||DOTW|| Honesty - a neccessary virtue? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Post the SS Xari😊 It would be awesome wouldn't it if Gopi got angry?

It is really no surprise that Gopi does not let others who are in a worse position than her be bullied while she has this immense sense of dilemma when it comes to those who can stand up for themselves, meaning Koki and Ahem.. it is not that Gopi does not support them.. remember a similar arrest when Koki was accused of hurting Rashi physically after she was thrown out? Gopi was the one who made Rashi see the dangerous nature of her allegations.

But when it comes to her own hurt ,she cares naught. She lets UrShi walk all over her..

But with Koki helpless in Jail and Ahem most probably in distress because even the commissioner is unwilling to help, will not Gopi find it in her to stand up and expose Urmi atleast this time? Rashi escapes her past sins but I think Urmi, who Gopi fears will not escape this time because her Maaji is in deep trouble?

BTW, how does Koki come out to celebrate Holi if the truth is not out? Guess Urmi makes the nurse take back her statement🤢 I just wish Urmi is paraded publicly and shamed for all that she is doing😡

Really Xari and Dipsy.. Today was a perfect example of how twisted the CVs logic is.. There is Kinjal, involved in what we would say is a friendly neighboring gossip about Urmi😉 And there is Dhawal, ready to call Kinjal out for her 'badtameezi'

I mean, does Dhawal even have the honesty to tell Kinjal what is wrong? What kinda trust does he expect from her? A blind one like his sister Gopi and like the one Jigar has for Rashi?

Was not Kinjal honest enough in her relationship with him? Why is it that their relationship is just not going in the right direction. At first Kinjal was honest to tell Dhawal that she loathes him and his status. Later as she realized that she does not, she has been frank enough with him and even with Falguni, she was honest to tell both Dhawal and Falguni about her suspicions.. She never accused Dhawal mind you.. She just was suspicious of Falguni who actually had told her (even if it was pretense) that she loved Dhawal.

But this is not honesty to Dhawal. He thinks blind trust is So what is it with honesty and SNS?

Xari, I completely agree.. SNS propagates dishonesty is the best policy. Maybe Kinjal should not have been honest and should have found another way to harm Falguni and threaten her off.. Like maybe Dhawal's esteemed Fui Urmila🤢 She was too honest and hence she suffers😭

So, as I feared SNS is promoting dishonesty in a big way 🤢...I dont watch any other show but I am appalled at the way relationships are being taken for granted in this show and yet they survive and thrive without any remorse or retribution 😭. I understand that Gopi has been abused and suppressed all her life by Urshi, she is used to being blamed and punished for mistakes committed by them. She has never received any love in her childhood and so she may have created illusions of love and gratitude towards Urshi, who were the only family she knew. But there is a huge difference between Gopi of the past and who she is now. Today, she is a daughter, a wife and a mother and she gets love and trust from all these relationships. We have seen her grow and get educated. Now, she needs to get out of Urshi's emotional shackles and see them for what they are. Somewhere, she is still trying to hold on to the belief that they are her family and love her. Her face shines every time Urshi pretend to be loving towards her and it makes me go 🤢. The CVs have shown Gopi being aware of Urshi's role in kks. It's coming to a point where all the fake relationships in MM are surviving because of Gopi's illusions about Urshi 😭

Dipsy, the way relationships are projected in every serial is this similar.. The 'good ones' are always sacrificing their self respect and morals when it comes to their own blood and relatives and they are shown justifying it too in the name of the great good for all😡 Generally every serial has someone acting like they are God and take decisions for a collective unit. I wonder who gives them that authority? What is collective good anyway?

