DevNa Appreciation Thread #5!!! - Page 19

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Thanks Deepz. I love that gesture and also when she waddles around the room. I am so wishing for Ahem to tease her about that. 😳

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Thanks Deepz. I love that gesture and also when she waddles around the room. I am so wishing for Ahem to tease her about that. 😳

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

That is the problem with Rashi. Her world centers around her and she expects everybody else's world also to center around her. She should atleast let the others have their own choices.

But if they do she gets angry and comes back to do some harm The girl cannot be changed. I think this punishment of Koki is not working. It makes Gopi more and more concerned for Rashi while Rashi becomes more and more her own self

Originally posted by: Deepikz

One thing i do not get is why Koki said Gopi did the rangoli when its Rashi who did it is this part of her plan too😕

Rashi is finally taking in some other pplz ideas besides her mums😃. I would of like it if she thought it her self but its good at least its the thought that counts...

This is true Gopi will be concered where Rashi goes bak to following her mum blindly

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Deepz, we had a big discussion about it. Look at Basu's reply to Madhu's post

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3291739

But to make it short, I think Koki wants Rashi to realize that Gopi is not helping her because she wants to upstage her. Rather Gopi loves Rashi and expects nothing in return.

If Rashi atleast acknowledged Gopi's favor in her room, then we can say that she actually respects Gopi. But Rashi thinks that she needs to do something because she wants to upstage Gopi. This will only lead to more issues. Remember the fighting started because of Rashi's irritation that Gopi was ordering her about.

So Koki is trying to show Rashi that in a family, it is not 'me' that matters but rather 'us'. Just like Rashi did not think a minute about taking Gopi's credit as her own, she needs to understand that the same can be done vice versa too. So when Gopi does not do it, give the credit where credit is due.

Plus I think Gopi will stop Koki and then say that Rashi did the rangoli. Rashi will see that it does not take away the credit rather adds to it when one speaks the truth and learns to care and share. This is what I hope will happen, atleast😊

Originally posted by: basuanasuya

Deepika for you once again posting it

I am with koki too, how many days ,how many times one mature person can be scolded, rashi is no kid, what she is complaining to jigar , she should grateful to gopi but without that she just took the credit of gopi and then also she is saying all happens to me only😲

Her faults,

1. She tried to buy all cheap things and sweets changing just only to get a saree or money😡, is a saree or money that important in our life?

2. She spoiled sweets just after realizing that is bad, not that she is concern about everybody's health, all that she needs to work if everybody unwell, how childish that is?😲

3. She did mistake and when koki told her kanjoos, she wanted to take revenge and made all those lights without thinking about the result of that, how she can just think about taking revenge when elders say her something about the mistake which she really made? 😡

4. Gopi is in her pregnancy last stage,, everybody knows she can be little irritated,and all she wanted to make everything perfect, what was her fault when she told rashi to order proper mithai or flower according to modi standards , rashi was angry to gopi not for that, she was angry because she never thought gopi could talk like her in the same way she does, and because gopi wants everything perfect rashi is not able to make money, how selfish is that ?😡

5. She went to gopi's room at night without informing, though ahem is not there 😳, but when koki asked her she could tell truth, if koki scolds also what could happen? Koki could not put her in jail.she just told lies ,how is she so first in telling lies?😡

6.She could not fill all diyas, she just slept, that is fine but when morning she saw and understood how can she tell lie simply ? She is not a little grateful to gopi and moreover she took the credit without thinking once also, how can be she just so heartless?😡

7. She complained to jigar, what is she is thinking about only herself, she wants to get all the credit of gopi's work and still she is not satisfied , what she did not do, how can she ask for that work credit?and why still she not thinking gopi wanted to help?😡

8.rashi wanted to help gopi but why???not that she will like to help, it is only that she wants to prove everybody she is helping gopi, she wants to take the credit because she told that now she will get all appreciation...so there is nowhere sisterly love present it's only a game and all about winning...😡

So with so many 😡 works, rash now made rangoli and she expecting praising from everybody, then what about helping gopi? If she only wants her own work credit then what about those works which gopi did for her? Some of my friends are telling that fighting can happen in sisters, koki is making a big issue of that, but it happens normal there where is love and concern to each other, like if you love somebody then you fight that is normal, happens in family...but if your intension is wrong , you just want to be selfish and think about yourself and fight that is not a normal sisterly fight...where gopi will never give a reply proper way, so there is koki to teach the proper way ...like if you did something wrong when it comes to you why u are sad? Rashi? Wake up now...you need to understand what is family and sister for, family is not for making money and getting all the comforts of life, but also giving doing something for others without expecting the credit...sometimes...sorry if I have hurt some rashi fans, but this is just my point of view...😃