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Posted: 15 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: krutiv100

I too would want to be sadhna, but my reasons are differnt even though i too want to just romance with alekh😍☺️...
If i was sadhna i would speak up and face Vasu with confidence as well as respect like how ranvir does. i would also stand up to mamiji and nanimaa and tell nanami maa that she is elder and instead of teaching kaushi to be selfish over her daughter she should be teaching her to be unselfish beacuse what she is doing with sadhna today same thing someone can do to ragini tomorrow and also instead of looking for someone to blame for all problems she should try and solve them, why can't she say anything to malti when kaushi herself knows malti is wrong yet she verbaly absues me i.e sadhna.

To vasu i would tell her as sadhna that, you blackmailed me to marry your mently unstabled son, helpless i married him, but i fell in love with him, with his innocence and his truthfullness, i supported him as his wife and also fufliled my responsibilty as a dughter in law and bahu of this house without asking for anything in return, even when your own son hated you i supported you i told him you are not a bad person even though you had verbly abused me time and time again. It was me who made everyone realise what a bad person sonia was. not once have i asked for anything yet why are you saying that everything i do, i do for my own selfish reasons, if i was selfish i would have let alkehji be mad at you and i would have let sonia become bahu of this house and and let her destroy this house and ranvirji. today i spoke the truth and i have no regret at what i have done im not going to apologise because i havn't done anything wrong, today you will not realise but one day you too will realise that my truth saved ranvirji from years in prision.you want malika mam to marry alekhji, she will marry him but she will nver be able to do what i have done for this house, when you screamed and shouted at me i i stood silently and listened but i have seen malika mam's anger she will not tolerate what i have.

to alekh i would say, you said you were pagal when you married me and took those seven vows with me, but you know what i was pagaal too,paagal in your love, yet i remember those vows and you do not, today you have to choose between right and wrong not between mother and wife, but i will say this much mummyji has papaji for support and jiji has mamiji, naniji, mummyji and papaji but without you i have no one. If mummyji really cared about you she would never make you choose. but you are my husband and as your wife i will support your decision.But know this much whatever may happen i will always love you and only you not just in this life but all lives.Aur sirf aapa haq hoga mujhe par.

to ragini,jiji i will tell you only this, i told you once before and im now saying once again my happiness lies in your happiness. that child you were carrying, for me was like my child too. i can't physicaly feel your nor beign to imagine what you are going through, but i wanted to half your pain,today you are blaming me for all your pain but i promise you i will change that pain to happiness even if i am far from you, becasue you are my sister and i love you no mattter what.i hope that in life you don't have to go throught this pain or what i have gone through either. i pray that one day you realise that your sadhna only wanted your happiness.

and to mamaji i would say, mamaji you are my soul mate, a soul mate doesn't have to be the one you love or your spouse but its he/she who understands you come may what, this what you told me, you have supported me when no one else did not even my own husband, no matter what do i can never repay the love you have given me, you have been like an angel in my life always shining a light when i was surronded by darkness. i love you mamaji, for me you have been both my mother and father and i pray everyone gets an angel in thier life like you have been too me.

sorry for the long essay guys! i truley felt for sadi when i watched her seeing malika and alekh dance, sara potrayed sadhna's pain so beautifully.
sorry if i offend or upset anyone.
this is such a nice topic!





👏👏👏 VERY WELL SAID!.............you gave full justification..........which was what I had mentioned in my topic.......wonderful answer..........yes Sadhna need to take a stand and speak for her rights..........not only did you say your POV but u explained the beauty of Sadhna's character.............so once again 👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: krutiv100

I too would want to be sadhna, but my reasons are differnt even though i too want to just romance with alekh😍☺️...
If i was sadhna i would speak up and face Vasu with confidence as well as respect like how ranvir does. i would also stand up to mamiji and nanimaa and tell nanami maa that she is elder and instead of teaching kaushi to be selfish over her daughter she should be teaching her to be unselfish beacuse what she is doing with sadhna today same thing someone can do to ragini tomorrow and also instead of looking for someone to blame for all problems she should try and solve them, why can't she say anything to malti when kaushi herself knows malti is wrong yet she verbaly absues me i.e sadhna.

To vasu i would tell her as sadhna that, you blackmailed me to marry your mently unstabled son, helpless i married him, but i fell in love with him, with his innocence and his truthfullness, i supported him as his wife and also fufliled my responsibilty as a dughter in law and bahu of this house without asking for anything in return, even when your own son hated you i supported you i told him you are not a bad person even though you had verbly abused me time and time again. It was me who made everyone realise what a bad person sonia was. not once have i asked for anything yet why are you saying that everything i do, i do for my own selfish reasons, if i was selfish i would have let alkehji be mad at you and i would have let sonia become bahu of this house and and let her destroy this house and ranvirji. today i spoke the truth and i have no regret at what i have done im not going to apologise because i havn't done anything wrong, today you will not realise but one day you too will realise that my truth saved ranvirji from years in prision.you want malika mam to marry alekhji, she will marry him but she will nver be able to do what i have done for this house, when you screamed and shouted at me i i stood silently and listened but i have seen malika mam's anger she will not tolerate what i have.

