Everyone has done injustice to Meera - Page 2

Originally posted by: ktiluvu

but being a woman i won't support the women's who spoil their life's for what ever the reason, OK so meera married old man to safe vidhya then meera spoiled her own life by marrying that old man that too who's wife is alive, as a women i won't want girls to spoil their life's for whatever the reason I want women to be strong and well educated not stupid sacrifices which will destroy many life's that's it and u can support meera but I can't support a girl who will destroy her life in the name of sacrifice that's it

so your saying that cos I'm divorced and my first husband is still alive I can't remarry! Try telling that to my second husband of 6 years!!!! Your talking crap that's why women of India can't progress cos of attitudes like yours. Anyone's head would be psychologically messed up if they had a life like meeras but instead of becoming typical soap character doing all her roona dhoona she has stood up and fought! And so what if Dharam is older? They are kindred spirits and will grow from each other believe me! Your attitude is like that of my grandmother, and yes education is important but tbh she doesn't need to go to uni because her family are loaded and her husband is loaded. Education isnt for everyone you know! Tell her pathetic sister to get educated too!

Originally posted by: ninag

so your saying that cos I'm divorced and my first husband is still alive I can't remarry! Try telling that to my second husband of 6 years!!!! Your talking crap that's why women of India can't progress cos of attitudes like yours. Anyone's head would be psychologically messed up if they had a life like meeras but instead of becoming typical soap character doing all her roona dhoona she has stood up and fought! And so what if Dharam is older? They are kindred spirits and will grow from each other believe me! Your attitude is like that of my grandmother, and yes education is important but tbh she doesn't need to go to uni because her family are loaded and her husband is loaded. Education isnt for everyone you know! Tell her pathetic sister to get educated too!

Originally posted by: ninag

so your saying that cos I'm divorced and my first husband is still alive I can't remarry! Try telling that to my second husband of 6 years!!!! Your talking crap that's why women of India can't progress cos of attitudes like yours. Anyone's head would be psychologically messed up if they had a life like meeras but instead of becoming typical soap character doing all her roona dhoona she has stood up and fought! And so what if Dharam is older? They are kindred spirits and will grow from each other believe me! Your attitude is like that of my grandmother, and yes education is important but tbh she doesn't need to go to uni because her family are loaded and her husband is loaded. Education isnt for everyone you know! Tell her pathetic sister to get educated too!

oh hello ur mentality is like grand grandmother, what Iam saying and what you understood when I said second marriage is crime i didn't said like that, I said instead of marrying an old man meera can continue her studies, you kind of people only love pairs and you people only arguee for ur favourite couple Will you accept ur daughter to Marry an old man, will you agree ur daughter to marry a old man, the problem with you is you love meera and dharam couple so you are fighting AND ADVISING A GIRL TO CONTINUE HER EDUCATION INSTEAD OF MARRYING A OLD MEN IS A GRANDMOTHERS ADVICE JOKE OF THE DECADE people like you only think girls means should marry a old man and bear torture by husbands and girls should stop education

Originally posted by: ktiluvu

oh hello ur mentality is like grand grandmother, what Iam saying and what you understood when I said second marriage is crime i didn't said like that, I said instead of marrying an old man meera can continue her studies, you kind of people only love pairs and you people only arguee for ur favourite couple Will you accept ur daughter to Marry an old man, will you agree ur daughter to marry a old man, the problem with you is you love meera and dharam couple so you are fighting AND ADVISING A GIRL TO CONTINUE HER EDUCATION INSTEAD OF MARRYING A OLD MEN IS A GRANDMOTHERS ADVICE JOKE OF THE DECADE people like you only think girls means should marry a old man and bear torture by husbands and girls should stop education

Originally posted by: xPalkix

@Bold I think that's unfair of you to say that. I love Dheera too but I don't think education is not important. It's a show, Dheera or no Dheera, Vidya and Meera wouldn't have gone college full stop.

And if I ever have a child who wants to marry someone significantly older than I wouldn't object, I would just make sure that person loves my child and would want that person to have a clean heart.