CVs you see have a twisted concept of the greater good. It is more to do with how men want to perceive woman. It is like in the movies of 1930's and 1940s.. the heroine will be the self sacrificing woman who sheds loads of tears but takes lots of c*** from everyone around and the entire society finally builds a temple for her. Woman like Kokila who stand up against injustice were touted as loud mouth and over bearing.. No temple for her😆 And then there are villains who do nothing but the male falls at their feet, listens to the tantrums and is forever waiting at their doorstep. These are actual villains of course and we love to hate them but these villains escape in the end because there is the generous tear shedding heroine who 'forgives' them😡

Now SNS does the same thing. The only saving grace is that they show Gopi guilty of lying to her family when she lies. She does not cocky and all Mahaan about lying for the 'greater good'.. She understands that she is doing injustice and a great folly and like she broke down in front of her husband, she also breaks down but yet cannot stop her compulsive nature to save the bad guys🤢


20 years of brainwashing cannot be fixed in 2 years Dipsy.. Gopi needs a psychiatrist. Really. Neither Ahem nor Kokila have it in them to get her out of her Stockholm's syndrome. She needs to visit a psychiatrist quick and then maybe she will remove those rose tinted glasses that seem to show her that her Rashi ben is a milk sucking child and Urmi maami is the next mother Teresa😕


The gross injustice of all this is when the truth comes out about Urmi and someone, someone is going to say "Kokila, Holi Hai.. Java Dena"🤢

It is not like MB was arrested and paraded through the hospital and put in jail. It is not like Nikki and SB took time off to bring a wheat grinding stone to taunt you😡😡
None of the serial CVs have an iota of sense.. To let evil win so much is completely puke worthy and you know what, they have done this just to hide Rashi's obvious lies about Koki trying to kill her children.. With Urmi's KK, we are supposed to forget that and concentrate on Urmi and her misdeeds🤢

so we know Rashi's dishonesty is for selfish reasons and Gopi's is for the greater good...but how much dishonesty is acceptable? now we have a situation again where Urmi has got Koki into trouble and Gopi is the only one who knows..and Urmi did it deliberately as Gopi rightly said..the culprit had 2 intentions - to know the gender of the unborn twins and to trap Koki..I love the Gopi of today who has her claws out to defend her mother just like Koki has always done for her. Whether Koki needs her confession to come out of jail or not, Gopi needs to reveal Urmi's hand in this..will she do it? I have a feeling that again to maintain the fake sense of happiness in MM, Gopi, for the greater good may not reveal the truth..(CVs surely cant be thinking of putting Urmi in jail! 😆). So can we again accept Gopi hiding the truth (that is, if she does...please CVs prove me wrong!)

Dipsy, A lie is a lie whether told for greater good or not. .It never matters. A lie is a lie. Hiding the truth, however good your intentions are, is still hiding the truth, plain and simple.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Dipsy, A lie is a lie whether told for greater good or not. .It never matters. A lie is a lie. Hiding the truth, however good your intentions are, is still hiding the truth, plain and simple.

This time around Gopi should not hide the truth. It does not matter whether Koki gets out or not. The fact is that until Urmi is exposed, Koki will still be taunted won't she? Unless the real culprit is caught, will not the likes of Nikki and SB use this one arrest to leer at Koki?😡😡

My wish is that Gopi reveal the truth. As per the spoiler that is what she tries to do too.. Last time it was Rashi and her pregnancy.. This time Urmi may get a heart attack and stop Gopi🤢 That is what the CVs do..

Apart from the whole lot of lies and deceits, UrShi luck out everytime and they somehow escape..

But to me even if Urmi is on a death bed, I want her to be shamed and defamed.. I want people to scorn her... It may be cruel but I want her cited as a example for anything that a person should not be by all.. 😡

The problem is Dipsy, the Modis are all so blind and extremely generous.

what happened in the name of honesty today? I am so confused with Urmi's mithai kk and even Modis supporting her! 😕😕😕...something tells me that inspite of all the threats Gopi will not or wont be able to tell Koki the truth about Urmi...if it goes on like this some honest relationships like Goki and Gohem will start showing cracks 😭😭😭

Dipsy, it is rather horrible to show that one gets away with all like Urmi does.. And it is still more pathetic to show the Modi's appreciating the dishonesty and call it 'clever' and 'smart'