||DOTW|| Honesty - a neccessary virtue? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

I agree to a certain extent about Rashi Xari.. She did start out being clear as to what she wanted. I will not fault her for wanting financially settled groom and a luxurious house.. To be frank, that is what most dream of or atleast look for when they get married..especially in an arranged marriage.

But the fact is, was Rashi completely honest to even herself that this is all she needed? I do not think so.
If all she needed was a luxurious family and a Lallu husband, rest be assured, she got it.. But she is not ready to see that. She is bent on ruining what Gopi has more than wanting something for herself.

If she was totally honest with herself would she have not seen that she got what she said and dreamed she wanted.. But it looks like she never sees this. She always looks at Gopi and wants what she has.. Even if that is not what she, Rashi needs or wants actually.

As for Hetal and Jigar, I totally agree.. There is something called as a sweet poison.. One can be sure of one's enemies but can never be sure of the sugary sweet, sucking up person next to you. .They are neither honest to themselves or to you..

Unfortunately I don't see the honesty in any of their relationships coming out in anyway either..

There used to be a time when I considered that Ahem was being too harsh on Jigar but then I realize that Ahem never did have everything on a silver spoon and hence he did not share Jigar's nonchalant attitude towards life and work. Atleast Ahem was honest that he was not impressed with his younger brother even for a minute😊

If one looks at it, all those who actually worked for their relationship and strived to be at the place they are now are actually the ones who have been honest in their relationships.

Koki had to make up working in the family and taking over its running when her husband did not contribute to the family's running. She worked long and hard. Ahem did the same. He worked to keep his mom's dream alive and made it his dream too..
He may not be the most jovial person to be around but he was and is still hardworking, smart, and totally loyal to his family. Look at Gopi.. She worked to be accepted as a wife and a DIL and her hardwork paid off..

Compare these to Jigar, Hetal and Rashi.. Jigar lets face it, got everything on a platter. His dad was the Modi head, his mom was loving and they could give him everything. Why would he ever have had to work?
His elder cousin worked hard enough to keep his father and support his dad in business. The will of course let him be the owner of one half of the Modi business without him trying. Why did he need to be bad tempered at all. His life was set.

Hetal had a house keeper cum Jethani who may be loud and obnoxious but got things done. I still remember during the batwara track when all Chirag kept asking was "Hetal yeh sab kya hai?"
If Hetal and CHirag were really that caring, they would not have let just Ahem go around trying to find Kinjal's runaway lover.. Chirag would not have said "Do what you have to but don't lets have a tamasha"


I find one thing though.. When RaJi fight about something really bad in their married life, they cannot solve it by themselves at all. Gopi or GoHem always help them to tide over the biggest issues in their life while GoHem sort their life out themselves..
Now KinWal are fighting their own battle, That is how a good hubby - wife relationship should be. The minute you need a third party to mediate then there is no honesty in the relationship at all🥱

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Unfortunately I don't see the honesty in any of their relationships coming out in anyway either..

There used to be a time when I considered that Ahem was being too harsh on Jigar but then I realize that Ahem never did have everything on a silver spoon and hence he did not share Jigar's nonchalant attitude towards life and work. Atleast Ahem was honest that he was not impressed with his younger brother even for a minute😊

If one looks at it, all those who actually worked for their relationship and strived to be at the place they are now are actually the ones who have been honest in their relationships.

Koki had to make up working in the family and taking over its running when her husband did not contribute to the family's running. She worked long and hard. Ahem did the same. He worked to keep his mom's dream alive and made it his dream too..
He may not be the most jovial person to be around but he was and is still hardworking, smart, and totally loyal to his family. Look at Gopi.. She worked to be accepted as a wife and a DIL and her hardwork paid off..

Compare these to Jigar, Hetal and Rashi.. Jigar lets face it, got everything on a platter. His dad was the Modi head, his mom was loving and they could give him everything. Why would he ever have had to work?
His elder cousin worked hard enough to keep his father and support his dad in business. The will of course let him be the owner of one half of the Modi business without him trying. Why did he need to be bad tempered at all. His life was set.

