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sara

@monaha262

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#11

i love your post .You are right they both are wrong. I think if pihu tell him what wrong with him he try to improve himself because he really possessive about her and don't want to loss her so he can change anything. Also if pihu have problem with rudra i think she shouldn't have to agree for marriage because i think all the problems start from there. Rudra was also wrong if pihu say sorry all the time then atleast one time he have to say sorry first because that way pihu understand that he also care about their relationship.

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rekhaa10

@rekhaa10

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Posted: 15 years ago

#12

All i'll say is they are both the moth and fire. One gets attracted to the light and the other destroys the one that comes to it. They are both in love with each other but have no idea about what real love is. They both want to be the master of the other and don't know the biggest thing about loving somebody is letting them free and letting them take control. It is all about adjustments. Pihu's done her part and somewhere i think her egp gets the boost from the fact that she's the only one who can rattle Rudr, make him do weird things and basically she's got him dancing to her tunes. And the price she pays for that is being with a lover breathing down her neck. They both really need to be away from each other. Luckily for Rudr Gauri will be the guiding light, but poor Pihu will be all alone with just her love for Rudr in her heart. Not fair that she's the only one who'll pay the price for being in such a relationship.

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-alisha-

@-alisha-

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

#13

i agree with u rekha .....once i said that both like going extreme with their doings which resulted a big mess......pihu alone should not be blamed.i would have reacted the same way she did if i would have been in her place..so i think her character is justified and close to reality

Edited by alisha_harshiti - 15 years ago

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-alisha-

@-alisha-

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: rekhaa10
All i'll say is they are both the moth and fire. One gets attracted to the light and the other destroys the one that comes to it. They are both in love with each other but have no idea about what real love is. They both want to be the master of the other and don't know the biggest thing about loving somebody is letting them free and letting them take control. It is all about adjustments. Pihu's done her part and somewhere i think her egp gets the boost from the fact that she's the only one who can rattle Rudr, make him do weird things and basically she's got him dancing to her tunes. And the price she pays for that is being with a lover breathing down her neck. They both really need to be away from each other. Luckily for Rudr Gauri will be the guiding light, but poor Pihu will be all alone with just her love for Rudr in her heart. Not fair that she's the only one who'll pay the price for being in such a relationship.

@bold i exactly feel the same.....

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Elsa

@Sweet_Waters

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#15

I think we have to keep aside the actor and the character before thinking on such an issue....Additi is a very talented actor capable of handling any role easily and that is being very beautifully seen by Pihu's character she portrays....

But as far as Pihu is concerned, I personally don't like her mindset.On one hand, she loves Rudr, while on the other, she's being so egoistic that she wants to hurt him for all that she feels that he was responsible for....Practically speaking, one might feel bad when someone feels too possesive, but that feeling can be overcome only if she tried to speak with him and made him understand that such situations have hurted her....If she felt that it was wrong eloping with him, she should not have went with her(Not to forget, she hugged him when he entered cart along with her, indirectly showing how happy she was).....I understand it was too late and he was on the verge of suicide....But she should have attempted to made him realize her mindset much before her marriage and should not have dragged it till this moment....Atlest now, she should try to understand that, in a way, she too is responsible for the present situation and shud have stood with him to solve the issue.....

But here, Pihu is blaming only Rudr, for all the things happened and even taking up their old pasts too....Pihu must be a little pratical and must be a little considerate for Rudr for all that he have done....Will Pihu bear to see him with some other girl????

The same Pihu, who became so angry when he ignored him and gave him wrong calls just to hurt him....Now, she says all that happened was Rudr's fault!!!! How could she say that.....Pihu needs to change.....She will realize his importance in her life when he falls for Gowri....No offence to anyone.Just my POV😊

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Sonam2

@Sonam2

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+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#16

Whenever there are problems in a relationship , both the partners should be equally blamed , n its not only one person's fault , wen things go out of hand.
besides that , I really like Pihu and Rudr together , somehow Gauri doesnt seem to click .If Rudr will fall in love with her ,wen his relationship wont work out with Pihu , it wud just be a compromise.
If u consider the reality ,only a girl like Pihu is suitable for him , n his family , be it looks , her status, everything matches up with Rudr.
A girl like Gauri doesnt seem to b a rite choice for Rudr.she cant fit in

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Paru...

