Anyways, I agree with you on the Radha thing. I keep saying Gopi did wrong but her motive was right. I keep saying what Dharam and Guara did was wrong and the motive was also wrong. I keep saying its a show, I don't really care but if people are going to bash Dharam only, I will defend him.
You can't say Dharam is wrong but then give excuses for other people like Meera. Okay Gopi had good intentions to kill Radha and even I said Durga can be excused for not protesting. But I don't agree with Meeras defence, she is supposed to be bold and a very modern girl. She is always voicing her opinions and please she wasn't manipulated on Durga's matter. She very well knew about who Durga was and that she was still married to Dharam. Meera is simply selfish, she didn't care because her main motive was to stay in the Suryavanshi house to punish the Modis and so, she didn't care about Durga because if she did, she'd have no rights in the house and she couldn't have that.
In that case, I could say Dharam shouldn't be blamed because he is naive and easily manipulated by Guara. See the reasoning sounds stupid.
And even if Dharam has committed many crimes as you so suggest then he should be punished. Request the cvs to do that. They can also send Gopi, Sona and Ahem to jail along with Guara and Dharam. All five of them have committed crimes as per my knowledge and not been punished for it. If everyone is so bothered by the wrongdoings on the show, then do request the cvs to change the current plot.
Yes, that is why she apologized to Dharam. Gopi has always accepted her mistakes when it was pointed out be it friendship or relationship or even enemies. Meera was not manipulated in Durga's matters but she was manipulated to marry Dharam. She easily gets carried away by others words. Meera back answers people & voices her opinion but that does not make her wise & smart. She does not know the world & has to learn a lot from life whereas Dharam is quite experienced though he isn't educated like Meera. Gaura has manipulated both Dharam & Meera. Gaura had brought shravan's proposal for Meera first but it is her fattedness that she didn't accept it. Gaura & Dharam started first so they should get more punishment than Ahem, Gopi, Meera, Durga & Sona. There is a reason behind why people are bashing Dharam. I like Amar Upadhyay. I wonder why the hell he accepted this role in the first place.
You know I have a solution to this relationship mess, why not tell Shravan and Vidhya to give up their marriage. And then Durga can get a divorce and Dheera can live happily ever after 😆 Jokes aside, I agree with you on this as well. Let's wait for the twist and even I like living in the present but I cant ignore the fact that there are missing pieces to this jigsaw puzzle. Until they're joined up, I can't really judge.
Dharam should have divorced Durga before marrying Meera not after that so the solution from my side is let him divorce Meera for the time being, sort out the Durga mess & come back to Meera. Or the other alternative is convert into Islam & have both of them as Muslims can marry 6 times without divorcing. Just kidding.😆 If we have to wait for the twist, what is the point in fighting among ourselves by favoring or opposing Dheera? Why do people take it personally when they are contradicted regarding this couple? Just watch it & leave. As simple as that.
But a person can say yes even though they don't want to go ahead with the plan. I feel he was pressurised into the marriage, he was never serious about treating Gopi like a wife. I remember that stern face he had in the wedding 😆 In short, I feel he was not ready.
I liked how Meera didn't tolerate Dharam's nonsense too, that's why I liked them because both were hot headed and on equal par. She challenged him, he challenged her.
@Italics That's a bit unfair. If Dharam does it then it's not right but if Meera does it, it's alright? Why just because she's a female and he's a male? Both were wrong to manhandle each other.
That is where Ahem went wrong. Keeping a stern face during wedding doesn't help. He had a say but he didn't open up as he didn't have guts to do that. So more than Kokila, it is Ahem who is at fault. Keeping a stern face during marriage & not accepting the spouse as a spouse is futile. If he was so particular about his choice, he would have made it happen. He just didn't put any effort to talk to his mother. It was his choice to abide to Kokila. Same is the case with Dharam. In short to say, guys cannot be manipulated or pushed into a relationship unless they allow themselves in that. Like Ahem, it was was Dharam's choice to dedicate his life to his mother. Meera manhandled Dharam because he manhandled her. I agree with you that both were wrong as two wrongs does not make one right. But Meera didn't take his shit. That is what I liked.
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