Dharam is not even torturing her wth? I think more than eduction, you are against age gap between couples.

It's a show, take a chill pill yaar 😆

no my friend but she said Iam thinking like grandmother, advising girls to be educated is a grandmother advice, Iam a woman and I want women to be careful and intelligent in what ever decisions they take, coming to age gap 20years age difference will definitely matters na, OK if that person is good then OK but I bet that person will be shown negatively so at the end meera will guilty for marrying him so i advice instead of marrying him she can go for education

Originally posted by: ktiluvu

no my friend but she said Iam thinking like grandmother, advising girls to be educated is a grandmother advice, Iam a woman and I want women to be careful and intelligent in what ever decisions they take, coming to age gap 20years age difference will definitely matters na, OK if that person is good then OK but I bet that person will be shown negatively so at the end meera will guilty for marrying him so i advice instead of marrying him she can go for education

Originally posted by: ktiluvu

no my friend but she said Iam thinking like grandmother, advising girls to be educated is a grandmother advice, Iam a woman and I want women to be careful and intelligent in what ever decisions they take, coming to age gap 20years age difference will definitely matters na, OK if that person is good then OK but I bet that person will be shown negatively so at the end meera will guilty for marrying him so i advice instead of marrying him she can go for education

I didn't call you a grandmother because of that comment but all the other bakwAs backwards comments. I love the way you went back and edited your original post about how disgusting it was Dharam had remarried whilst his first wife was alive. Deleting the parts I pulled u up on. Education is a personal choice. If she doesn't wish to go to university then that's up to her. Why don't you suggest tolu molu and Vidhya get educated too? 👏

I'm not going to reply to any of your comments on this thread. Your very rude and I found your comments on divorce and remarrying (the ones you deleted after I pulled u up on them) very offensive. Goodbye

Originally posted by: ninag

I'm not going to reply to any of your comments on this thread. Your very rude and I found your comments on divorce and remarrying (the ones you deleted after I pulled u up on them) very offensive. Goodbye

Iam not rude ur rude by calling me grandmother and when i said second marriage is crime, if divorce happens one can remarry but should marry good person and education is important to girls if girls will be in trouble then their education will help them and give life to them

Originally posted by: ninag

so your saying that cos I'm divorced and my first husband is still alive I can't remarry! Try telling that to my second husband of 6 years!!!! Your talking crap that's why women of India can't progress cos of attitudes like yours. Anyone's head would be psychologically messed up if they had a life like meeras but instead of becoming typical soap character doing all her roona dhoona she has stood up and fought! And so what if Dharam is older? They are kindred spirits and will grow from each other believe me! Your attitude is like that of my grandmother, and yes education is important but tbh she doesn't need to go to uni because her family are loaded and her husband is loaded. Education isnt for everyone you know! Tell her pathetic sister to get educated too!

Well, both the girls i.e. Meera & Vidya should complete their education. But Kokila made them do the housework which is not correct. She didn't do this to Kinjal. And for the sake of Kokila's friendship with Gaura, Ahem & Gopi spoke to Vidya. Otherwise, they were not interested in sending Vidya so soon. As a matter of fact Ahem didn't want to get Meera married. But it was all because of Kokila. She is the main culprit.

As for Meera, I feel bad for her that she has been away from her family for 18 years. She spent 10 years only with Ahem, Vidya & Mansi.

However, Ahem did not control Meera initially. He was engrossed in his bakery business & spent long hours in his shop. Mansi didn't guide Meera or restrict her.

Ahem made the mistake of leaving the house & isolating the girls from the family & didn't spend time with Meera in removing her prejudice towards Gopi.

How will she believe Kokila when she was away from her for the past 18 years? How can she remember as to what Radha did to her when she was hardly 2 years?

Yes, Meera could have collected the evidence against Gaura's family & exposed them but who helped her to do that?

So Meera took the matter in her hands as she felt that marrying Dharam is the best way to save Vidya whether right or wrong.