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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sita had to prove her chastity by jumping into the fire. She chose to go down to earth after that ritual than live with Rama who subjected her to this test.

Now Bhoomi is expected to go through the fire of ansuba's anger and frustration. And Kishan does not mind and he asks his wife to go through all the crappy tests.

Our serials are becoming regressive by the day.

Bhoomi has options. She has lived all her life in a free society. Actually she should introduce some of the progressive ideas into their rusted minds, especially ansuba.

Nowadays, even an undereducated village girl has more selfrespect than submitting to such humiliation just to please her husband.

The only saving grace is Kishan's mother.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree but Bhoomi is in a hard position here. The family has asked her to prove herself worthy of becoming an ideal DIL. In this case she has two options: refuse and Kishan will leave with her and they'll settle elsewhere or accept and stay there. I think first and foremost she would not be able to bear the fact that it was due to her that Kishan got separated from the family she knows he loves very much: secondly it would be disrespecting the trust that Kishan's mother Parul has put on her and I think third is that she wouldn't want to look like a coward. A self-confident girl such as Bhoomi would want to take up the challenge for her own pride and self-esteem and to prove that she can be a good bahu.
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It will be sheer torture to watch. Almost all Colors serials have this type of making the bahu suffer endlessly from Bhagyavidhaata, Uttaran to this serial. There are some exceptions but Colors should also do something lighthearted, less dramatic and less vicious serials on the lines of SGP. there the joint family was so nice to Suhana and they always sided with her. Ishaan was such a fun character in SGP. I have started watching it mainly for the hero and I hope he will be supportive to Bhoomi throughout come what may.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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We also want this only😊 Kishan and Bhoomi to always stand by each other through thick and thin😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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dear don't mind but in this patriarchal society...always women have to suffer..be it sita mata or draupadi..

if someone who needs to be changed its the men in the society..because women are made up of more emotions..and men manipulate these emotions and use them for their own good.

we women end up fighting against each other because of this..

like a saas feels that her son will forget her love as a mother because he has his wife now..so ill treats the bahu. similarly sometimes the .bahu when the saas becomes too old ignores her...

Similarly...when a saas was young and was pregnant her husband sometimes ignores her...but when his bahu is pregnant gives or is ill the sasur gives his love and affection to her..buys her whatever food she wants to eat etc ( I am just giving an example here). because maybe he feels that when he was young he did not take care of his wife properly because he did not have the patience as he was young, and what he could not do for her , he tries to do it for the bahu because he knows his young son would be the same and neglect her sometimes (here again the sasur a man tries to help his son a man) .. So the saas feels hurt and feels that when it was my turn the same person never showed this much care..but for this new girl...he is showing so much care..

Then she feels jealous.. its the other way round for the bahu too..

They end up disliking each other..


If you see the men when they are together they will always laugh about the women in their lives...they always have their 'wife' jokes to share..

but when its the women...they are never united as they try to show off that what they have is better...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

We also want this only😊 Kishan and Bhoomi to always stand by each other through thick and thin😊

yes they should stand for each other and always understand each other..

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