cvs and Maansi

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

If Ahem says to his mother that she got him married to the girl who was illiterate & does not have any knowledge about the outside world, is he any better with MBA qualification in USA & as a businessman?

He trusts Mansi more than required. If he comes to his senses, Mansi will definitely misuse his account as both the accounts are linked to each other.

At least Gopi is better in that respect although she made mistakes.

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

If Ahem says to his mother that she got him married to the girl who was illiterate & does not have any knowledge about the outside world, is he any better with MBA qualification in USA & as a businessman?

He trusts Mansi more than required. If he comes to his senses, Mansi will definitely misuse his account as both the accounts are linked to each other.

At least Gopi is better in that respect although she made mistakes.

Originally posted by: pyaaribehna

Let him say what he likes to his mother. When Kokila got Gopi married to Ahem did she for a moment think about the girl she chose for "herself" suiting his son?

Kokila is selfish. Gopi got married to Ahem because of Kokila's selfishness.

She did not want a bahu who will talk back at her. So she had to get Gopi for Ahem. That part is true.

Gopi is a nice girl. Smart girl . Unlucky girl but smart considering what kind of life fate gave her.

She was stupid to believe Rashi and commit all kinds of mistakes.

Kokila getting Gopi married to Ahem is pure selfishness.

Left to him right or wrong Ahem would have chosen for himself a girl like Anita.

Ahem is mama's boy and Kokila used it to her advantage.

She never thought of Gopi who never got Ahem's pyaar in the beginning because Gopi was stupid and uneducated.

Ahem has to say that. why wouldn't he?

he loves Gopi because Gopi deserves his love. Gopi made herself better studied worked embroidered, etc etc

Ahem now trusting Maansi is because he is angry with his family.

Now he is not himself. That is why.

Originally posted by: pyaaribehna

Let him say what he likes to his mother. When Kokila got Gopi married to Ahem did she for a moment think about the girl she chose for "herself" suiting his son?

Kokila is selfish. Gopi got married to Ahem because of Kokila's selfishness.

She did not want a bahu who will talk back at her. So she had to get Gopi for Ahem. That part is true.

Gopi is a nice girl. Smart girl . Unlucky girl but smart considering what kind of life fate gave her.
Yes, I agree with in these points. Kokila wanted a DIL who would not back answer her & manipulate her son against her which will lead to losing him.

She was stupid to believe Rashi and commit all kinds of mistakes.
She trusted Rashi more than required.

Kokila getting Gopi married to Ahem is pure selfishness.

Left to him right or wrong Ahem would have chosen for himself a girl like Anita.

Ahem is mama's boy and Kokila used it to her advantage.
Agree that Kokila got Ahem married to Gopi out of her selfishness. Even though Ahem loves his mom very much, he should have been outright. Ahem is also largely responsible for it. I have posted this 'n' number of times that he just didn't love Anita to that extent. Otherwise he would have made sure that the whole family know about his relationship with Anita. He could have taken Baa's & Hetal's help to accept Anita as her DIL. He wouldn't have rejected her as a boiled potato & left her in the lurch.

She never thought of Gopi who never got Ahem's pyaar in the beginning because Gopi was stupid and uneducated.

Ahem has to say that. why wouldn't he?

He should have been outright at the beginning. That is his fault. He blames everyone except himself. I am telling it over & over again.
he loves Gopi because Gopi deserves his love. Gopi made herself better studied worked embroidered, etc etc

Ahem now trusting Maansi is because he is angry with his family.

Now he is not himself. That is why.
Out of his anger & ego only, he takes a wrong decision.

Originally posted by: pyaaribehna

Also I want to say that you are going "off topic" here. I only want to say that Maansi good or bad has never misused Ahem's resources. and also looked after the kids.

She was "just a friend" . It was Ahem who shared accounts with her. that much he trusted her.

She never misused it till now. She seems to be honestly interested in the kids. Even for her own selfishness.
So what? If she has not misused, she can do it to take revenge on Ahem for breaking the engagement. If she was interested in the kids welfare, she wouldn't have covered Meera's mistakes.

Ahem was loose and needed help with no wife and young kids. She filled in and now she is possessive.

That is true. But it was Mansi's choice to do that. So on what basis she can force Ahem to love her & marry her? It only means that she is insisting on taking care of his kids & she wants to be his wife in return.

But what I am trying to say is after what Maansi has done all these years cvs would make her out to be a vamp just to get her thrown out.

She is a vamp.

I am sure they will show her manipulating the joint account even. They will do anything to butcher her character just because they need Gopi in Ahem's life.

When in the past ten years Maansi has really helped Ahem and the kids as she filled the void in the kid's lives.
Yes, she can do anything to take revenge. Money changes everyone.

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

May be he did not love Anita to that extent. But he led her on to believe that she is going to be his wife did he not? If he did not love her that much why would he think of her even after marrying Gopi?

To go around with a girl in a place like Rajkot and then dropping her even like a hot potato is no joke. That is why Modis suffered through Umang and then Radha.

When one messes with a woman it is feelings that are hurt. and the consequences have to be met.

And if Ahem did not even feel bad for dropping Anita then he is even more to blame. he and Kinjal have this habit of getting involved with manipulative people Kinjal with Umang and Ahem with Anita.

and everybody suffers the consequences.

Ahem should have been outright in the beginning. that is the whole problem. he is a mama's boy. why else would he break engagement with Maansi because dear mama comes and stops him.? he still is mama's boy.

Originally posted by: sharoon3210