Hetal had a house keeper cum Jethani who may be loud and obnoxious but got things done. I still remember during the batwara track when all Chirag kept asking was "Hetal yeh sab kya hai?"
If Hetal and CHirag were really that caring, they would not have let just Ahem go around trying to find Kinjal's runaway lover.. Chirag would not have said "Do what you have to but don't lets have a tamasha"


I find one thing though.. When RaJi fight about something really bad in their married life, they cannot solve it by themselves at all. Gopi or GoHem always help them to tide over the biggest issues in their life while GoHem sort their life out themselves..
Now KinWal are fighting their own battle, That is how a good hubby - wife relationship should be. The minute you need a third party to mediate then there is no honesty in the relationship at all🥱

I think yes Dipsy.. That is what I think will happen. You see, Gopi is always there to keep the fights from getting out of hand. She has the bandaid to fix the wound.

Ahem is there and he would not let the business go down even if Jigar never pulls his weight. So Rashi will not have any less comfort or money. Jigar will always run to his 'Bhabhi' crying if there is a problem in his relationship and Gopi will be Gopi and help him out🤢

You see why I want CBP to walk out? They will keep giving and giving while MBP will keep use them and then discard them at the time of their need

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

I think yes Dipsy.. That is what I think will happen. You see, Gopi is always there to keep the fights from getting out of hand. She has the bandaid to fix the wound.

Ahem is there and he would not let the business go down even if Jigar never pulls his weight. So Rashi will not have any less comfort or money. Jigar will always run to his 'Bhabhi' crying if there is a problem in his relationship and Gopi will be Gopi and help him out🤢

You see why I want CBP to walk out? They will keep giving and giving while MBP will keep use them and then discard them at the time of their need

Maybe Dipsy, it is because CBP are not honest themselves about their relationship with MBP.

Koki should be honest and look back to see if Mota Bhabhi really does love her like her sister or if it is all words and nothing else. If she does that she will see where she stands in this relationship.

If Gopi can be honest and look at her relationship with her Maami and Rashi then she will see the truth too. If Ahem is honest and follows his real instincts instead of being led by Gopi's words, however good intentioned they are, he will see how Gopi is being treated by UrShi..

It is not the MBP alone but Koki and GoHem too who are dishonest when it comes to their relationship with MBP. All three have I think a heightened sense of gratitude.. Gopi because she thinks she would be dead if not for her Maami and Rashi ben and Koki because she thinks if Mota Bhabhi had not been there, she and her family would have been nothing..

Ahem because he considers his Kaka to be his mentor and the father figure he always wanted his dad to be.. Their weakness has become MBPs strength.
All three will be used unless they take a good look and sever ties from this family of blood suckers who are taking it all and leaving nothing behind🥱

Deepa... honesty is hmm a hard topic i will try to come bak and comment further...

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Maybe Dipsy, it is because CBP are not honest themselves about their relationship with MBP.

Koki should be honest and look back to see if Mota Bhabhi really does love her like her sister or if it is all words and nothing else. If she does that she will see where she stands in this relationship.

If Gopi can be honest and look at her relationship with her Maami and Rashi then she will see the truth too. If Ahem is honest and follows his real instincts instead of being led by Gopi's words, however good intentioned they are, he will see how Gopi is being treated by UrShi..

It is not the MBP alone but Koki and GoHem too who are dishonest when it comes to their relationship with MBP. All three have I think a heightened sense of gratitude.. Gopi because she thinks she would be dead if not for her Maami and Rashi ben and Koki because she thinks if Mota Bhabhi had not been there, she and her family would have been nothing..

Ahem because he considers his Kaka to be his mentor and the father figure he always wanted his dad to be.. Their weakness has become MBPs strength.
All three will be used unless they take a good look and sever ties from this family of blood suckers who are taking it all and leaving nothing behind🥱

Originally posted by: Deepikz

Deepa... honesty is hmm a hard topic i will try to come bak and comment further...

Dipsy, as much as I agree that Gopi has secrets from Koki and Ahem, I do not believe that her relationship with them is dishonest.