DOTW-When Friendship Crosses its Boundary

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Aisha

@MOTHERHOOD

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 14 years ago

Sorry i am late.I was supposed to post the DOTW but due to my hectic schedules i was unable.So please forgive me.😳

I feel the discussion of the week shoud be Rudr and Gauri's friendship and Gauri's over protective nature for Rudr.

We all know Rudr and Gauri met on a boat.Both were traveling on the same boat not only for that day but til now.They both are lonely souls and never had any good friend.So inspite knowing each other for a little while Gauri and Rudr become good friends.They could feel each other and they could understand each other.But their friendship is on a rocking road now.The society bames Gauri for having a male friend.They consider him to be his boyfriend.But Gauri and rudr feels that they are just close friends and nothing else.But Gauri's feeings for rudr now-a-days shows that friendship is crossing its boundaries.

So the questions for you are:

1)Do you feel the society is right when they caim that a boy and girl can never be close friends and they aways ends up together?

2)Do you feel Gauri just considders Rudr as her friend and nothing mmore?

3)Is Gauri crossing the boundary of friendship?If yes then is it right?

4)Gauri has agreed to marry Champu.So do you feel that now she should concentrate more on her marriage and Champu than Rudr?Does she need to start maintaining distance from Rudr?

5)Is Gauri doing a right thing by agreeing to marry a person just for the sake of her family?

6)How wil rudr react when he will see Gauri spending more times with Champu?Will he be afraid of loosing his friend?

7)Will Gauri be able to realize her true feelings for Rudr before her marriage with Champu?

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sara

@monaha262

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Posted: 14 years ago

1)Do you feel the society is right when they claim that a boy and girl can never be close friends and they always ends up together?
I think they are not right because now days boy and girl are becoming friends. Because they spent time together but is not important that they both always end up together.
2)Do you feel Gauri just considers Rudr as her friend and nothing more?
I think In the start she consider him as friend but as time pass and she start understanding his life and love by that movement she considering him more then friend.
3)Is Gauri crossing the boundary of friendship?If yes then is it right?
I think until now she didn't cross the boundary of friendship and she never will do until rudra step forward. Because rudra is really important for him and she don't want to lose him.
4) Gauri has agreed to marry Champu.So do you feel that now she should concentrate more on her marriage and Champu than Rudr?Does she need to start maintaining distance from Rudr?
I think she should give more importance to shankar then rudra because than misunderstanding will create up and no one live happy life after that. I think she should start maintaining distance from rudra because if she didn't do it than society will blame their friendship again.
5) Is Gauri doing a right thing by agreeing to marry a person just for the sake of her family?
I Think she is not doing right thing by agreeing to marry a person just for the sake of her family because then she never live happy in her marriage life. That way she not only destroy her life but also shankar life too.
6)How wil rudr react when he will see Gauri spending more times with Champu?Will he be afraid of loosing his friend?
I think he will get jealous with shanker when he will see gauri with him but also happy because she is getting settle in her life with the person who really love her. I think so that he will afraid of losing his friend and i think at that point he will understand that she is more than her friend.
7)Will Gauri be able to realize her true feelings for Rudr before her marriage with Champu?
I think so because slowly rudra will start to go away from her life when she will get engaged so she will start feeling that she can't live without rudra.

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Shalini

@shalini01

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Posted: 14 years ago

1)Do you feel the society is right when they caim that a boy and girl can never be close friends and they aways ends up together?

love always starts off with friendship but no i don not believe that because boys can have so many female friends but he doesnt have to have romantic feelings for every one of them and likewise for girls. i have many male close friends who look out for me and i consider then to be like brothers. yes boys and girls can be friends without romance getting in the way.

2)Do you feel Gauri just considders Rudr as her friend and nothing mmore?

at this point i think she does but it's only because she hasnt yet realised her feelings for him.

3)Is Gauri crossing the boundary of friendship?If yes then is it right?

like i said love begins with friendship. u cant just fall in love with someone so easily without getting to know each other better and that is by being friens, is it not? so no she isnt. that is just my POV.

4)Gauri has agreed to marry Champu.So do you feel that now she should concentrate more on her marriage and Champu than Rudr?Does she need to start maintaining distance from Rudr?

she should focus on her marriage and her future with champu but that doesnt mean she'll forget the world and all her loved ones around her. she has to maintain a balance between both.

5)Is Gauri doing a right thing by agreeing to marry a person just for the sake of her family?

sometimes these marriages work out and well sometimes they dont. gauri should think it through carefully,in a way yes and no because she loves her family so much and will do everything to make them happy but is she happy? after all she is the one who has to spend the rest of her life with him, not them.

