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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: kamuralee

Bechariiiiiiii ragini 😭

What is bechari about ragini? Yes she lost her child..but right now she is the happiest person....I don't think she is bechari at all...........but on the other hand Sadhna has lost her husband, lost her family, lost her sister whom she loves to death and lost her self respect and dignity when she was thrown out and called a Nurse.................Yet I will not call Sadhna Bechari..............because she will over come all this and prove herself right.............
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Posted: 15 years ago
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you know dharaa, ranvir and alekh had an deal that they can't support and be loyal towards their wife's ,ranvir taking ragini for granted kyunki usi sadhna ki fikar hai and alekh kick sadi out of his life kyun ke woh ragini ke fikar karta hi ,wah wah wah 😡
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: taral83

What is bechari about ragini? Yes she lost her child..but right now she is the happiest person....I don't think she is bechari at all...........but on the other hand Sadhna has lost her husband, lost her family, lost her sister whom she loves to death and lost her self respect and dignity when she was thrown out and called a Nurse.................Yet I will not call Sadhna Bechari..............because she will over come all this and prove herself right.............

@taral83: I agree with you, Ragini is the happiest person now, until when we have to keep on making her weak by calling her bechchari?, she has to be strong, I agree miscarriage is not an easy thing, but until when?, ek na ek din, she has to face the truth, even Ranvir is the father of the child, but he is facing the truth.......
Sadhna lost more than this, she lost everything, but still did she react negativily at Ragini?, no, please be fair, I am fan of all the four, but at the time, Sadhna is more than right in her place, I understand Ragini in her place, but it's the time for her to realise the truth and be much strong.........
I would not call any of them bechchari, infact I liked that Sadhna wants to forget her past, thought she has every right to tell to the whole world the whole truth, but she thinks much of the others than herself...........
I would ask everyone here, how would u feel when u r in place of Sadhna and someone tells u, u r only nurse of Aalekh?, etc, it's the limit to bear such injustice.........
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Posted: 15 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: dharaa

Guys i m so badly pissed off with him. Dude no one told u not to think about ur bhabi but ur wife who has been gng through so much just cuz of you how can u say such things about ur wife? If u had to say all this then why u had to gift her d dance school or promise her smthing that u cant live upto. In a way he is cheating his wife. He is not being loyal to her.
Smitha di, Ragini did change, but she changed for Ranvir only. Whatever she has become today is just cuz she thinks way too much about Ranvir n Ranvir, he is changed but this change is only towards Ragini. Ragini on the other hand is changed bt everything for Ranvir remains the same. I really wish that she didnt think abt Ranvir this much that today she has almost lost herself.

Very well said Dharaa ! I know one thing..how can you expect a woman who just lost her child to forgive and be happy with the person , who was solely responsible for it. Losing a child is the worst thing that can happen to a woman. I am totally with Ragini and I think its difficult fo rher to forgive Sadhana ever.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: farislove

Ranvir can't cut his relationship with his bhabhi just coz of anyone's wish, tomorrow if his mother tells him to cut his relationship with Ragini, would u agree on this?, no, Ranvir's character stands out, he is a younger version of Mamajii, I like his character for being strong and not spineless, Ragini has to understand the truth one day............

Ranvir is happy for his wife, if he talks with Sadhna, he wants everything to be solved, to how long time he should not speak with Sadhna?, at least he is the only one in Rajvansh's house who understands his bhabhi, he would not turn his back for her when he sees her in the party, this would be out of the character and this is not Ranvir......

Almost many was against Sadhna when she slapped Ranvir, I agree it was out of character, but what if Ranvir turns his back to his bhabhi, isn't this more than out of character?, come on, think of it logically.......

