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@Madhu dear forget.. Gopi never utter anything to her mother when she not said when her daughter cries hell.. So u expect she said some thing Ahem No Never neither.. 😡 Gopi forget is Ahem is Meeru father or he also have full right on her.. Taking school decision to take over her daughter to her mother she wont took pain to give Ahem permision top she knew he wont like it at all..

Originally posted by: -GiNa-

@Madhu dear forget.. Gopi never utter anything to her mother when she not said when her daughter cries hell.. So u expect she said some thing Ahem No Never neither.. 😡 Gopi forget is Ahem is Meeru father or he also have full right on her.. Taking school decision to take over her daughter to her mother she wont took pain to give Ahem permision top she knew he wont like it at all..

wow this one is going to war! 😆...why is it necessary to blame someone when something goes wrong? sometimes circumstances are such that things dont go the way we want...it is always not necessary that it has to be either Gopi's or Ahem's fault...Gopi is distraught for her mother AND worried for Meera and so is Ahem..he was the only one who went to the doctor for Gopi's mother and he probably wont even mind if they stay with them forever once everything is back to normal...just like I dont get any sadistic pleasure out of seeing Gopi screamed at by Ahem I certainly dont get any sadistic pleasure out of seeing Ahem slapped as well. Gopi wants to look after her mother and see that she is healed and she is right. Ahem is worried for Meera and he is right too. If Gopi is worried for her mother it does not mean she does not care about MeeHem and if Ahem is worried for Meera it does not mean that he does not care what happens to Gopi and her parents...we are so eager to paint one of them as a villian! the mind boggles! 😆

Originally posted by: MADHU.BARUN

School ka tho chodo sherry kam se kam she had a reason! But now? What does she think of herself? I mean come on no wife would like to see her mom slapping her husband for no reason?? Like deepa pointed out what if all this turns out to be dangerous? And as a father I don't see any reason for ahem to actually compromise on meera!!

eactually Madhu.. If Gopi really loves Ahem she respect him too so she has to say something to her mother.. this is wont be unbearable to see his mother slap has husband just bcoz he get his daughter back.. Im not agree with this that Gopi worried or else for mother a all.. Its ok.. But wht abt Ahem yaar why she not understand her worried n concren for his daughter.. 😕 Madhu any father never compromise on their child when he can see how become dangerous all for his child..

btw thanks to coming to defend Ahem along me.. Otherwise no one there to understand him or his feelings.. 😃 they all thought Gopi is Mahan or she always right like any way..

@Deepa so sorry but im not agree.. Dosent metter how u distraugh or worried for ur parents but in it how u would forget ur husband.. I know is to early to disscus all either we wont get Tomorow episode.. Beside.. Gopi hear wht Ahem said to Koki... She knew Ahem worried or she also know abt Ahem anger he move to get his daughter from her mother angerily if Koki wont grab him or stop him.. Then how Gopi send Meera or bring her towards her mother.. Dont she have respect of Ahem thoughts..

Sherry I would go to any length to defend ahem. Even when ahem might actually be wrong I can't see anything wrong then how come when he is for sure not wrong how will I even blame him.

Originally posted by: -GiNa-

@Deepa so sorry but im not agree.. Dosent metter how u distraugh or worried for ur parents but in it how u would forget ur husband.. I know is to early to disscus all either we wont get Tomorow episode.. Beside.. Gopi hear wht Ahem said to Koki... She knew Ahem worried or she also know abt Ahem anger he move to get his daughter from her mother angerily if Koki wont grab him or stop him.. Then how Gopi send Meera or bring her towards her mother.. Dont she have respect of Ahem thoughts..

I am totally agree with Sherry & Madhu!!
Not only meera is daughter of gopi she is daughter of Ahem also,he have full right over Meera,Any woman not tolerate any one slap her husband,I am want this time she stand with Ahem,but we know she never do that,she shead some tears for Ahem,& we know our Ahemjii say in filmy style i hate tears gopi in your eyes joke apart,gopi alway stand with majii,but this is the real time she stand also saathiya Ahemjii..When Ahem reliased her mistake he always stand with gopi,Every father love a daughter very much,after the birth of meera we alway see Ahem as protective & carring,loving father,then what Ahem was doing wrong.. We see Ahem not only not care that much for meera he also care for koki gopi & family also.. But this is real time to gopi speak for her Ahemjii,She always tell my Majii,but it is real time to tell my Ahem & stand for Ahemjii.. We know this is gopi,how can we accpect this at that time,i know,she always stand with his mother I am sure at that time gopi mother Kill Ahem { SO SORRY MY AHEMJII DEWANIS I AM ALSO LIKE THAT😭😭😭😭] ,gopi never say any thing she stand on a corner and shed tears only..😡🤢
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Originally posted by: -dipsy80-

we all know the show is about Gopi but once in a while it wont hurt to see things from Ahem's point of view as well Harini 😆...he has a short temper but Gopi has certain weaknesses too and I dont think we can expect either of them to be perfect...Gopi would be the first one to say that he is not selfish or silly.

