Rashi and gopi...my view... - Page 2

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Lovely Anasuya👏 That is just an awesome post⭐️⭐️

Everytime Gopi is shown to be too good, I feel like shaking her but then later I think how hard it would have been for someone to be constantly smiling even when they are in pain just because they are afraid. Gopi, the orphan has 20 years of torture to wind back on. Her husband and MIL may love her today but that has been for what 1.5 years, 2 years? But what about before that. The tortures, the loveless life.. No, Gopi is too afraid that she will have no one to become selfish. I believe that we all have Gopi in one part of us. At times we do react as selfless as she does.. We have our vices but on situations we do become Gopi.. Gopi just does it all the time😊

As for Rashi, I am just tired of hearing that she should be given a break. From what? I need a break from her projecting herself as the victim all the time. The fact that she cries and has tears everytime something goes wrong does not make her pitiable. the truth is, why does she fear that she will be suspected?

Well the answer is clear. She was the cause of so many similar problems for the past 2 years in MM. Just because she does not physically harm others now does not mean that she is correct. Why would anyone believe her when they know her nature, her spite and her childishness?

The thing that I find the most irritating is that. You cannot be an adamant child forever. Rashi is 24-25 now. Isn't it time she grows up? The lack of that is no excuse and her tears are nothing but methods to gain pity. Everytime she puts on a sorry face, the entire MM except Koki feel for her and tell Koki not to say anything further. The fact is, when will she ever learn then?😕

The Rashi we saw yesterday was the same one who did not think once before pretending to want a child just to make her MIL feel sorry for her and to get out of work. Even yesterday there was truth in what Jigar said in anger.

I agree with you. If we forgive Rashi, it is like forgiving a war criminal because they made a million dollar donation to charity. that does not make them a good person. All the best to Rashi from my end too. Maybe one day she will actually realize she is wrong

Originally posted by: dipsy80

what an awesome post Anasuya! 👏👏👏...well i have never sympathized with Rashi's plight though I did feel that Jigar was a bit harsh..but then again though he pointed out in a harsh manner, what he said was not wrong..i have a feeling Jigar's patience is coming to an end..he is really losing it quite often.

The problem with Rashi is as Swasthi pointed out.. that she does not know her own mind...its very strange that inspite of being an educated adult, she is just unable to grasp the basic realities of life! right now she wants a baby as Urmi is pressurizing her, there is peer pressure and she sees having a baby as a means to escape from household chores. This inane idea of making her taking care of a puppy will only make things worse as she will feel further victimized and she never gets the right ideas when she is in that frame of mind 🤢.

Gopi on the other hand, as you rightly pointed out, has been conditioned to obey. But then too, she has grown up around Urshi yet surprisingly she did not get influenced by them. She sticks to the right path even if it brings her pain. But I dont appreciate her remaining meek and silent when it comes to Meera. I didnt like it when she watched silently as Urshi kept tossing Meera to each other as the poor child was woken up by Urmi and crying. But its early days still so hopefully we will see Gohem bonding more with little Meera😊.

Originally posted by: scarlet167

Superb superb post anasuya. ..very well analyzed. Gopi is getting this unconditional love from kohem only because of her faith and patience and above all her unconditional love for them which was never given by rashi. Jigars anger is very much justified..unless rashi changes she deserves this treatment