Rashi

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Sherry, what a nice post⭐️

Rashi is changing. There is no doubt about it. Her change is so slow and sometimes her jealousy so huge that you miss the change in her. She is still a lot more petty and jealous but she has in the due course of time grown some conscience now and then. It comes up more often now than before and I think Rashi's need to make Ahem hate Gopi is now gone. She is fine with that and that is a good change.

Her change will be this slow and I actually do not want her to change into a person she is not. Just some empathy and sympathy to her sasural and add to it a bit of moral will go a long way.

Urmi's clutches on Rashi , we all know. We also know that Rashi comes out of her clutches whenever it suits her and then she goes back when it suits her. Actually I think it is a conscious decision from Rashi to follow her mom's ill advises knowing that they are not correct. She does it because it suits her purpose and so for that, Nope. I do no just think it is Urmi. Yes. Urmi is bad but Rashi pretends to be good while she backstabs. That is worse.

Compared as two people Urmi is worser than Rashi. Compared in relationships, Rashi as a DIL has a closer relationship than Urmi to the Modis. I think and want Rashi to be a little more attuned and a little more caring towards them😊

Originally posted by: -GiNa-

well Harini actually ur right... Rashi knows everything but her jealousy so huge..that she forget her own self...my problem with its just that..if kinjal be so nice with Modi's n understand everything so why not Rashi...why after jigar words she make realized her mistake.. why?? being a bahu u have to show some sympathy afterall they are ur's In Laws.. and gopi is ur sister dammit..😡 or Ahem.. he ur Sister husband... ur husband's elder bhai.. how even u say that abt him??🤢 i know rashiis a very selffish kind a woman.. one side she feel sympathy and other side he will be normal again 😡 which thing i hated in rashi...<<<😡

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

The fact is Sherry, you do not form an emotional connect unless you really want to and to Rashi's defence, they have been married for just 2.5 years. Some people just consider their in laws as family immediately. To Rashi, it never has been that case.

Her way of being brought up played a role while her own vices finished the rest. She cannot empathize with others. She loves to play victim herself because the attention is on her.

Sometimes, you just have to step outside that "Iam, me" attitude. This time it was Jigar's comment about how disgusting her thought process was that made her realize that she over stepped the line. She listened to Jigar which is a big thing. Last year, this time, Jigar's hurt had no bearing with her except that she was worried what would happen to her if Jigar said the truth.

That is a change. And maybe by the end of SNS, there will be some changes that make Rashi more likable and show her connect more with others than to herself😊

Originally posted by: ANJ4

Rashi is learning also while at MM... but that mother of hers is awful...even if rashi doesn't want to do it ... urmila will talk rashi into it.

Originally posted by: dipsy80

I am still not convinced about Rashi changing Sherry ..the only time she has actually done anything right without expecting anything in return was in the neelam track...not good enough to negate all the pain she has caused..yes she is with the Modis since only 2 years and its only now that Koki is not as harsh with her (her being harsh was justified) as before but what about Gopi? she has been with Gopi all her life and leave alone love she never even felt sympathetic towards her..the only time she is supportive is when Gopi is down in the dumps. The moment Gopi is happy, she does not like it..i dont call that improvement 🤢..if she does the right thing when Gopi is happy and does not create trouble just due to jealousy over Gopi's happiness, that's when I will believe she has improved 😒

Originally posted by: -GiNa-

Deepa.. Im agree with..or actually my point in exactually as u said... When her own sister in trouble she cant even for ones come from her n trying to console her.. But when this get happy so rashi is fist one who getting jealous.. If kinjal doing all this so why not her... Rashi never ever improved dear her mummy with her... Rashi got woke up when jigar realize her... How disgusting she is n her thinking..but before..she is with her mummy patheticness n crying for her anniversary n celebrations...called all this Nautanki 😡 ur right rashi desevered koki hursh works n scolding..fully justified by koki..only koki knows rashi n urmi real faces in MM 😛 like Harini said still rashi didnt consider modi's her family so.. Kaha se she gets sympathyies for them...😕 jub koki feelings hi nahi tu sympathy ka tu swaal hi nahi paida hota...😡