If I remember correctly, he just told Koki that he is worried for Meera AND his mother in law and what is wrong in that? I dont remember him telling that they should not be allowed to stay there? Meera is just a one year old child and she wont understand what's going on...she was bawling her lungs out when Gopi's mother was literally smothering her...it's not Gopi's fault and it's not her mother's fault but it's not Ahem's fault either...before watching the entire scene why are we jumping to conclusions? It could very well be possible that both Gohem did not realize when Gopi's mother came to their room and took Meera while they were all asleep...you cannot fault Ahem for being worried...yes he is feeling uncomfortable but he will not yell at her mother for slapping him. Gopi's mother is not in her right state of mind and I actually agree that it is not safe...there were two other sane people but those sane people were asleep and they probably didnt even realize when Gopi's mother got Meera in the room...today she listened to Gopi and left Meera alone..what if tomorrow she refuses to listen to her too? she may just tell the Modis that they have no right to keep her daughter away from her and insist on taking her away..then what will they do? obviously Ahem does not know that very soon Gopi will sing a Kanhaji bhajan and his mother in law is going to be back to normal 😆...he just expressed his fear and that same fear was reflected even in Gopi and Koki...it's just that they did not say it...he is not angry just feeling agitated and scared when he sees her mother smother Meera like that..she may unintentionally even hurt her..it does not matter if it is just a day since she came or a year..she could do it any time..

he did not apologize for that slap he gave to Gopi but he got it back from Gopi when she was bedridden after the accident...

As far as the creche track is concerned yes Ahem was wrong in yelling at Gopi but after that Gopi asked Koki for one more chance and took it on herself...she was not forced then...and she could not stop Kinjal from doing the wrong thing of giving candies to children..it's not Gopi's fault but the fact is she could not stop Kinjal...it's a small thing but the fact is if the school had carried on Kinjal would have been doing what she wanted and Gopi would have just been struggling to make things work...Koki cannot be there for her everywhere...that is why she accepted that she made a mistake there..Ahem knows how Kinjal is..he was not angry with Gopi..he was angry that Kinjal was using Gopi and he probably wanted Gopi to not allow it..the first time Ahem could have stopped it but the second time Gopi took it on herself after seeing that Kinjal was no good at handling the school.

I think the fault right now is Gopi's father's...he is the only one who knew the risk he was taking by bringing Gopi's mother to MM. If he was unable to tell Gopi he should have told the Modis...and they could have been better prepared to handle the situation...they could have brought her to RN and Gopi could have gone to meet her there without Meera...

Dipsy, let me first say. Bravo girl 👏 Amazing piece of writing and beautifully argued.. What observation and the compelling inferences what to make me appreciate you more.. Well done⭐️

I am critical of Ahem Dipsy since he has stagnated for a long time now.. I agree with a lot of your observations barring a few but my inferences are a little different.

I agree with you that we should not draw conclusions before the scene is actually executed. Ahem's fear as a father, I cannot question but my only disappointment is his lack of trust in Gopi and also his need to do what he wants without thinking about consequences.

Yes. His Sasuma is out of her mind but except for that one moment when she hugged Meera, she has been stable enough. Ahem should let the psychiatrist he mentioned talking to once before plunging forward in his fear for Meera. What more, if only Ahem allows Gopi who has actually proven to be a better person in dealing with Madhu ben, the slap could have been avoided. This is where I call him an idiot. It happens because unfortunately Ahem is more a father now than the husband he was in between.

Now as much as I agree that Ahem would not make a big deal of the slap, I am happy that he got one from Gopi's mother. Karma is visiting him back in the right sense. And yes.. Gopi did accidentally slap him but she was apologetic immediately and horrified for that deed.
When Ahem slapped Gopi, he neither allowed her a chance to put forth her PoV nor has he ever looked back to apologize about it. Hence this slap from Gopi's mother makes it even , at least in my PoV. Like Gopi that day, Ahem will be unable to explain his actions and like Gopi that day he will have to take this slap and move on.. Hence my smile😃

Now lets talk about the creche business. Yes. I agree that Gopi was not completely equipped to do that job alone but unfortunately Ahem did nothing to help except give ultimums about taking care of things in the house and not interfering with the routine. Heck, is that called as support?

The creche plan was good. Kinjal was great at marketing and administration while Gopi was good with the kids. If Ahem really had understood his wife and sister, he would have given them some support in the form of personnel so that they were not so short staffed which ultimately led to the dwarf taking advantage. What Ahem did was complain from day one. He looked for mistakes and when he found them, made a big deal of it and closed shop siting mismanagement. I am disappointed in him. He should have done better.
If his real concern was Gopi, he would have helped her differently. Ahem's concern now is Meera and only her. It is not bad to be a father but that does not mean that one forgets being a husbanda wife needs for without Gopi, there is no Meera.

Now for his concern about his sasuma part. Yeah, I agree. He was worried, more for Meera and of course for Madhu ben.. But my goat is for the fact that he has not even seen it from Gopi's perspective once before voicing his fears. This girl has seen her mother after 20 years. Yes. Her mother is mentally unstable but like there is no guarantee that she would not harm Meera, there is no guarantee that she would either. The better thing would have been to make sure that Gopi handles her mother instead of trying things out himself. Meera cried and hence Madhu ben woke up to slap him😉..

I would not fault Gopi's father here. He was averse to staying in MM but the others insisted and think about it.. He has seen the daughter he lost after 20 long years. Give him a little consideration. Meera should be safe with so many people around for Madhu ben loves her as Gopi.. She will never let any harm come to that child ever.

I guess my biggest disappointment with Ahem is his lack of husbanding skills. The man is too much a father and too little a husband these days for me not to be critical. But as I said, your arguments were compulsive and a must read.. For that it was fun sparring with you a little😆

Take care Dipsy.. It was a great pleasure writing from a different PoV to someone who is so balanced in her views. Hats off again😊

I will be honest Harini...I have not even read your reply...I have realized that I am in a minority who refuses to burst crackers in happiness and pray that Ahem keeps getting slapped in the name of karma for having slapped Gopi and I also refuse to wage a war against Gopi because her mother slapped Ahem. I don't think Ahem is an insensitive husband and I don't believe that Gopi is an uncaring wife. I have realized that it's turning into gopi vs ahem in every track and though I am an Ahem fan, I happen to be a gohem fan too..sadly I don't see any gohem fans anymore. So I am going to stay far far away and just watch SNS quietly 😆