Miscarriage proves? - Page 7

Originally posted by: dharaa

All I would like to say is, no one is wrong this time, its
just the circumstances wrong…It has just been one day that Ranvir's 1 year
imprisonment is declared and Ragini obviously needs time to get over it…we cant
expect her to become emotionally mentally and strong overnight…she didn't
intentionally fall from the stairs, she didn't pre decide that she'll dream
about Ranvir and then they'll play hide and seek. After the doctor told her to
take care of herself and her child, she did start taking proper care of
herself, but how can she control her emotions??? 1 year might sound very less ,
but its really, really…really hard to go through this phase, staying 1 year
away from your husband is not a small thing, she did try to control herself,
she did try to be calm and become strong but no one has any control over
emotions…I think we all should seriously need to keep ourselves in Ragini's
place and think about her condition, then only we'll understand the pain that
Ragini is going through. Sometimes, we all should think about the situations emotionally,
cuz logic doesn't work right in every situation.

Obviously,nothing was pre-decided!It all happened!And one has to blame the CTs for this!They could have shown a better miscarriage which is acceptable!
But,tell me one thing..Hasn't Ragini dreamt like a zillion times about Ranvir?But,she never went chasing him around!That's just plain stupid..And running down the stairs when everybody is just screaming their heads off for her to be careful?That's ridiculous!
And please,think about Ranvir too..He's been deprived of Fatherhood..The only thing which kept him going in the jail along with his wife..Wouldn't he hold himself responsible too for all this?How would he feel?The guilt inside him?The Inspector to make fun of him and no one being there for him in jail??He only had a photo of his child..Gosh my heart reaches out to him!
He's like been barking for her to be careful but,no!She wasn't!
People are in more difficult conditions too when they're giving birth to a child..They manage..Many of them do..It's reality!And Daily Soaps should show positive not negative all the time!
And yes..I keep myself in Ragini's situation..When I know my hubby is in jail and the only thing which is keeping him strong is me and my kid..I would never act like a maniac and run down the stairs!I would think twice how my better half would feel when he's got no one with him and just wants me to take care of myself and I do nothing but,cry!
People shouldn't be so weak either..Her character would be much more appreciated if she would have looked ahead of herself!
So,Dhara are you saying we lack emotion?Plz!No!Thinking how bad my hubby would feel and especially when none's there for him and taking care of myself..Isn't that emotion???

Dharaa,I thought like that too sweetie and thats why I kept hoping and defending Ragini and her actions.

I don't want to talk about lies,truth etc cos thats already been beaten to death.

My def when RS mentioned stronger Ragini widely differs from what they have shown till now

.Well whatever happened happened.I want her to take the blame for this miscarriage.Just as its wrong to blame Sadhana for this just like that its wrong for her to keep quiet this time and even worse yet start blaming her sister herself.

Originally posted by: Sh_ka_su

Guys.. dome points made here were true.... that Ragini should have acted matured enough to take care of er and the baby..... coz they are Ranveer's strenght....... <br><br>but tell me one thing.... when your loved one is suffering and is away from you....... and you know that u could have got that person back (though using wrong path) first of all that person for some time will lose the ability to think stright..... so has happened with ragini...is it not naturel to miss you husband in such times..... what ever may be the reason.......... and we know the fact that Ragini loves Ranveer a lot.... so is it not natural that she misses him and imagines him around her......<br><br>and regarding miscarriage.... when all is going bad.... whatever u do truns out bad....and this is situation that has done his not Ragini or Sadhana.....but yes all will blame Sadhana coz somewhere indirectly she is responsible for this...<br><br>and now we want the Poor girl to think about Sadhana...how???????? when people like Vasu Kaushi are telling her that it was coz of sadhana all this happned... will Ragini be in a situation to think...... no right...<br>

Firstly,when my loved one is suffering somewhere away from me,I wouldn't add to his troubles when his only happiness which he's living through all this for is me and my baby!

Lose their ability to think straight?Ok..But hasn't she dreamt of him before?What's so special about the dream now?

And Sadhna is not the one to blame directly or indirectly..At this point of time,Ragini should have acted maturely and not like some kid running around for toffee!She has been given enough time before the miscarriage where,she did nothing but sit on the bed and cry and chase Sadhna out!
Couldn't she have used the precious time to think?How she should be acting at this point of time..How she should cope up with circumstances rather than just dreaming???

We've been asking for a stronger Ragini and a strong woman with head over her shoulders would do just this!

I am once again not against miscarriage and sympathize completely for the situation she's in..I feel bad for her and have made many statements regarding this in the forum..But,the reason coz of which this miscarriage happened is just plain stupid when they could have done better!

Once again REASON disgusts me not,the miscarriage!

But Smitha.. this is situation that has done all this.... Ragini cannot be blamed naaaa...

but Blame those Ct's....arrrrrrrrrrrrrr..... such losers..... destroying everything

@Dharaa : u online dear.. come to YM naa

And who is the one who suffers the most for all this.Of course Ranvir.He has matured in such a way recently that he would be feeling the guilt that he couldn't control his temper which resulted in going to jail and he will def feel guilty when he comes to know abt this miscarriage cos he would think he wasn't there to take care of her when she needed him the most.That self-guilt thing is very hard to get over

i agree smitha yarrrrrrr... he would be in a worst situation.... thinking all this was coz of him and his anger.... he would blame himself... awwww poor guy......... and there is no one with him now

kez, u took me in a wrong way sweet heart i did'nt say u lack emotions, i just said, in this this situation, we need to think keeping ourselves at Ragini's place, Ragini is an extremely emotional person, and this had to happen yaar, i am not denying that she needs to be strong, but even for that she needs some time, we are seeing these episodes since 1 or 1 and a half month, but if we look according to the days in bidaai, it has just been 1 week or so that Ranvir went to jail, and no one can become accept all these in such a short time. And about Ranvir, well kez, i can already imagine how painful it must be for him, he'll def be blaming himself for all these, but knowing Ranvir i am sure he'll overcome all these, the interesting thing would be how Ranvir brings back Ragini to her normal self after all these...this is def a testing time for RagVir
U know what kez, i feel like killing the CT's right now, they are the one's to blamed for all these....ek toh Ranvir ka jail which is already so painful and now this stupid miscarriage, they want to compensate sadi ke dukh by giving RagVir all these jhatka's...so that no one says that Sadi is the only one who suffered the most.

Anu,she def is not in that state to think anything or anyone now except the loss of her baby.I understand that and I think its realistic.But what about after shall we say 2 weeks down the line?She can't be like this forever.Then what will she do?That decides Ragini's fate for me.This really is the testing time for her character and I for one want the old Ragini back who is beautiful person inside and out.If it doesn't happen frankly I will mourn the death of that beautiful character.

smitha di, i even want the same, i just want Ragini to defend Sadhna and take the blame on herself, it would be something really worth watching...and atleast then we'll get to see our old Ragini back in action LOL

Hm.. that will be something interesting 2 see.... Ragini defending Sadhana.......