Ragini is kind of obsessed with him, this is true, no way of avoiding, she has to know the right from wrong and visa verca, Ranvir did try his best to make his wife happy, what he is trying to do is too for his wife and family in the whole, he is much mature and think of his responsiblity, being him think only of his wife, this would put him in selfish category, which he is not, with the time even Ragini would realise her mistake and she would not blame Ranvir for this, coz he didn't done anything wrong by supporting Sadhna.........

Ragini is not a child that he keeps on making her happy, she is too mature, there should be someone who has to put a full stop to this injustice, now being them silent all this time made Vasu even think of making Aalekh marrying an other, wah, what is this?, Ranvir should surely do something about it, Sadhna did support him and Ragini a lots in their marriage and it's their turn as well to save Aalekh and Sadhna's marriage, so Ragini has to understand it..........


zee di, no one here told that Ranvir needs to cut of his relationship with Sadhna, but we all are saying that he should think about Ragini as well. Just by gifting her the dance school or promising her something doesnt make him a good husband. He just understands his bhabi but what about Ragini? He is her support, her life depends on him. Everything for Ragini starts at him and ends at him and she doesnt need anything in return except a lil true understanding and most importantly expecting trust n honesty. Today he said Sadhna that she should not care about those who dont care about her n all these dialogs say more than anything else. Here we are not saying anything against Sadhna are just disappointed at the way Ranvir is behaving. And mainly b'cuz of Why cant he be honest to Ragini?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: farislove

@taral83: I agree with you, Ragini is the happiest person now, until when we have to keep on making her weak by calling her bechchari?, she has to be strong, I agree miscarriage is not an easy thing, but until when?, ek na ek din, she has to face the truth, even Ranvir is the father of the child, but he is facing the truth.......
Sadhna lost more than this, she lost everything, but still did she react negativily at Ragini?, no, please be fair, I am fan of all the four, but at the time, Sadhna is more than right in her place, I understand Ragini in her place, but it's the time for her to realise the truth and be much strong.........
I would not call any of them bechchari, infact I liked that Sadhna wants to forget her past, thought she has every right to tell to the whole world the whole truth, but she thinks much of the others than herself...........
I would ask everyone here, how would u feel when u r in place of Sadhna and someone tells u, u r only nurse of Aalekh?, etc, it's the limit to bear such injustice.........

👏 VERY WELL SAID........Its high time we stop calling any of them bechari........let them be stronger characters then that...........I think personally I would be more upset if I lost my husband vs my child (especially if I can get preg again)..........you husband is ur LIFE PARTNER.......the one person that you trust completely and hope to have for the rest of your life..............children move on once they get older....(not all children)..........
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I don't agree with this topic title. I think Ranvir is more exposed to the outer world and is more sensible to look in to the relations. Here he is a 3rd person watching Ragini and Sadhna's relation. He knows how genuine was Sadhna's efforts to unite both Rag and Ranvir, how true was her affection for Alekh, he has seen her torture by Vasu and also he trusts Sadhna's devotion to Rajvansh. He has seen that Sadhna could never get her fare share as she was always taken for granted because of her selfless and no nonsense nature. He also knows that Rags is gullible who has support and love of her parents as well as her husband and in laws. He has seen all -how Sadhna supported Ragini when she was being trashed by Vasu because of her color.
The way I see is that he is very sure of his love for Ragini but his effort is to get Sadhna her fare share and bring the circumstances to normal. I have not seen the episode yet but from other posts it seems probable that he wants Sadhna to think about her happiness and not to bother with Rags and Vasu for their twisted thinking for the time being.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: taral83

I don't think that Ranvir is overlooking Ragini or not giving her any attention..............he is upset with the situation they are in.......and when his effort to bring them back to normal fails, like any human being he gets upset and looses interest.........When the pooja plan failed.......he was not upset that he had to sit with Ragini....he was upset that Alekh and Sadhna didn't get to sit...........there is a difference in those two reasons..................Not being in the party mentally...........why.....not because he isn't happy that he is back for Ragini and that Ragini is happy now.........but because everyone is enjoying without that one person that has bought them the happiness....Sadhna.........He is the only one that knows that Sadhna had given the idea about the dance school and the pooja.........two things that have bought a smile on Ragini's face.....................His reason for lost interest is not because he doesn't care about Ragini but because he is trying to find a answer to bring back things to normal and because all is failing.......it is in turn making him upset.......Yet I will 👏 for hiding his pain and being a strong husband because he knows that right now Ragini needs love and care to ease her into the truth..............



