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Posted: 10 years ago
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but can a person change so drastically in 10 years? 😕 I know SNS has never resembled reality, but this is just too much! Meera was a 2 year old baby when she was separated from her family, then found 8 years later. So Meera was 10 years old and Vidya 8 years old when the leap happened. After the leap, I suspect at least 1 year passed during which Rashi passed away, Paridhi came and Radha began her evil deeds again. So Meera was around 11 and Vidya 9 when Gopi went to jail.
How the heck can these two NOT recognize their mother! Facial features don't change that soon once someone is an adult. They look the same even if they're middle aged. CVs are SO stupid!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Vidya did but she was not sure, whereas Meera i am not sure
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Posted: 10 years ago
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You're not wrong, no one really can have that much of a personality change so drastically. They still would have some traits of it as they grow, or well that's what I believe.
Meera I think that she does recognise her mother however the reason for the attitude that she shows would be the fact that she did not receive as much interaction with Gopi and the fact that she felt abandoned by Gopi.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Vidya recognizes and she knows her mother really well.. Meera is an idiot..she is with the influence of Mansi and that's how Mansi brought her up... And also Meera did not experience as much closeness since she was not there with her mother for 8 years..just my guess.😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..RamKiJanaki..

Correct me if I'm wrong, but can a person change so drastically in 10 years? 😕 I know SNS has never resembled reality, but this is just too much! Meera was a 2 year old baby when she was separated from her family, then found 8 years later. So Meera was 10 years old and Vidya 8 years old when the leap happened. After the leap, I suspect at least 1 year passed during which Rashi passed away, Paridhi came and Radha began her evil deeds again. So Meera was around 11 and Vidya 9 when Gopi went to jail.

How the heck can these two NOT recognize their mother! Facial features don't change that soon once someone is an adult. They look the same even if they're middle aged. CVs are SO stupid!


Meera was anemotionally abused kid in the first place. She felt abandoned did not even go to

school like other kids and sold flowers outside the temple.

I wonder how a panditji did not realize the girl should go to school.

And then she came back to MB she was pampered for a while.

Then Gopi did the most idiotic thing and killed Radha and went to jail. Meera was abandoned once again.

Ahem took the kids and went away thus Meera was alone again. Problem kids become addicted to drugs or alcohol.

Meera missed her mother deep down. She was hurt deeply by the abandonment once and then a second time. by Gopi going to jail.

Ahem was right in a way Gopi never thought of her own two kids. or her husband who may miss her for years when she was gone.

She cannot "pick up" from where she left. Again she is the gawar that Urmilabehn calls her. Otherwise she would have known such a small thing as this.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I'm not saying Gopi was right in killing Radha. In fact, I'm on Ahem's side right now and if I was in his place, I'd be pretty angry at Gopi too, but my question was, would Meera's whole personality change because of the influence of Mansi, to the extent that she forgot her entire childhood?

Yes, Meera suffered abandonment issues since she was a baby, and I don't blame her for resenting Gopi, but I do question the reality of her becoming a spoiled brat. It's as if she doesn't remember the difficult childhood she had, the devotion towards Radha Krishna, etc. She's like a typical rich kid when in fact, for the majority of her childhood she suffered the life of a poor penniless child. A person's childhood impacts them more than their adolescence does. If a person is brought up struggling, they do not become spoiled rotten just because they're pampered in adolescence. Meera's character is so inconsistent that I simply cannot connect her to the innocent 10 year old child she used to be.

Vidya makes so much more sense to me. She and her mother always shared a close bond, and today Vidya was seen with tears in her eyes when she saw her mother. Vidya still remembers her mother and her character remains steadfast. She loves her mother in her heart, for who can forget the loving childhood Gopi gave her when they had no one else? But she also feels betrayed because she thought Gopi abandoned her and her sister. Here it is Gopi's fault that her daughters think this way, because SHE is the one who refused to see them in jail. They still could've maintained a relationship even while she was in jail. Her daughters could have understood why their mother could not be with them, she still could have given them a mother's love, but she refused all this and made the biggest mistake of her life.

Through this track, I hope Gopi realizes the importance of HER family i.e. her husband and children who come before any others, and Ahem realizes that he cannot solve the problems of his life by running away.
Edited by ..RamKiJanaki.. - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Gopi is at fault & she accepts that. She did a right thing answering him back. He was speechless till Meera supported him. Inwardly, Ahem knows that he is at fault but his ego does not allow him to accept his mistakes. If Gopi had added the following points like
Radha trying to kill Koki,
Stuffing mirchi powder in Meera's mouth
Kidnapping Meera & Vidya
Cutting Meera's ghungroo
Changing Meera's exam time-table and many more, it would have carried more weight. She also should have asked him that why didn't he make the priority to get rid of Radha. And yes, even Kokila did not do that. How will they? Their focus had changed from Radha to Paridhi. But Radha was more dangerous. If they had fitted CCTV, they would have known that Radha had set fire to the temple & not Paridhi. Ahem should have focused on throwing out Radha first.
Meera knew more about Kanhaji & she was soft natured even after 8 years. Although she is educated, her soft nature would remain intact no matter what.

The CV's are misleading the public.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ani_gr

Vidya recognizes and she knows her mother really well.. Meera is an idiot..she is with the influence of Mansi and that's how Mansi brought her up... And also Meera did not experience as much closeness since she was not there with her mother for 8 years..just my guess.😊

YEA I AGREE 😕

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