This is the ahem we all fell in love with!

Yea fighting for kokila, ,yelling at gopi were the common or frequent reactions from ahem in the beginning. Though we all felt bad I must say this is the ahem we loved! Superb episode and the best part was ahems rant and I must say both kinjal and gopi deserves it! It was not at all unreasonable

Hai madhu after long days writing on forum..🤗how are you dear?

In the same topic I already told so much in sherry post on ahem..ouch 😛looks like I am the only one who didn't like ahem's rant towards gopi...but whatever it is will never support or like it...because I don't feel it is always necessary to shout or rant on somebody when they are in fault...that gives no result actually...and for a husband like ahem who has done thousands of tortures in past ,and a wife like gopi who has challenged her life in fire,in bhooj or in front of snake...deserves better treatment in family...tell me one thing madhu, nobody is perfect ...if you do something wrong will you really like if your husband or boyfriend will scold you like that in front of everybody?

Basuuu🤗

Im super fine dear! How are you????

And coming to the topic! I found ahems reactions today were fair enough! I'll tell you why! Day one when gopi expressed her desire to send meera to school he was very much displeased but in front of koki he didn't show that displeasure. He was like do whatever is right! Then the school thing he was indeed warning or cautioning gopi from the beginning. Though gopi who actually isn't completely at fault today I found that she needs to be practical. Yes ahem ranting in front of family isn'tgood but gopi was careless. If my project file is torn because of an adult who is sensible I wouldn't like it. I would probably scold the same way! Not because of hatred but out of displeasure and pressure!

Ahem has come way far from what he was in the beginning and gopi surely does have a respectable position in the family! Gohems past needs to be sorted out but definitely ahem wasn't unreasonable today! I feel😃😛

Well I can completely understand what you want to say...gopi needs to open her mouth and say no...and needs to be practical, but that's how gopi is, that is her nature everybody knows that...I know that needs to change really...but now regarding this matter...my points are...

1) gopi thought to send meera play school but why? It was her insecurity and dark past which haunted her, but sorry to say ahem was also quite responsible for that..how can he do such a insensitive comment about laptop and meera washing mobile? I mean really? Isn't that the comparison started between meera and gopi?😕

2) If gopi wants to send meera school did ahem as a husband ever wanted to know what is actually in her mind? Did he think rationally why suddenly gopi started feeling that? No he failed to understand gopi's mind and that also so obvious point...all gopi needed was somebody sit and explain her where is she wrong and what is the difference between meera and her educational life...But no ...nobody is interested in that

3) now coming to school , if it is that wrong koki and ahem should have told straight no...gopi had no courage to cross that...koki agreed after baa and hetal and all others permission...

4) What happened in school, gopi is not responsible for that...if kohem was that worried they could have arranged a better school before...there is no point in throwing all responsibilities to somebody and then pointing her fault...

5) Now kinjal's school, gopi agreed to help kinjal ..that is her fault? Why? But that time koki and all finally gave permission, gopi happily started it...why not ahem take little responsibility and think about his own sister more rationally.just accusing others and throwing blame doesn't bring anything...you need to work on it...gopi was trying to work on it...first she told also Kinjal that it was not possible...but she didn't want Kinjal to loose her confidence,how is that wrong? Anything when you start first it brings problems and lot of mess...but that does not mean we don't try anything new...

What I feel ahem as a husband and a father needs to be more patient,sensitive while talking and to take some rational movements to bring his own sisters life on track...instead of saying whatever you think mom...

And yes project files if torn it is really upsetting and irritating,and people do react the same way..but that is really very sad for others who face it...because again nobody is perfect...and specially in this incidence gopi who is under so much pressure...is not totally in fault...

Ahem is responsible for gopis dark past! I agree but never did gopi give him a clue about it! He should understand it? If I were in ahems place even I wouldn't have had any clue as I would feel things are sorted out. Yes they need an apology but like we all cvs leave everything. Comparing meera and gopi was definitely for fun. Intentionally ahem will never hurt gopi! If he did hurt her it should definitely be unintentionally! I feel gopi is dumb for her insecurities. Hehe don't bash me. Cmon meera ia ahems daughter too why on earth would he let her be an illiterate! One has to understand the situation and also people associated with it. I'm sure gopi didn't. I basically didn't like the fact that gopi wants to trouble meera for getting educated. Yes its necessary but not from 1 year! Not even in my dreams I would have thought that gopis reason behind sendin meera to school was her past. So I don't blame ahem! Starting something new always cause problems I accept that. ahem is not a kind of person who says a no to gopis wish. Take it to be aachars business or whatsoever. Today if koki would have fallen down its kinjals mistake and if kinjal is able to something then its gopis fault! So I didn't mind. For how long kohem has to speak for gopi. She is a mother she needs to speak up. I don't believe in the concept of understanding everything by oneself. You need to tell them what you want and why! I would rather blame koki as despite knowing gopis fears. But ahem needs to understand and all I don't think its possible to that extent in real life and that is why I love ahem!!

To be honest ... I liked seeing the old ahem 😆