very well said...Ranvir is the only balanced character left in the show...and if he also starts dancing around trees without any guilt and remorse it would be insane to watch bidaii....thank god Ranvir has compassion.....and am also very proud of him now......
Edited by Bini311 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: dharaa


zee di, no one here told that Ranvir needs to cut of his relationship with Sadhna, but we all are saying that he should think about Ragini as well. Just by gifting her the dance school or promising her something doesnt make him a good husband. He just understands his bhabi but what about Ragini? He is her support, her life depends on him. Everything for Ragini starts at him and ends at him and she doesnt need anything in return except a lil true understanding and most importantly expecting trust n honesty. Today he said Sadhna that she should not care about those who dont care about her n all these dialogs say more than anything else. Here we are not saying anything against Sadhna are just disappointed at the way Ranvir is behaving. And mainly b'cuz of Why cant he be honest to Ragini?

Ranvi did try to tell Ragini that what Sadhna did is right and that your rift is nonsense.................but she didn't want to hear anything............she even yelled when she heard that he went to see Sad....on those circumstances..........as good a husband he is...........he will not just push her into supporting Sadhna n forgiving her...............one main thing we are also forgetting about Ravirs mission is that he wants both Alekh and Ragini to realize their mistakes and the importance of Sadhna............but forcing her or telling her that "I don't care what anyone thinks...but I will help Sadhna babhi and bring her back" that will create even more recentment toward Sadhna from Ragini........sometimes there is a time and place for everything.......and right now Ranvir doesn't need to be frank with Ragini but to giver her reason to forget her pain...........realize her mistakes.........and HER HERSELF want her sister back.....not only because Ranvir said so............
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: dharaa


zee di, no one here told that Ranvir needs to cut of his relationship with Sadhna, but we all are saying that he should think about Ragini as well. Just by gifting her the dance school or promising her something doesnt make him a good husband. He just understands his bhabi but what about Ragini? He is her support, her life depends on him. Everything for Ragini starts at him and ends at him and she doesnt need anything in return except a lil true understanding and most importantly expecting trust n honesty. Today he said Sadhna that she should not care about those who dont care about her n all these dialogs say more than anything else. Here we are not saying anything against Sadhna are just disappointed at the way Ranvir is behaving. And mainly b'cuz of Why cant he be honest to Ragini?

What Ranvir is doing right now is for his wife as well, remember Ragini did misunderstand Ranvir in the mystery track, but she regret later on, Ragini has to learn to not misunderstand, but to be much stronger, Ranvir didn't had any option that time, he had to promise her, but what he did now, doesn't prove he is a bad husband, Ragini is more than lucky that she got him as husband, coz he doesn't think of his own, but of everyone else, when he thinks of his bhabhi, it's coz he thinks of his family and Ragini's family as well, when someone marry, not only marry the person, but even the family, Ragini has to think beyond Ranvir, she is so obsessed with him, she has to think of this.............
What did Ranvir said so wrong?, he said the truth, coz Sadhna is caring about, she is caring about the people who r not even want to look at her, what is the wrong he said?, he said the truth, Ragini has to face the truth, otherwise she would always misunderstand, they r helping her, not against her..........
Ranvir is honest, but Ragini is not able to accept the truth, he can't shout at her or slap her, he loves her, this shows how much he loves her, but he can't stop supporting the truth, just coz he loves his wife............
I am very proud of Ranvir for supporting the truth.........
Edited by farislove - 15 years ago

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