Originally posted by: Justlikethat1
I actually loved the slap😃
Good one Sasuma..👍🏼 Have longed for someone to slap Ahem atleast once for being so selfish and silly again.
When it comes to Koki, Ahem goes all out as we saw in the creche track. .he was horrible, shouting and blaming Gopi in front of everyone without seeing from her PoV.. So cannot the man see from Gopi's PoV about her mother and for once let the things settle down a little before going all out for Meera? BTW, that child is a year old and surely there are 2 other sane people in the room who would take care of her..
Ahem should stop being such an idiot. His fear is unfounded. It has not even been a day and like Gopi did when explaining calmly to her mother, they are umpteen other ways to get Meera to sleep with him in the room instead of plucking the child from a scared enough mother..
Ahem has never acknowledged or apologized for the slap he gave Gopi during that first year and has been insensitive after that except for a couple of circumstances.
Nice to see him get slapped.. Great going Gopi's family👏
we all know the show is about Gopi but once in a while it wont hurt to see things from Ahem's point of view as well Harini 😆...he has a short temper but Gopi has certain weaknesses too and I dont think we can expect either of them to be perfect...Gopi would be the first one to say that he is not selfish or silly.
If I remember correctly, he just told Koki that he is worried for Meera AND his mother in law and what is wrong in that? I dont remember him telling that they should not be allowed to stay there? Meera is just a one year old child and she wont understand what's going on...she was bawling her lungs out when Gopi's mother was literally smothering her...it's not Gopi's fault and it's not her mother's fault but it's not Ahem's fault either...before watching the entire scene why are we jumping to conclusions? It could very well be possible that both Gohem did not realize when Gopi's mother came to their room and took Meera while they were all asleep...you cannot fault Ahem for being worried...yes he is feeling uncomfortable but he will not yell at her mother for slapping him. Gopi's mother is not in her right state of mind and I actually agree that it is not safe...there were two other sane people but those sane people were asleep and they probably didnt even realize when Gopi's mother got Meera in the room...today she listened to Gopi and left Meera alone..what if tomorrow she refuses to listen to her too? she may just tell the Modis that they have no right to keep her daughter away from her and insist on taking her away..then what will they do? obviously Ahem does not know that very soon Gopi will sing a Kanhaji bhajan and his mother in law is going to be back to normal 😆...he just expressed his fear and that same fear was reflected even in Gopi and Koki...it's just that they did not say it...he is not angry just feeling agitated and scared when he sees her mother smother Meera like that..she may unintentionally even hurt her..it does not matter if it is just a day since she came or a year..she could do it any time..
he did not apologize for that slap he gave to Gopi but he got it back from Gopi when she was bedridden after the accident...
As far as the creche track is concerned yes Ahem was wrong in yelling at Gopi but after that Gopi asked Koki for one more chance and took it on herself...she was not forced then...and she could not stop Kinjal from doing the wrong thing of giving candies to children..it's not Gopi's fault but the fact is she could not stop Kinjal...it's a small thing but the fact is if the school had carried on Kinjal would have been doing what she wanted and Gopi would have just been struggling to make things work...Koki cannot be there for her everywhere...that is why she accepted that she made a mistake there..Ahem knows how Kinjal is..he was not angry with Gopi..he was angry that Kinjal was using Gopi and he probably wanted Gopi to not allow it..the first time Ahem could have stopped it but the second time Gopi took it on herself after seeing that Kinjal was no good at handling the school.
I think the fault right now is Gopi's father's...he is the only one who knew the risk he was taking by bringing Gopi's mother to MM. If he was unable to tell Gopi he should have told the Modis...and they could have been better prepared to handle the situation...they could have brought her to RN and Gopi could have gone to meet her there without Meera...