Is it Anusha's fault?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Okay, so these past couple of months, we've all come to hate Anusha dearly, wanting nothing but for her to die and just leave poor Kartik
But now that she's changed, we all love her and want her to be with Kartik
But I'm wondering, all those bad things that happened int he past, Anu causing problems int he family, making Kartik hate his parents, Kick Shubh out, get Suhana married against her will, and then Par and Gayu leaving, was all this really her doing?
Every step of the way, Poornima was encouraging Anusha
Before the marriage, she offered Kartik money, just so Anusha could be with him.
Then after marriage, in the small house, rather than giving Anu tips to adjust to the family, she insulted Par and Gayu's poverty and sent over things for Anusha's happiness, knowing these things the Dixit's coulden't afford
Then, when Anu was kicked out, she Poornima gave her the idea of going back, acting nice, and making Par and Gayu look like bad in-laws.
When Kartik bought the house and everyone moved in, Poornima gave her ideas to bring Kartik closer to her and get him away from his parents
Every single decision was made by Poornima, or influenced by her advice.
Can we really blame Anusha for all that happened? Maybe she's just a still a silly girl who gets influenced easily.
I thinkt hat the only concious decision Anu ever made was wanting to marry Kartik. The rest of the hurt, pain, misery, was all caused by Poornima.
She's the real culprit here, and she used her own daughter in her evil schemes
What do you all think?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Poornima is the real cause of the pain that Anusha cause her in laws and her husband but I think she is an adult, she can make her decisions and follow her head not her mothers but I guess that is the price you pay if you always lets parents dictate everything you do or say.

Eventhough I love Anusha very much these days, I will not ignore the fact that she was an evil person too wheither it was her mom or masi who influenced her or she herself...She did some bad stuff and she needs to apologize to the whole Dixit family ASAP.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I have always said from day 1 its all Poornima's doing...
No offense, but Anusha is like a kid, watever u tell her she will do..Her Mom had advantage over that cus Anu trusts her Mom blindly..So watever, Poo planned, Anu carried it out..If u go back to those days when Anu troubled the Dixit family, every plan was thought out by her Mum...
So No, Anu is not at fault completely! She has been raised that way by her Mom..n asked to do all those deeds..However, that said, Anu is grown now, she shud understand right from wrong n I feel thats the knowledge Karthik has given her to not blindly trust anyone rathern use her sense n determine wat is good n wat is bad..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i agree as well poornima man hate her
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Posted: 16 years ago
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she grew up abiding by her mothers h\philosophy so she never was able to see that wat she was doing was horrible. because to her, her mother can never do anything horrible.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: mrbajajisheaven

Poornima is the real cause of the pain that Anusha cause her in laws and her husband but I think she is an adult, she can make her decisions and follow her head not her mothers but I guess that is the price you pay if you always lets parents dictate everything you do or say.

Eventhough I love Anusha very much these days, I will not ignore the fact that she was an evil person too wheither it was her mom or masi who influenced her or she herself...She did some bad stuff and she needs to apologize to the whole Dixit family ASAP.

Exactly what i was gonna say!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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me think Anusha is actually scared of her devil mom.Today when she called her ,I saw fear in her eyes and I do think Anu is very naive.She loves Kartik but cant stay with him.That is messed up.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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anu can sms him.......lol..jokes apart it was poooooooornima's plan anu shud not hav listened her...but i knw she trusts her mother cos pooornima made kartik to marry her...so she thinks her mother can handle everything............but i guess anu shoud hav got a lesson now...

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