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Posted: 9 years ago
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Just like Sati Savitri, Sati Anasuya etc now in the present days we have Sati Gopi. She can be away from her husband for 18 years and not even bother to know about his well being yet she is sure that her heart would have stopped beating the moment her husband died. What a mahaan pativrata. She gives more importance to her MIL than her husband, does not confide in him about important issues yet she is a mahaan pativrata. Really Gopi's outburst in 10th December episode was ridiculous .

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Posted: 9 years ago
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The couple cannot even sort out the differences on their own. It was either kokila or Rashi or Paridhi or the kids who was helping the couple to come close.
Ahem had been a mamma's boy and Gopi is a MIL's girl. Gopi should have either told him the truth or deleted the video before Madhu saw it if at all she wanted to hide it from him.

More than Gopi it is Kokila who has to be blamed for this. If Gopi goes against Kokila, Ahem would not like that either. When Kokila gets annoyed at her for disagreeing with her, Ahem would not stand by her.

Even before giving Vidya to Gaura as a GDIL, Kokila didn't heed to Gopi's warning. Ahem had kept quiet at that time instead of backing Gopi.

Uff it was Ahem who spoke to Vidya about the proposal when Kokila was between Vidya and Gaura. Gopi didn't want to give Vidya to them in the first place.

I am not able to get how come Ahem was thinking about Meera's education and not Vidya's before their marriage.

It is right on Ahem's part today get angry that the fact was hidden from him but does he really need to leave the house?

Gopi needs to get her priorities and consult Ahem before agreeing with Kokila and taking a decision though his views with Kokila may match. At least he will be happy that Gopi had at least consulted him.

But even Ahem needs to grow up. He should think from Gopi's view point when she differs from Kokila and stand by her.

Leaving the house is not a solution.


Edited by sharoon3210 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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100% agree with u 👍🏼
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ufff this mahan crying, koki worshiping, praying all the time Gopi is nauseating. Ahem has every right to be angry. However he acts like a big baby too. He needs to grow up and Gopi needs to get her priorities right.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: MADHYAMAVATHI

Just like Sati Savitri, Sati Anasuya etc now in the present days we have Sati Gopi. She can be away from her husband for 18 years and not even bother to know about his well being yet she is sure that her heart would have stopped beating the moment her husband died. What a mahaan pativrata. She gives more importance to her MIL than her husband, does not confide in him about important issues yet she is a mahaan pativrata. Really Gopi's outburst in 10th December episode was ridiculous .


Btw, when Gopi was hospitalized after Meera pushed her from the first floor, she was in a critical condition. At that time even Ahem prayed & fasted for her which can be called as male Savitri (I don't know the exact name who saved his wife from the jaws of death. My apologies to all Sati Savitri devotees). In those 18 years even Ahem didn't bother about her well being. On the contrary he had decided to move on with Radha & Mansi yet he still loves Gopi & is a patnivrata.

Ahem's anger is justified when Meera's disgrace was hidden from him. Gopi should have somehow conveyed this to Ahem. She needs to balance between her husband & MIL.

They are the parents of grown up children. It is time for them to mature.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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lol so accurate...poor ahem is sidetracked 😕
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Millerrr88

lol so accurate...poor ahem is sidetracked 😕


Agree with you. For that matter all the male characters are sidelined.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sati?
Wasn't sati in love with her husband?
Gopi is just in love with her mother in law, if kokila dies tomorrow, Gopi-Ahem would get divorce, purpose of their marriage over.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: White-Rose

Sati?

Wasn't sati in love with her husband?
Gopi is just in love with her mother in law, if kokila dies tomorrow, Gopi-Ahem would get divorce, purpose of their marriage over.


LOL. In a way you are right. Unless the couple matures, understand each other & sort out things by themselves, this is what will happen. However, Kokila is not going to die so soon & so easily. By the time she leaves the world in this show, Gopi & Ahem would have become grand parents & perhaps they will have grown-up grand children. Their one foot will be nearing the grave & they will think about their kanhaji. At that time it will be too late for divorce.😆

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