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rekhaa10

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Posted: 15 years ago

Ok I know after watching today's episode many or most of you hate/dislike Pihu. But have you guys ever for a min thought that it is also Rudr's fault? I am not justifying Pihu's behaviour but just saying Pihu's bad or hating her is not right. Because Pihu behaves the way she does because of Rudr's actions. Infact they both are reacting to each other more than anything else. From what I understand Rudr has always had his way with Pihu. He's obssessed about her and this is now suffocating her. Pihu has always done what he wanted and always taken the blame and sorted out their fights. So if once she wants Rudr to bow down what is wrong in that? Ask yourself if you were to always say sorry to somebody wouldnt you at one point what the other person to say sorry first? Agreed such things are not necessary in love but that is where the problem is. In real life when there is a problem between two lovers or a husband and wife somebody has to bow down to clear the situation. That's the only way it works. If you didnt' know then look around and you'll know.

Agreed Pihu's means of teaching Rudr a lesson is wrong. But then she herself is irrational and confused. But what I don't understand is if Rudr's behaviour gets excused because he finally agreed to apologise and gets beaten up for Pihu, then y can't pihu's actions be excused either?

All I can say is both Pihu and Rudr are equally responsible for creating this mess. Neither is any better. He's too possessive and she's too egoistic. It is better they are with other people who are more practical.

The only thing remaining to say is before you guys decide to bash Pihu or whatever just for a min think what would you have done if you were in such a situation? I probably wouldnt have gone this far but then getting out of a relationship and that too with an obssessed person is not an easy thing. Pihu is not right but then neither is Rudr. So if you want to bash then bash them both equally.

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: rekhaa10
He's too possessive and she's too egoistic. It is better they are with other people who are more practical.

bang on.... this is what i ws thinking too....some relationship 's are nt meant to happen ......

Edited by rati_arjun - 15 years ago

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rekhaa10

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Posted: 15 years ago

@neha: i agree. They are both totally impractical people. They need to be with ppl who are calm and practical. You know today I realised that both Pihu and Rudr are more or less similar to each other and that's why they have so many issues. Like they say opposite poles attract and similar poles repel that is very true in their case. Both Rudr and Pihu are very impulsive will go to any extent to get their way. I don't think either is any better.

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Mobina

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Posted: 15 years ago

I agree with this post because every day we see pihu being bashed and Rudar's behaviour excused why is this? both of them have major ego issues which has affected their relationship highly and now things have gone way out of line because of their ego. Pihu wanted Rudar to oppoalgise for slapping by going on his knees but Rudar to was stubborn then when Pihu was getting married Rudar decided to do tamasha in wedding. i would say both are equally responsable to get their relation to such stage

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atop

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: rekhaa10
@neha: i agree. They are both totally impractical people. They need to be with ppl who are calm and practical. You know today I realised that both Pihu and Rudr are more or less similar to each other and that's why they have so many issues. Like they say opposite poles attract and similar poles repel that is very true in their case. Both Rudr and Pihu are very impulsive will go to any extent to get their way. I don't think either is any better.

That was nicely put dear...Both of them have flaws and that just adds up to their misery cause there's no balance between them.That is the reason Rudra and Pihu are not meant to be together..They need someone who can balance their flaws and sustain a relationship..

Bashing/Hating Pihu is not good but rather than it would be nice to have a healthy discussion about the character at length😃 I agree Pihu is doing such things which we are not liking but then let's face it, we do sometimes behave in one way or the other. Don't we also get confused at times, aren't we also impulsive at times..Rudra is also possessive and has his own flaws..he has always been in seek of love but has faced dejection always. His life needs a person who can cater to his wounds and fill the void as his family has always given him a cold shoulder..Not siding anyone or bashing the other but just saying that like everyone else, Rudra and Pihu have their share of flaws and they need partners who can balance their lives...

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Lady Zaib

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Posted: 15 years ago

simple these two are definately not meant for each other..they bring the worse out in each other 😆

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rekhaa10

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Posted: 15 years ago

@atop: that is exactly what i meant. I have seen people just look at what is happening and react. I agree what pihu is doing is not right at all but then I don't see anybody saying the same thing about Rudr. Why does only Pihu get the blame. Like you said what we need is a healthy discussion and not bashing. We need to look beyond what we see and try to understand that both Rudr and Pihu are not ur run-of-the-mill lovers. They are two impulsive, impractical, immature and egoistic ppl who just happen to be in love with each other. So expecting them or either one to behave like a normal lover would is not fair. And I feel if anybody is to be blamed then both Pihu and Rudr deserve it equally.

Verai: I don't think Rudr is mentally unstable. He's just insecure. Generally people who are insecure tend to become very posssessive or obssessed with their relations and stuff. Rudr is the same. Pihu is egoistic but she also loves Rudr but now after all these years she's had enough of it. Her mind is telling her to stay away from Rudr but her heart tells her to be with him. She's constantly fighting the battle between her heart and her head.

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: rati_arjun

bang on.... this is what i ws thinking too....some relationship 's are nt meant to happen ......

i agree

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Lady Zaib

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Posted: 15 years ago

but at the same time i think her ego is perhaps feeding rudra's obession n security..u know the famous sayin for guyz..they want to be the hero in someones eyes but pihu's ego n arrogance is pushing him to become more obsessive..

this love is going to destroy them both, but then again how many times should a person apologise too from rudra's point too..i think they both ziddi he wants her at any costs n she wants her pride at any costs....n damn this has destruction written all over it lol..

p.s no bashin either pihu or our rudra either but just looking at these two characters..

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: rekhaa10

@atop: that is exactly what i meant. I have seen people just look at what is happening and react. I agree what pihu is doing is not right at all but then I don't see anybody saying the same thing about Rudr. Why does only Pihu get the blame. Like you said what we need is a healthy discussion and not bashing. We need to look beyond what we see and try to understand that both Rudr and Pihu are not ur run-of-the-mill lovers. They are two impulsive, impractical, immature and egoistic ppl who just happen to be in love with each other. So expecting them or either one to behave like a normal lover would is not fair. And I feel if anybody is to be blamed then both Pihu and Rudr deserve it equally.

Verai: I don't think Rudr is mentally unstable. He's just insecure. Generally people who are insecure tend to become very posssessive or obssessed with their relations and stuff. Rudr is the same. Pihu is egoistic but she also loves Rudr but now after all these years she's had enough of it. Her mind is telling her to stay away from Rudr but her heart tells her to be with him. She's constantly fighting the battle between her heart and her head.

@bold I agree with your reasoning. Pihu loves Rudra madly. When she got upset over slapping she refused to give in until he apologize to her. She seemed to want to test him to see how much or how far he'd go to show his love for her. These people are not the ordinary - I'm interested to see where this attitude will lead in this particuar story/show..

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