Stop a min and think - Page 3

@jaya: i agree with you. What pihu said abt the tangewala was bad. But that's what pihu is all about. She's lived a high life, she's selfish, illmannered etc. But there is a good side to her too. The fact that she put up with Rudr all this while and the way she spoke about Rudr's mom to Abhay shows that she's got a heart too. Ofcourse she doesnt know how to show it or also the fact that she's centre of everybody's attention has gotten into her head. I never made this post to complain that people hate Pihu and they shouldn't. that's not the intention. All i am trying to say is give Pihu a chance and also one can't blame Pihu alone here. That's all.

Originally posted by: rekhaa10

@Ding_Dong: Who is saying Pihu is right and shouldn't be blamed for this mess? And believe me I am not talking abt the actor here at all. I am talking abt the character. Pihu went with Rudr becoz there was no time to stand and explain things to him and also he was in no mood to listen. and hugging him she was just happy that he was alive bcoz she still loves him. See it is very difficult to understand Pihu. She's very complex on one hand she loves rudr but she also feels he's not good for her. There is this constant fight between her head and her heart. And with regards to Rudr his behaviour stems from his insecurities. I agree Pihu blaming him alone for the problem is wrong. But then us as viewers blaming Pihu alone for the mess is also wrong, don't you think? I feel they are both responsible for this. I am not justifying anybody least alone Pihu. All I am saying is we have to see this as both their problem and not only Pihu's.

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Originally posted by: rekhaa10

@Ding_Dong: c this is where the core problem lies. We expect Pihu to behave like any normal girl or lover would. Well if she was that practical then this problem wouldn't have arisen, right? Pihu thinks she's right and Rudr is wrong. He thinks vice versa. It is a battle of egos and emotions and nobody wins in such a battle. They are both misfits for each other. Somewhere Pihu seems to realise that but her love for him stops her from leaving him either. She's in extreme confusion as to what she wants. Also she's making Rudr more confused. Right now he thinks getting Pihu is the only solution but Pihu seems to realise that they wont be good for each other or rather Rudr won't be good for her bcoz of his attitude and ways. Her head is strongly telling her to leave him and she also does that till he emotionally forces her to change her mind. See when it is a battle of your head and your heart there is very little one can do. First we need to understand Pihu is not any normal girl. She's very complex, immature and impulsive and has a huge ego. Rudr is more or less the same. So expecting Pihu to behave like a normal girl is wrong. Becoz she's far from that.

Originally posted by: rekhaa10

@Ding_Dong: I am sure Gauri will change Rudr. Pihu i am hoping will change in due course. when she realises what she's lost i hope she'll repent and try to mend her ways. I would truly want Pihu to realise her mistake and be with somebody who understands her. I strongly believe Pihu is not bad but Rudr is not the right person for her or rather they are both not in the right frame of mind to be with one another. If either one was a bit different there was a chance of this relationship to work. But since that is not the case I think it is better they go their separate ways. Bcoz together sooner or later they'll destroy each other. Neither is bad but together neither is good. Individually they are very good. Rudr's positive side has been shown. I hope Pihu's good side will be shown too. I am ok with Pihu not being with Rudr but I do want Pihu to realise her mistake and improve. Becoz that way it is also showing ppl that if need be even an egoistic person can change for love. And i think that would be a good message to convey.