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Posted: 11 years ago
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how can gopi do this? How can she agree to sign the divorce papers when ahem asks her to? :( she needs to fight for her rights by not agreeing to sign the divorce papers.
gopi is making the biggest mistake ever by agreeing to sign the divorce papers. She has no idea what trouble her family is gonna be in if her ahem marries her evil sister.
i hope ahem doesn't marry radha. I want rashi to stop ahem from marrying radha like her and the kids did the first time.
poor vidya :( stupid ahem ateast think about your vidya, how she is gonna feel that you want divorce from her mum and how she is gonna feel that you wanna marry her evil maasi.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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when she has been told clearly that she is not his wife or bahu by both, why should she stick around n listen to them, she was told that everyone was happy with radha n ahems alliance, everyone agreed to it, why have the threat of divorce said to her time n time again and then ahem marrying Radha they deserve each other.
Ahem n kokila were shocked the first time when gopi left for 8 years and never looked back, she made it quite clear to hetal n baa she had no intention of coming back to them, so now she is not going to let ahem walk all over her she is taking a stand for herself which i agree with. Time to shut their mouths, kokila looking shocked when ahem said he will sign divorce papers tomorrow, and then when Gopi gives them a no nonsense jawab then lets see how they react
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree with Suk😊

Why does Ahem need any 'rescuing' when he has so obviously made it clear that he wants nothing to do with Gopi?
He does not stop showing his dislike with asking for a divorce.. He keeps throwing her own sister at her face. And to top all that, he shouts at her at public places, with no rhyme or reason🤢

Gopi made a mistake hiding Vidya. But she has been taking their hate without a question because of that. How long does she have to keep doing that? 😕 Ahem and Kokila are beyond what one calls reasonable.

It is better this way. Ahem can get his dislike and hate off his chest by taking a divorce. That way, he can satisfy his ego that he has 'punished' the woman who killed his first born and has dared to walk away.

Gopi will be free of the abuse after divorce and rest be assured, she will surely keep Vidya in mind as she always does. She will be independent and happy in her own way like she was for 8 years. Atleast she does not have to be taunted and called 'buri nazar' for anything that has to do with MM.

Now when the truth comes out, it is Ahem's choice to do whatever he wants. He probably will have to understand that he divorced his firstborn's mother to marry the killer/attempted killer of his daughter. Lets see if he can shout at Radha the same way he shouts at Gopi..

It is high time Gopi stops rescuing people from themselves and from her. She is making no leeway, on the contrary, she is getting charged of trying to suck up and wanting the Modi millions which BTW she was never after.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I cannot believe that anyone would want a person to stay with someone who openly shows his disgust, abuses her left right and centre and constantly threatens her with divorce. No one should put up with anything like that and it am slightly disturbed that another female viewer would be saying this. Gopi's biggest mistake is if she sticks around taking all this abuse. Ahem and Kokila are clear in their hatred for her. Whatever the love was shown in the past it was fair weather love. While the going was good and smooth, she was their apple but as soon as the dark clouds appeared they dropped her like a hot potato.
TM please tell me that you don't really want a women like Gopi to have no self respect and lay her happiness at the sacrificial altar of KoHem. As for Vidya, would she want her mother to be abused time and time again?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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There is something called Patience and then there is being stupid. Gopi has crossed the first line a long time ago.

There is no reason to abuse another human being and justify the act by saying they are blinded by grief and anger when there are more humane ways to show your displeasure/dislike.

Ahem and Kokila are all words and taunts. They cannot do anything on their own except abuse. Both remained engulfed in self pity and grief for 8 years and now that they have their target back, they are back to bullying and abuse.

I think people like Jigar and Gopi have put up with KoHem's tantrums enough. Jigar should have told Ahem to take a hike when Ahem kept shouting at him for Rashi celebrating VD with her husband. But the Modis and Gopi have been indulging this duo and feeding their ego for years.

If KoHem really wanted nothing to do with Gopi, they could have gone and got a divorce as Gopi was absent 8 years. Nothing would have stopped them. And they could have been rid of Gopi the moment she came back. But they chose to remain..

Now that she is back, it is like they have their lollipop. Make sure to hate, taunt and accuse her. Then keep repeating that she has nothing to do with the house. Throw the divorce at her.

KoHem are just cowards😡 Just because Gopi will not go to their level, they exploit the fact and keep up their bullying🤢 Gopi is well rid of them if she has any dignity and respect for herself.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Agree with Suk😊

Why does Ahem need any 'rescuing' when he has so obviously made it clear that he wants nothing to do with Gopi?
He does not stop showing his dislike with asking for a divorce.. He keeps throwing her own sister at her face. And to top all that, he shouts at her at public places, with no rhyme or reason🤢

Gopi made a mistake hiding Vidya. But she has been taking their hate without a question because of that. How long does she have to keep doing that? 😕 Ahem and Kokila are beyond what one calls reasonable.

It is better this way. Ahem can get his dislike and hate off his chest by taking a divorce. That way, he can satisfy his ego that he has 'punished' the woman who killed his first born and has dared to walk away.

Gopi will be free of the abuse after divorce and rest be assured, she will surely keep Vidya in mind as she always does. She will be independent and happy in her own way like she was for 8 years. Atleast she does not have to be taunted and called 'buri nazar' for anything that has to do with MM.

Now when the truth comes out, it is Ahem's choice to do whatever he wants. He probably will have to understand that he divorced his firstborn's mother to marry the killer/attempted killer of his daughter. Lets see if he can shout at Radha the same way he shouts at Gopi..

It is high time Gopi stops rescuing people from themselves and from her. She is making no leeway, on the contrary, she is getting charged of trying to suck up and wanting the Modi millions which BTW she was never after.

👏 well said Radha is not Gopi she will shout back, Gopi does not shout she is calm about what she has to say.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

There is something called Patience and then there is being stupid. Gopi has crossed the first line a long time ago.

There is no reason to abuse another human being and justify the act by saying they are blinded by grief and anger when there are more humane ways to show your displeasure/dislike.

Ahem and Kokila are all words and taunts. They cannot do anything on their own except abuse. Both remained engulfed in self pity and grief for 8 years and now that they have their target back, they are back to bullying and abuse.

I think people like Jigar and Gopi have put up with KoHem's tantrums enough. Jigar should have told Ahem to take a hike when Ahem kept shouting at him for Rashi celebrating VD with her husband. But the Modis and Gopi have been indulging this duo and feeding their ego for years.

If KoHem really wanted nothing to do with Gopi, they could have gone and got a divorce as Gopi was absent 8 years. Nothing would have stopped them. And they could have been rid of Gopi the moment she came back. But they chose to remain..

Now that she is back, it is like they have their lollipop. Make sure to hate, taunt and accuse her. Then keep repeating that she has nothing to do with the house. Throw the divorce at her.

KoHem are just cowards😡 Just because Gopi will not go to their level, they exploit the fact and keep up their bullying🤢 Gopi is well rid of them if she has any dignity and respect for herself.

she will have dignity and respect for herself but the samaj will taunt her for being divorce this is what she will have to live with she can deal with them as they dont matter to them, but people she loves who have abused her bullied her she can put her head up high in front of them and they will still be in self pity and living with their favourite radha vahu

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