Rashi and gopi...my view...

GOPI...

...let us first think about gopi,...she was an orphan...from beginning she was treated by urmi and rashi like a trash, every time they made her feel alone, unwanted and helpless...they diid not educate her because that could make her independant and agaist them...they tortured her Mentally and physically...what she could do? How she could know to give harsh answer or prompt excuse...????she has never got a chance to become like you or me...so she is bought up different...so she learnt to live with her one and only friend kanhaji from childhood, that was the only place where she could find peace of life...then suddenly she got married...what she never thought in dream also, she got that type of family and husband, that was beyond her imagination...the serial started with that idea only...what they want from life? While gopi wants nothing and nothing but love, care and true family...so after she got married she saw a mother in koki which she never got in life...but it was not that easy...did u forget those days, where koki used to give punishments for each and every small fault which actually was made by rashi and thrown to gopi by plan...I know so many incidents ...even gopi got punishments of getting closed in a room, taking vows back, getting scolded by ahem for laptop, necklace, letter etcetc ( no one was her fault, either rashi or kinjal)...,but the girl did not loss hope...because she just wanted to gain love...that's it...and she has no lust of material things...that's why we feel her goody...but actually more that goody it was situation which made her like that...so with her works, with her behavior she won kohem's heart...and now she got a position in that house with her hard work, her honesty and her true love...not any short cheap tricks...and hard work really pays off so now she got strongest position in mm ...👏, because she is not good but she does not know how to become bad...

RASHI...

Now rashi, what she wanted from life? She had parents, house...she had a normal life what she didnot have was wealth, money and comfort of life,...so she wanted these all from life...and a greedy mother like urmi...so all they did a kalakaari to get married with a rich guy, though it was like ruining other girls life...but they don't care...what they care is money, comfort becoming queen...that is fine.no problem in that, anybody has right to want that, but how????? By breaking another girls marriage? If your mother advise also????rashi is not uneducated? What education gives you just a degree? No it gives you the power to understand good and bad, wrong and correct... Then after marriage what happens next? She needs to work, she needs to cook, she needs to look after family...ohh but rashi expected she is going to be a queen, she did not know there is koki...she thought gopi like before will be Gawar, servant like...and she will make her do everything...but that was not happening...so what she did? She started to work? Are you kidding? She started to plot how to break sister's marriage? How to make differences between gohem? How to make gopi punished? And after every plotting and tears of gopi she gets fun, she laughs, she enjoys...excuse me...is she kid? Her mother tells and she destroys others life, peace and family.? No...she is not, all she wanted just to cheer in life, physical comfort ...and her husband used to Almost beg for love, she just use to ignore and throw him if he used to bring cheap present...that was rashi...everyday one new plotting, every time we hope rashi will understand , she will learn but no...once everybody in mm came to know and threw her out, it was gopi for whom she came back...but it was not important to her, she started to feel bad that nobody giving her importance??? What?what she did? If it was other family they could never bring her back...it was modis who are too sweet and good, obeys family values...it was jigar who was still in live after rashi's cheating and pretend love also...and now she is claiming she became good?? When? Just because she felt concerned two three times about them and helped koki for gopi two three times? That any neighbour will also do...she needs to realize, understand and feel family, love from her heart...today also she was ready to hold meera because she does not need to serve food to others...means only to save herself from works...that's it...she wants baby because everybody has it, because she need not do any work, she can take rest full 9 months...so is she ready for baby really???? May be jigar was hyper, but it was a small incident which made jigar burst...but actually it was not wrong...if rashi can say jigar impotent then why can't jigar say her irresponsible?? It was just word...word of anger..he did not mean but if he mean also is it wrong!

Sometime I see post here , there is nobody like gopi...rashi is real...how? I don't understand...how can be someone real who destroys others life...terrorists also has a moto and mission but rashi does not have any cause to go wrong...koki? Because koki says her to work? Koki scolds her for small small things?well...rashi is wrong most of the times, and that does not justifies rashi's stupid kalakaaris...if someone's house get burn by fire, that does not give her right to burn others house...that is ridiculous ...so she does not need any lesson plan and class for becoming mother, all she needs is to understand where she is going wrong in her life? In her words why she is only becoming victim? Because what goes around that comes around,,.so rashi modi u have a long way to go...and remember koki is not your enemy, she cannot see you in trouble, did u forget she has send her beloved bahu when you were kidnapped? Did u forget she always helped when u are in trouble...so she does not hate you, she hates your works, your actions, your pretend concern and your lies...how quickly you can lie? She hates your qualities...so once you really feel your fault, no urmi can change your visibility...and koki will be first one who will want you to be a mother...so get the right direction...and win others heart...and best of luck for that...I wish you a grand success and purified life 👍🏼

Everytime Gopi is shown to be too good, I feel like shaking her but then later I think how hard it would have been for someone to be constantly smiling even when they are in pain just because they are afraid. Gopi, the orphan has 20 years of torture to wind back on. Her husband and MIL may love her today but that has been for what 1.5 years, 2 years? But what about before that. The tortures, the loveless life.. No, Gopi is too afraid that she will have no one to become selfish. I believe that we all have Gopi in one part of us. At times we do react as selfless as she does.. We have our vices but on situations we do become Gopi.. Gopi just does it all the time😊

As for Rashi, I am just tired of hearing that she should be given a break. From what? I need a break from her projecting herself as the victim all the time. The fact that she cries and has tears everytime something goes wrong does not make her pitiable. the truth is, why does she fear that she will be suspected?

Well the answer is clear. She was the cause of so many similar problems for the past 2 years in MM. Just because she does not physically harm others now does not mean that she is correct. Why would anyone believe her when they know her nature, her spite and her childishness?

The thing that I find the most irritating is that. You cannot be an adamant child forever. Rashi is 24-25 now. Isn't it time she grows up? The lack of that is no excuse and her tears are nothing but methods to gain pity. Everytime she puts on a sorry face, the entire MM except Koki feel for her and tell Koki not to say anything further. The fact is, when will she ever learn then?😕

The Rashi we saw yesterday was the same one who did not think once before pretending to want a child just to make her MIL feel sorry for her and to get out of work. Even yesterday there was truth in what Jigar said in anger.

I agree with you. If we forgive Rashi, it is like forgiving a war criminal because they made a million dollar donation to charity. that does not make them a good person. All the best to Rashi from my end too. Maybe one day she will actually realize she is wrong

The problem with Rashi is as Swasthi pointed out.. that she does not know her own mind...its very strange that inspite of being an educated adult, she is just unable to grasp the basic realities of life! right now she wants a baby as Urmi is pressurizing her, there is peer pressure and she sees having a baby as a means to escape from household chores. This inane idea of making her taking care of a puppy will only make things worse as she will feel further victimized and she never gets the right ideas when she is in that frame of mind 🤢.

Gopi on the other hand, as you rightly pointed out, has been conditioned to obey. But then too, she has grown up around Urshi yet surprisingly she did not get influenced by them. She sticks to the right path even if it brings her pain. But I dont appreciate her remaining meek and silent when it comes to Meera. I didnt like it when she watched silently as Urshi kept tossing Meera to each other as the poor child was woken up by Urmi and crying. But its early days still so hopefully we will see Gohem bonding more with little Meera😊.

Thank you so much for taking time to read it,...😛

Thanks aastha😃

Sherry big 🤗from me too ...thanks for your valuable comments...

Thank you swasthi , my pleasure you liked it...you are absolutely right...rashi needs to find herself...