@Paru...

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#17

awesome post @rekha 10.completely agreeing with u.from yesterday 's episode it was clear that eventhough rudr and pihu love each other they are not happy together.may be pihu might have realised it and agreed to marry ABhay.

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rekhaa10

@rekhaa10

Explorer

Posted: 15 years ago

#18

@Ding_Dong: Who is saying Pihu is right and shouldn't be blamed for this mess? And believe me I am not talking abt the actor here at all. I am talking abt the character. Pihu went with Rudr becoz there was no time to stand and explain things to him and also he was in no mood to listen. and hugging him she was just happy that he was alive bcoz she still loves him. See it is very difficult to understand Pihu. She's very complex on one hand she loves rudr but she also feels he's not good for her. There is this constant fight between her head and her heart. And with regards to Rudr his behaviour stems from his insecurities. I agree Pihu blaming him alone for the problem is wrong. But then us as viewers blaming Pihu alone for the mess is also wrong, don't you think? I feel they are both responsible for this. I am not justifying anybody least alone Pihu. All I am saying is we have to see this as both their problem and not only Pihu's.

@Varsha2: Pihu and Rudr are not in a relationship which either can mend. They both love each other but are not ready to let go of their egos and insecurities. For a relationship to work there has to be a lot of compromise and understanding. In this both want the upperhand. And that would be a disastour. I feel they both need practical people in their lives bcoz these two are very impulsive and impractical.

@paru: i made this post bcoz after watching the episode yest I came to realise maybe there is a lot of angst and discontent that has been building up over the years. Pihu feels suffocated bcoz of his insecurity and he feels upset becoz of her ego and highandedness but they are also afraid and don't want to let go of each other. Pihu is battling her head and heart and Rudr is fighting for what he thinks as his only reason to live in this world. I think somewhere Pihu's head is winning over her heart. I understand as a regular viewer all this is very difficult for us to comprehend. But to understand Pihu and Rudr I think we need to go beyond what is shown and I hope CT will shed some light on their past.

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TitanFan

@TitansFan

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

#19

Oh rekha, thx for post , sweety no one hates P , and justify R alone , that would be called being biased , well i agree with u , both have little love btw , P wants R to understand her , R wants P to understand him , but none really want to understand . .....I dont blame P but i wont deny her comment on Tange wala part i said same in DT too , that was not right ,

Both have many things in common , both r stubborn , have lots of chips on their shoulders , both r right , R is obviously more possessive then any other normal guy ( i would be surprised if anyone say guys r not possessive of their gals ) .... Pihu clearly showed she is putting up with him for all this yrs , well if P want she can say things to R earlier only n not now . ......

I love all three of them but my liking for G is more, for her being independent n strong gal not saying p is not strong

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TitanFan

@TitansFan

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: varsha2
Whenever there are problems in a relationship , both the partners should be equally blamed , n its not only one person's fault , wen things go out of hand.
besides that , I really like Pihu and Rudr together , somehow Gauri doesnt seem to click .If Rudr will fall in love with her ,wen his relationship wont work out with Pihu , it wud just be a compromise.
If u consider the reality ,only a girl like Pihu is suitable for him , n his family , be it looks , her status, everything matches up with Rudr.
A girl like Gauri doesnt seem to b a rite choice for Rudr.she cant fit in

Lol but .... how can u say RP love is real ?? their relation lack basic thing understanding btw them , there seems to be not a sign of understanding in them ....

Well R needs some one who can understand him along with his temper and insecurities , P fails to calm him down she provokes him more , where as G not only understand him but also her talks make him calm n think , lot of difference right .......

n if relations r based on looks , status n all ... wonder how many couples would say they r happy in life

If R falls in love with G in future i wont call it compromise , it wont be .... may be u never heard but i have seen so many ppl find true and real love after they meet right person in life ...........

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