Discussion:Sadi's lugg.,Ragi's accusation - Page 15

so why not put the entire blame on Ranvir too?Since he waas the one who didn't think abt his lovely Ragini waiting at home for him and hit an unconscious guy almost to death.

Did Ragini lose her voice?Her voice was just fine when she hurled all those accusations at Sadhana.Vasu ne kiya,but Ragini didn't stop either.

She is being super strong of course in NEGATIVE and AGGRESSIVE way and we all fans should feel happy and proud of her beahviour and learn from her that blame someone for your mistake of losing the child.WOW!!What an example.

If fans are hapy for Ragini to be this way of course we can expect to see many more of those.Hope you all enjoy and keep defending!!

I dunno what ysh_sharma is saying.

Originally posted by: Crimson_Sky

I dunno what ysh_sharma is saying.

But as for scrngl, kanu and smitha80... maybe yaar aise dekho: Sadhna slapped Ranvir not only because of Alekh, but Ranvir rised his own life too, and he risked Sadhna's jiji being widhwa.... more than that Ranvir risked the life of innocent people onthe road who had nothing to do with the Rajvansh family emotions!

Sadhna's slap was jaiz. Sadhna treats Ranvir as her younger brother!

Ragini doesnt need to kick Sadhna out while Mummyji is doing it. She just needs to agree to Mummy ji. Thats all.

Sadhna ne sach kaha. And this is wonderful. Jab Ranvir ko problem nahi hai... to baki log ka problem be buniaat hai. Ranvir didnt want to live with the burden of sin.

wht u said i agree wid that....but if iam in ragini's place and sumone slaps my hubby in front of me..........and specially my sis than ....my reaxn wil be same........a little annoyance..........

Originally posted by: Crimson_Sky

@Anu: I really think that Sadhna does not ask for forgiveness because of her actions. Instead she is begging people to understand her, and asks forgiveness only if their feelings were hurt due to her righteous actions. She is staunch in support of her work!

About Sadhna being quiet and non-responsive in the face of all humiliation and torture, this is because she is an orphan and she knows that there is no one for her. These are the only people she wants to relate herself with ... she just doesnt want to loose any slightest opportunity of love! Of identifying herself with someone...someway!

I meant to say that Sadhana is asking for forgiveness as she thinks that she is the main reason for all the troubles(read...not the truth but everything in general) in Ragini's life. So its high time Sadhana comes out of this mode. She needs to understand that she can't control anyone's fate.

When Sadhna slapped Ranvir it was in the heat of the moment. She was worried and upset. She felt horrible about it afterwords and apologized.

Ragini's actions are of a sefish person who can't see beyond her own pain and sorrow to other people's pain and sorrow. Sadhna is hurting and she refuses to stop hurting her more. Ragini's belief that this is all Sadhna's fault because she told the truth, is the ultimate in selfishness. To expect someone to lie under oath in a court of law for a family member (who has actually committed the crime) is awful. She never once thought of how this situation might be affecting Sadhna. No one did, except for Mamaji and Ranvir.

Sadhna did not separate Ranvir and Ragini. Ranvir did that with his actions. He is the one to blame for this situation (along with Naveen). Ranvir, when he hit the goon with the stick, plunged his family into this situation and then instead of owning up to it, encouraged Sadhna to be honest. He knew she was going to get trouble from the relatives. He failed Ragini and Sadhna in this situation.

Sadhna learned a hard lesson from all of this, though. She can't rely on her husband or her sister.

^ @ North2008 , agree with you completely - its one thing to love someone, and another to turn a blind eye to their wrong doings.

Originally posted by: North2008

When Sadhna slapped Ranvir it was in the heat of the moment. She was worried and upset. She felt horrible about it afterwords and apologized.

Ragini's actions are of a sefish person who can't see beyond her own pain and sorrow to other people's pain and sorrow. Sadhna is hurting and she refuses to stop hurting her more. Ragini's belief that this is all Sadhna's fault because she told the truth, is the ultimate in selfishness. To expect someone to lie under oath in a court of law for a family member (who has actually committed the crime) is awful. She never once thought of how this situation might be affecting Sadhna. No one did, except for Mamaji and Ranvir.

Sadhna did not separate Ranvir and Ragini. Ranvir did that with his actions. He is the one to blame for this situation (along with Naveen). Ranvir, when he hit the goon with the stick, plunged his family into this situation and then instead of owning up to it, encouraged Sadhna to be honest. He knew she was going to get trouble from the relatives. He failed Ragini and Sadhna in this situation.

Sadhna learned a hard lesson from all of this, though. She can't rely on her husband or her sister.

You are absoltely right... like your post...

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

You are absoltely right... like your post...

One major aspect of Ragini's character is she is trying to keep herself clean ny telling Alekh that he can gi and bring back Sadhna, but at the same time emotionally blackmailing him saying that Sadhna's presence hardly matters for her, Even before, she instigated Alekh by saying that "what wrong she did that Sadhna took such a revenge on her"...I think this is not what Ragini is expected to say...

I was so surprised to see that Ragini didn't have any issue or problem when Kaushi told her that its good Vasu kicked Sadi out and I wouldn't have let her stay here either but only had to agree because of Ragini's father. Where is the basic humanity ?

Originally posted by: --Anu--

I was so surprised to see that Ragini didn't have any issue or problem when Kaushi told her that its good Vasu kicked Sadi out and I wouldn't have let her stay here either but only had to agree because of her husband. Where is the basic humanity ?

Haan Anu ... mera to dil hi tuth tuth gaya ... Kiun Ragini ke character ki aisi dhajjiya ura rahein hain CT? ... uff!!!