Shocked with Alekh! Sadhna needs to be tougher now - Page 4

Welcome to FRUSTRATION guys!!!!!I remember how RagVir fans were when Ranvir was horribly rude to Ragini cos he wants to help his brother.And now it seems Alekh is going thru the same route to prove himself worthy.At what cost??Sadhana!!!I hope the creatives doesn't plan on making this a routine thing where in we get to see an apology and samerude behavior again and again!!!!

Originally posted by: suman2

I have not watched the episodes yet since in US we are really behind. But reading the post it looks like the age old problem of serial Bidaai has just surfaced again. They change characters in this serial 180 degree every now and then. Remember how Ranveer was once..towards Ragini. I mean come on a person doesnt change 180 just like that. And now they are doing it for Alekh. So what's the point the stupid Creatives are trying to make ? Husbands (if busy) can make any mistake and behave worse with they wives and then say sorry and life will be goody goody agian. What crap ! If a person cant handle stress and sweet moments with equal balance then they should not get married at least. The creatives and directors in serial Bidaai and (for that matter bunch of other serials) are a herd of MCPs!

Suman

Apt comparison!!!!!

Originally posted by: smitha80

Welcome to FRUSTRATION guys!!!!!I remember how RagVir fans were when Ranvir was horribly rude to Ragini cos he wants to help his brother.And now it seems Alekh is going thru the same route to prove himself worthy.At what cost??Sadhana!!!I hope the creatives doesn't plan on making this a routine thing where in we get to see an apology and samerude behavior again and again!!!!

Alekh and Ranveer's situations are completely different from each other and please lets not compare them.

Alekh has to fall in love with Sadhana. I think he does not even realize that he is ignoring or hurting her. He may be assuming that she is happy with his progress and wants him to make it big.

He is not normal yet and does not even know how a husband-wife relationship works. Alekh is taking Sadhana for-granted because she never complains to him and also he expects a lot from her.

It is definitely frustrating to see Sadhana in pain all the time. She was having some hopes after Alekh started getting better but Alekh is simply not paying any attention and wants be independent.

I have not watched the episode yet so I could be wrong in my analysis.

Anu,I am not comparing at all.Its so frustrating to see a sudden change in a character as if all that was shown before was just an illusion.I said this long time back and again saying this now but I think the creatives just doesn't know how to handle post-marriage situations.And yes Saalekh were married for long and they had and still to some extent have a good relationship but isn't it becoming obvious now that as we are gearing up to see a romantic track between Saalekh this sudden change in Alekh happens.Its so absurd really!!He is the only person who knew Sadhana well and who realized his love for her during that painful,crawling Shlok track and all of a sudden he cares more for his 'mama'!!!!

There is one similarity though.Ranvir in helping his brother ill-treated Ragini and Alekh in proving himself cos his mother mentioned that he is their pride is ill-treeating Sadhana.I may be wrong though.Who knows,there might be sudden change in him again tomorrow!!!

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

I think someone needs to take the initiative and explain to Alekh his duties towards Sadhna. He is not 100% in his senses yet and does not even know the meaning of a conjugal relationship. Just what Ragini advised Sadhna yesterday (I haven't see today's episode yet) about how Sadhna needs to make understand the importance of husband-wife relationship, Alekh needs to be taught that. Who better than Ranveer to make his Bhaiya undetstand...

May be, someone can gift Alekh few hot romantics cds to watch....his head will start roaming...and suddenly he will find that beauty was so near to him, and he was acting blind...😆

Bani,he got it live from Ranvir lol!!!I was so sure that Alekh would copy it since he also got some flowers for Sadhana.

Next step:shopping for some nice,hot cds lol!!

Originally posted by: smitha80

Anu,I am not comparing at all.Its so frustrating to see a sudden change in a character as if all that was shown before was just an illusion.I said this long time back and again saying this now but I think the creatives just doesn't know how to handle post-marriage situations.And yes Saalekh were married for long and they had and still to some extent have a good relationship but isn't it becoming obvious now that as we are gearing up to see a romantic track between Saalekh this sudden change in Alekh happens.Its so absurd really!!He is the only person who knew Sadhana well and who realized his love for her during that painful,crawling Shlok track and all of a sudden he cares more for his 'mama'!!!!

There is one similarity though.Ranvir in helping his brother ill-treated Ragini and Alekh in proving himself cos his mother mentioned that he is their pride is ill-treeating Sadhana.I may be wrong though.Who knows,there might be sudden change in him again tomorrow!!!

Smitha, Alekh's character is changing after the mystery track.....it has to now as all his fears are gone. He has lost 20 years of his life and all of a sudden he is realizing that he is no body and how badly he treated his mother all this time. He is going through a very tough time but still can't be rude to Sadi.

Saalekh had a good relationship because Alekh was totally dependent on Sadhana but now things are changing. He still cares for Sadhana but she is not in the priority list for him at the moment. He will realize his mistake very soon. Actually they both need to adjust according to the new equation.

His recovery process has a lot of loop-holes. He needs help from a professional therapist to understand certain aspects of life specially marriage.

Anu,I agree.Alekh def needs a therapist right now.He seems to be improving well work wise and intelligence wise but his walk,his facial expressions needs a change too.Bidaai is being unrealistic here if they want to show that people like Alekh can be cured completely without any help.If they haven't messed up the Shlok track,we could have seen a change in Alekh in some other ways instead of just realizing his love for Sadhana.

Smitha, I know in US some kids having issues with their speech and walk after birth due to some complications. But they improve with physical therapy.
That's what they need to show.

Originally posted by: --Anu--

Smitha, Alekh's character is changing after the mystery track.....it has to now as all his fears are gone. He has lost 20 years of his life and all of a sudden he is realizing that he is no body and how badly he treated his mother all this time. He is going through a very tough time but still can't be rude to Sadi.

Saalekh had a good relationship because Alekh was totally dependent on Sadhana but now things are changing. He still cares for Sadhana but she is not in the priority list for him at the moment. He will realize his mistake very soon. Actually they both need to adjust according to the new equation.

His recovery process has a lot of loop-holes. He needs help from a professional therapist to understand certain aspects of life specially marriage.

At this moment after seeing today's episode i am not even thinking about the "LOVE" in the salekh relationship. I am just thinking about "RESPECT" and "POLITENESS". Where has that gone. When Aalekh can be respectful to others and talk to them very politely then why does he behave so rudely towards Sadi??

The heading says Sadhana needs to be tougher noew. How much more can she be tougher now. I think it's it's high point that Sadi needs to break down and make Alekh realize.