Shocking precape??? - Page 3

I guess my biggest disappointment with Ahem is his lack of husbanding skills. The man is too much a father and too little a husband these days for me not to be critical

Unfortunately some men who have an arranged marriage can never force themselves to become loving husbands... this marriage was forced upon Ahem and he has never really loved Gopi - maybe he was sorry for her sometimes, but I wouldn't call this love. They only slept together once when they were drunk (hence Meera) and that's it. There is no love, no attachment, no devotion between them. Just a duty, an obligation. Ahem is a very cold person - he just wants peace at home, so that he can rest after work. He does not care too much about other people except of his Mom. I think this marriage actually killed Ahem and he must feel quite unhappy and suffocated. He maybe only found some consolation in Meera. What kind of attachment can be between Ahem and Gopi if they don't have anything to talk about other than family matters? There is a real intellectual gap between these too, and you really need something more to create a real loving relationship. So in a way I am really sorry for Ahem - he must be really unhappy and a prisoner in his own house, in his own life. A prisoner of social norms who has never been allowed to pursue his dreams and choose his own bride to love.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

I actually loved the slap😃

Good one Sasuma..👍🏼 Have longed for someone to slap Ahem atleast once for being so selfish and silly again.

When it comes to Koki, Ahem goes all out as we saw in the creche track. .he was horrible, shouting and blaming Gopi in front of everyone without seeing from her PoV.. So cannot the man see from Gopi's PoV about her mother and for once let the things settle down a little before going all out for Meera? BTW, that child is a year old and surely there are 2 other sane people in the room who would take care of her..
Ahem should stop being such an idiot. His fear is unfounded. It has not even been a day and like Gopi did when explaining calmly to her mother, they are umpteen other ways to get Meera to sleep with him in the room instead of plucking the child from a scared enough mother..

Ahem has never acknowledged or apologized for the slap he gave Gopi during that first year and has been insensitive after that except for a couple of circumstances.
Nice to see him get slapped.. Great going Gopi's family👏

I just watched yesterdays and todays epi... and i total agree with you... The first year of ahem and gopi marriage ... he acted like a butt-head (excuse my english) I just love the slap...and we get to see more drama with ahem ...which means less urmi.😆...

Originally posted by: Mrs_Ojha

Unfortunately some men who have an arranged marriage can never force themselves to become loving husbands... this marriage was forced upon Ahem and he has never really loved Gopi - maybe he was sorry for her sometimes, but I wouldn't call this love. They only slept together once when they were drunk (hence Meera) and that's it. There is no love, no attachment, no devotion between them. Just a duty, an obligation. Ahem is a very cold person - he just wants peace at home, so that he can rest after work. He does not care too much about other people except of his Mom. I think this marriage actually killed Ahem and he must feel quite unhappy and suffocated. He maybe only found some consolation in Meera. What kind of attachment can be between Ahem and Gopi if they don't have anything to talk about other than family matters? There is a real intellectual gap between these too, and you really need something more to create a real loving relationship. So in a way I am really sorry for Ahem - he must be really unhappy and a prisoner in his own house, in his own life. A prisoner of social norms who has never been allowed to pursue his dreams and choose his own bride to love.

Superb take👏 That is one thing that has really bugged me. There was a time when Ahem did not want the child and said he wanted life with Gopi alone for some more time before the responsibility sets in. Maybe that was right.

If given some more time, he could have come to know Gopi better and maybe create a stronger bond than just obligation.

Originally posted by: ANJ4

I just watched yesterdays and todays epi... and i total agree with you... The first year of ahem and gopi marriage ... he acted like a butt-head (excuse my english) I just love the slap...and we get to see more drama with ahem ...which means less urmi.😆...

So hopefully there is a rift between g-mom and ahem ... ahem needs more screen time

Thank you CVs for having ahem slaped.

👍🏼

Thanks Anju.. Hopefully that is how it continues😊