Originally posted by: MADHYAMAVATHI
I don't agree that Meera was wronged all the time. If Meera was away from the family for 8 years it was only due to Radha. Meera was full of prejudice towards her mother and was not even willing to listen to anything about why she left them. When Kokila revealed the truth about the reason for Gopi's absence Vidya who is younger was much more sensible and understood. But Meera just believed the fake letter and was never willing to give her mother a chance. Meera did spend some time with Gopi after her reunion with her family. She remembers about Radha's misdeeds towards her but brushes it off lightly. But she never remembers her mothers affection towards her. She is willing to give Radha the benefit of doubt but not give a chance to her mother.
Meera is proud and arrogant and self centered. She is more like Radha and does not hesitate to stoop to any level.
By no reason Meera's deeds are justified.
Yes Kokila was more tough with Meera but Meera's behaviour was also like that.
And when Meera felt that Gaura had some ulterior motive she should have tried to stop Vidya's marriage. Instead she joined hands with Gaura . Meera did not do any thing concrete to find Gaura's intentions or stop the marriage but did silly things like trying to burn the ring or swallow the ring.
Meera is only immature and arrogant.