6)How wil rudr react when he will see Gauri spending more times with Champu?Will he be afraid of loosing his friend?

i think yes he ight have that fear. initially he'll not really pay much attention to it but he'll start missing her especially since pihu is gone and he'll have the thoughts about losing his best friend.

7)Will Gauri be able to realize her true feelings for Rudr before her marriage with Champu?

yes i think she will. she will also miss rudra and will think about him and their friendship and then maybe he'll be on her mind longer than she expects and she'll begn to evaluate her feelings and realise she loves him more than a friend.

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Rachel

@Shineon

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Posted: 14 years ago

1)Do you feel the society is right when they caim that a boy and girl can never be close friends and they aways ends up together?

Definitely not. Gender has nothing to do with friendship, and friends do not always end up together either.

2)Do you feel Gauri just considders Rudr as her friend and nothing mmore?

Think she only considers of him as a friend. But I think somewhere unknown to her there is something more than friendship lurking around. It might be true for Rudr also because they are both a bit overprotective of each other.

3)Is Gauri crossing the boundary of friendship?If yes then is it right?

Dont think she is knowingly crossing the bundary of friendship, she is just trying to be there providing support to her friend.

4)Gauri has agreed to marry Champu.So do you feel that now she should concentrate more on her marriage and Champu than Rudr?Does she need to start maintaining distance from Rudr?

If she does plan to marry Champu she should concentrate on him and her marriage but dont think she need to maintain a distance from Rudr. But if she realizes that she is in love with Rudr then she should not go ahead with a marriage or engagement with Shankar, she should be straightforward with Shankar and tell him why she cannot marry him.

5)Is Gauri doing a right thing by agreeing to marry a person just for the sake of her family?

I do not think she is agreeing to marry someone for her family's sake. She is a very sensible girl who dont live in a fictitious bubble and dont have dreams about ever falling in love. She is taking a practical approach, she knows she have to get maried one day as that is her mothers dream and Shankar is a good gentleman and she has no love interest in her life so she is thinking practically.

6)How wil rudr react when he will see Gauri spending more times with Champu?Will he be afraid of loosing his friend? He might start to miss her if she spends too much time with Champu.

7)Will Gauri be able to realize her true feelings for Rudr before her marriage with Champu?

Think she will, she has to na? In order to become Rudr's Sangini😃

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Anila

@Annu..

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Posted: 14 years ago

1)Do you feel the society is right when they claim that a boy and girl can never be close friends and they aways ends up together?

It depends upon the situation.. if society has the idea abt a boy and girl's friendship that what these two actually think abt each other.. then I don't think society claim such thing.. prob arises when both of them don't have any bf/gf..

2)Do you feel Gauri just considders Rudr as her friend and nothing mmore?

When rudra was talking that pihu will remain the love of his life.. that time Gauri was getting jealous, subconsciously she was upset that why rudra was talking abt her in this way.. it happens when u take ur friend as more than friend..

3)Is Gauri crossing the boundary of friendship?If yes then is it right?

In rudra's eyes, she is coz he takes her just as a friend.. and believes that gauri also considers him just friend.. but from a neutral POV, is there any harm to cross that boundary.. don't think so!

4)Gauri has agreed to marry Champu.So do you feel that now she should concentrate more on her marriage and Champu than Rudr?Does she need to start maintaining distance from Rudr/

For keeping any friendship u don't need to spend time with or think abt ur friend 24/7.. rudra is her friend, Fine! but now she is getting engaged to Shanker so her first priority should be him..

5)Is Gauri doing a right thing by agreeing to marry a person just for the sake of her family

Well, in all arranged marriages, girls do the same.. but here gauri has a bit idea abt shanker that what kind of a person he is.. he is not a complete stranger to her.. so its not a risk which she is going to take.. but is she really happy.. NO!! coz she is already feeling something for rudra.. but in a dilemma, cant say No to shanker, and cant express her feelings infront of Rudra..

6)How wil rudr react when he will see Gauri spending more times with Champu?Will he be afraid of loosing his friend?

He should react in a positive way, after all shanker would be Gauri's fiance.. will be afraid for what? R and G will not remain friends for eternity.. one day or another its bound to happen.. he can only be afraid if he falls in love with her too..

7)Will Gauri be able to realize her true feelings for Rudr before her marriage with Champu?

on her engagement day, this is gonna happen Inshallah!! and on her wedding day, Rudra will realize it too..

Edited by annu127 - 14 years ago