht vasu wants her to sign the papers in lieu of money for maamiji's operation? it's all the brainwork of RS creative team, they r ruining both bidai and yrkkh :(

Negativity doesn't work well in most shows and it didn't work in Bidaai at all. This is because in other shows, the lead protagonists are fighting against the negativity not having a 360 degree turn in personality and becoming one of the causes of negativity. This negativity with the rift would have worked much better if both sisters misunderstood each other due to circumstances, and if RS did not decide to "experiment" with Ragini's character. Because Ragini's character changed drastically, the public had major issues digesting the track. On top of that, most of what Sadhna was doing was highly illogical. So it was becoming increasingly irritating to watch.

Ragini was an average girl, yes. She was real, Sadhna was ideal, but her character DID change to suit the track. And the biggest proof of that is the maker of the show himself says that they changed Ragini's character which did not work. I think he would know the show better than you or me considering he is responsible for it even existing.

Originally posted by: chocolover89

Ragini was an average girl, yes. She was real, Sadhna was ideal, but her character DID change to suit the track. And the biggest proof of that is the maker of the show himself says that they changed Ragini's character which did not work. I think he would know the show better than you or me considering he is responsible for it even existing.

I still maintain that negativity didn't work in Bidaai because of inconsistent character personalities and lack of logic. The track was simply not dealt with well. Also, it's now been 5 months since it started. That's way TOO long for a negative track.

the best judge of a show is the audience, its a neutral viewer who decides the fate, otherwise the maker should make the show for themselves to watch and wait for some sycophants to analyse the show...

The maker of the show will now show strong backbone in a character which had no backbone, in the name of suiting the track. Remember one thing, as per human psychology books [(they know better than me) (cant say about you, I am a PhD, you might be a DSc.)], basic human bature never changes. Also, I feel God knows more than me, He says in GITA that a person is accountable for all his deeds...good or bad. Now if Rajan Shahi considers himself God, and starts showing Ragini is the greatest and the truthful characte and that Karma does not hold any significance, then I'ld start having doubts about many thing...his sycophants can label him as GOD, but I am sorry I and many others will not be able to do that....

Originally posted by: chocolover89

Negativity doesn't work well in most shows and it didn't work in Bidaai at all. This is because in other shows, the lead protagonists are fighting against the negativity not having a 360 degree turn in personality and becoming one of the causes of negativity. This negativity with the rift would have worked much better if both sisters misunderstood each other due to circumstances, and if RS did not decide to "experiment" with Ragini's character. Because Ragini's character changed drastically, the public had major issues digesting the track. On top of that, most of what Sadhna was doing was highly illogical. So it was becoming increasingly irritating to watch.

agree with u..accepted sadhna is an angel, she's the epitome of goodness but her goodness will not reduce 0.000000001% if she shares her problems with her loved ones and don't give them a chance to misunderstand her...i still can't see any reason as to why she hid it frm maamaji tht vinu mortgaged the house...and she hid it frm mallika tht she's alekh's wife..can't fathom how these things can be kept secret....then sadi says tht she'll have to bow down to the circumstances..she's forgetting she herself created these circumstances...but she's not God, she cannot write anybody's destiny..I'm surprised she's talking to Ranvir that way, lying to her maamaji, the only people who genuinely care for her..and ppl. like vasu who dominate her, she silently bows down to them.....I'm not blaming her, she's my fav. character in bidai but i can't understand why these lead heroines love to keep secrets which create misunderstandings ..n the stories r messed up n dragged for months...

I agree negativity never works in general. But negativity is the truth of life also. We see it everyday from complete strangers to family and friends. It actually teaches us life's biggest lessons sometimes and I think you can't have positivity with negativity. So just like life, soaps can't be soaps with out the negativity. However, I do believe there should be a limit of it. It should have stoped at a certain point, and that is what people fail to understand in real life and reel life.