Passionate desire vs. Gentle Loving

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I have been hearing a lot of discontent amone ragvir fans about how the post-marriage scenes are not living up to the pre-marriage scenes so i wanted to make this topic. Ragvir fans shouldn't be so disappointed ...
i think the problem is that most of us want passion over romance. The convo on SR, the morning after, the arti scene and the getting ready for pagfera and then the valentine's day scenes were all very gentle and extremely romantic....yes they were not passionate or heartthrobbing, but you have to try and understand the subtle differences. pre-marriage, every scene had tht tinge of passion and desire to it becoz it was not allowed and becoz every moment was stolen. Post Marriage scenes are like a gentle breeze...very calm and soothing....ranveer is just taking his time and showering his ragini with all the loving care he has always wanted to give her........He is showing how much he cares for every single smile and tear that she has. He is making her promises that they will keep for the rest of their lives........He is showing her that his love will always put her ahead of him, weather its in seeking the blessings of god or in putting her health and happiness ahead of his desire for her physical proximity.......
i am sure there will be passion as the story moves forward, but don't seek the terrace and mandir scene in every single one of ragvir's romantic moments or you will end up missing out on a lot.........passionate desire has been ragvir's USP so far but enjoy these sweet lulls too, becoz they are just accimilating themselves to each other......its like watching them slowly and sweetly merging and blending into one another.......Enjoy it.....!!! ❤️

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Posted: 16 years ago
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i have no complaints jiya! i love sweet romance..lol! :)

sweet n simple..!! :)
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i agree that he is being a bit condiderate for her feelings and does not want to rush into anything
when they were going to leave raginin looked a bit sad and ranvir noticed it and told sadhana to tell her cheer up
so i think that he is going to build up the passion a bit slowly and is going to have a roamatic honeymoon
remeber to that it is a family so there is not going any hot hanky panky but done in a gentle romatic way
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Posted: 16 years ago
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LOL....well I do feel that so far the scenes post-marriage have not had the charm of the ones before-marriage. But it's not cuz I'm dying for some big 'kiss' or whatever to happen.
There's just something off....I can't put my finger on it.....Ranvir was very understanding in the terrace scene also and that I found very sweet....but now when he does it, it doesn't seem to feel as deep as that scene did.
Anywhoo, this is just my take on it.....not to spoil anything for the rest of the Ragvir fans :-)
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Posted: 16 years ago
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anu@ like you said, that's your take and i am sure you have fair reasons for it. personally i find the energy and vibe to be different post marriage yes, but different in a very beautiful and charming way, this is a new phase of their lives and they are steping on it slowly and gently together, holding on to each others hand and taking their time abt it...but then again that's my perspective :)
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Yeah Jiya, to each his own take....as long as we are clear that it is NOT cuz they aren't showing 'hawt' scenes of Ragvir that I feel there is something missing. That is hardly my criteria for liking a couple.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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maybe we'll get to see lot more roamnce during the honeymoon epis..
for now..im enjoying this phase too! :)
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Agree with u guys , romance is not all about being passionate, it can be expressed in many ways ..... and thats wat is been showed in this show.....

Ranvir understands Ragini, so he is not rushing her for sure thats clearly seen/shown

I didnot expect romance today as I mentioned earlier that it would be some wat more on loving side then on romantic side....

But truth to be told , I wasnt expecting passionate romance i wont , but something was clearly lacking ....... agree with anu on that .......

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Posted: 16 years ago
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exactly jiya ,i totally agree with u.the whole point is earlier there was this desperation and the thought of seperation in his mind all the time.now he knows she is his and he can savor their moments .there is no rush and that is what happens in real life too.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i guess some members are feeling that the chemistry is lacking post-marriage.......can't say i agree at all but everyone percieves things differently......

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