to alekh i would say, you said you were pagal when you married me and took those seven vows with me, but you know what i was pagaal too,paagal in your love, yet i remember those vows and you do not, today you have to choose between right and wrong not between mother and wife, but i will say this much mummyji has papaji for support and jiji has mamiji, naniji, mummyji and papaji but without you i have no one. If mummyji really cared about you she would never make you choose. but you are my husband and as your wife i will support your decision.But know this much whatever may happen i will always love you and only you not just in this life but all lives.Aur sirf aapa haq hoga mujhe par.

to ragini,jiji i will tell you only this, i told you once before and im now saying once again my happiness lies in your happiness. that child you were carrying, for me was like my child too. i can't physicaly feel your nor beign to imagine what you are going through, but i wanted to half your pain,today you are blaming me for all your pain but i promise you i will change that pain to happiness even if i am far from you, becasue you are my sister and i love you no mattter what.i hope that in life you don't have to go throught this pain or what i have gone through either. i pray that one day you realise that your sadhna only wanted your happiness.

and to mamaji i would say, mamaji you are my soul mate, a soul mate doesn't have to be the one you love or your spouse but its he/she who understands you come may what, this what you told me, you have supported me when no one else did not even my own husband, no matter what do i can never repay the love you have given me, you have been like an angel in my life always shining a light when i was surronded by darkness. i love you mamaji, for me you have been both my mother and father and i pray everyone gets an angel in thier life like you have been too me.

sorry for the long essay guys! i truley felt for sadi when i watched her seeing malika and alekh dance, sara potrayed sadhna's pain so beautifully.
sorry if i offend or upset anyone.
this is such a nice topic!





very nice post...
but one comment...people like Sadhna never utter words like "Main or mera"...
do you remember what Ranveer said to Vasi that never she could understand Sdahna bhabi and never will she be able to understand Bhabi. This shows that very people have the wisdom to know what Sdahna is...
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Posted: 15 years ago
#13
for someone in teens it will Sadhna or Ragini for their Alekh or Ranveer...

for someone,a little more mature agewise, Sadhna definitely, as she is the epitome of goodness and in the long run, goodness and good Karma are the only two stuff that keep you safe, others get perished.
Romance does not last long, unless purity of heart is there. but it needs maturity to understand this and I also udnerstood once I came out of teens and saw a little bit of more world..

for me, Sadhna...she is a complete package of beauty, brain, goodness of heart and dutiful nature, God loving, can take control of situation, never hesitates to speak truth and never hold anything against anyone....She is humble and virtuous, quality that puts you in the top bracket, whatever age you might be...She will be a hit in 18 as well as 80, as she is the TRUTH.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#14
No one has read what taral83 had written in the bracket .....(give full justification...try to pick someone other then your fav character)......? we had to choose a character other than our favourite. does that mean that for so many people Sadhan is not their favourite charcter. I think she is the favourite of more than 80% of the people who watch the show!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#15
My favorite characters are Mamaji, Ranveer and off course Sadhana.
But I would love to be "Ragini" , given a chance.
For two reasons,
1. She has lots of room for improvement, beginning with using her own thinking capacity .
2.She is the most pampered person in Bidaai.I could use that.😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: Purehearts

My favorite characters are Mamaji, Ranveer and off course Sadhana.
But I would love to be "Ragini" , given a chance.
For two reasons,
1. She has lots of room for improvement, beginning with using her own thinking capacity .
2.She is the most pampered person in Bidaai.I could use that.😊

Now thats an answer!👏
what we are looking for here is not our favourite character, but whom we would like to be so that we could change them our ways!😛
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Posted: 15 years ago
#17

I love 2 b Sadhana...
so that i can change sadhana like..
not so sacrificing but yet care for others..and can speak up my mind 2 bad people
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Posted: 15 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: taral83



👏👏👏 VERY WELL SAID!.............you gave full justification..........which was what I had mentioned in my topic.......wonderful answer..........yes Sadhna need to take a stand and speak for her rights..........not only did you say your POV but u explained the beauty of Sadhna's character.............so once again 👏
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Thankyou for your kind words. we need more posts like this, its nice to read how people would want the charcter to be in thier own way but without changing the characters identity i.e sadi's idenetity is her pureness and selflessness.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: sanw

No one has read what taral83 had written in the bracket .....(give full justification...try to pick someone other then your fav character)......? we had to choose a character other than our favourite. does that mean that for so many people Sadhan is not their favourite charcter. I think she is the favourite of more than 80% of the people who watch the show!

thanks.....I don't think many people read what I wrote in the directions either.......lol its ok though............
I think rather then being Sadhna so that we can make her a more stronger individual by speaking back to wrong doings and fighting for her rights...........I rather be the people that do injustice to her.........I rather be Vasu or Mamiji or Naniji so that I can change their attitudes towards good people, teach them to be fair and loving...................We don't need to change the good people we need to change the bad in my POV.............thus that is y I choose Inderjeet..............so he can take some charge..........I believe that if he had any authority towards Vasu she wouldn't be as half as evil as she is.................But love everyone's POV and how they look at each character..........Keep the good ideas coming through.............
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Posted: 15 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: Purehearts

My favorite characters are Mamaji, Ranveer and off course Sadhana.
But I would love to be "Ragini" , given a chance.
For two reasons,
1. She has lots of room for improvement, beginning with using her own thinking capacity .
2.She is the most pampered person in Bidaai.I could use that.😊

Very good Answer.................Ragini does need improvement.......to make her character more stronger and more sensible...............She needs to believe in herself........and build self-confidence............

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